Marriage & Divorce - 2 July 2007

why is it that when some people, be it MEN, or WOMEN, get married, they still want to sleep around. Either on the down low, or with others of the opposite sex. I do not think that is in any weddings vows, or is it? I like some serious responses, please.

2007-07-02 12:11:34 · 17 answers · asked by That one 7

My parent's 25 year anniversary is coming up and I want to do something nice for them or get them something that they can both enjoy...something that will make them remember why they are married and will create new great memories along with the old ones!!!

I'm on a very low budget, so I think we all know what that means haha...

Thanks for the help!

2007-07-02 12:11:05 · 4 answers · asked by βread⊆ℜumbs™ 5

I'm not talking about a long term disability. I'm talking about when one or both of you are temporarily feeling ill (like with a bad cold or flu), do you choose to abstain until you're both feeling better?

2007-07-02 12:10:11 · 17 answers · asked by Zeltar 6

2007-07-02 12:09:05 · 11 answers · asked by lyfeslessons101 1

2007-07-02 12:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by silly_wiket 1

You need to know that even all the attemts you have made to keep your husband away from the other woman have not workded they are still seeing each other on a daily basis. and they are laughing behind your back. your 18 year old marrige is coming to an end and you need to know. I see them around town at lunch hugging and kissing. He does not care about you I have seen them at Victoria Gardens together, He parading around Rancho Cucamonga with her all the time. Hire a detective and you will see. I hope that all of you who know Sandy will tell her this. i can't bear to see this woman hurt anymore. I love you girl But can't keep it from you any more.

2007-07-02 11:58:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-02 11:55:12 · 21 answers · asked by Susan B 1

i was begining to suspect that my husband was beginging to have feeling for his coworker who liked my husband as more than a friend. I had been warning him and arguing with him for the past week telling him that one thing will lead to another if he does't keep it professional between them and if he had already begun to like her. he kept telling me he had it under control and didn't like her so for me to stop asking him well turns out that i was to late as we were finishing up another arguement about her i asked him if he had her cell number he reached over and grabbed his phone saying yes i do have her number and as he was going to show me he had a message from her saying "hey" at 1130 at night he confessed and said he had been talking (texting) to her during work hours and that he had only gone to her because he wanted advice and to talk to someone. he says he doesn't feel anything for her and though nothing had happend yet (because he got caught just a wk after the lying) had i not?

2007-07-02 11:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i never did anything i barely know him just was nice ya know say hello and keep walking and stuff but its wierd he keeps being a pain in my butt. married men act so pathetic sometimes and i have no interest

2007-07-02 11:36:08 · 30 answers · asked by thoosa22 1

My fiance's ex girlfriend (mother of his 2yr old son) needs a place to stay. She lived with her parents and they had a falling out, now she has nowhere to go. Our work schedules make it impossible for us to take the boy from her. My fiance suggested that she could stay here for a month or two til she got back on her feet. Should I even be considering this?

2007-07-02 11:35:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and i have 3 kids together ages 8 ,4,and 2.We met senior year of highschool dated broke up and had a fling year later the result of which is our eldest son.For a year we tried to make it work and get it all together but failed.Few months before my 25 birthday we met up again for a chat because i had just moved back to our home state.We started dating again casually and have been together 4.5 yrs straight ever since.He thinks we should get a marriage license and save up for a cerimony we can have later?I would like to have a small cerimony now along with the marriage license because i am turning 29 soon and if i leave it up to him i will be 30 when the cerimony takes place!Am i beeing childish?

2007-07-02 11:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alot of times when something really terrible happens to someone they dwel on it and try to get sympathy even years later. That is understandable. I have a past too and I know that feeling. (My biological father is a registered sex offender.) To all the people who have past like mine or somewhat like mine I would like to give you a little advise. Don't dwel on your past and mope around and whine about it. Use it. Things like this are what shape your personality. Don't use it as an excuse to make bad grades or be a bum. Use it as and excuse to show other people that you are better. What dosn't kill you will make you stronger. I know that if things didn't happen in my past then i wouldn't be who i am today. And that is something to be thankful for.

2007-07-02 11:33:39 · 11 answers · asked by ~♥~lover~♥~ 3

My spouse-to-be and I are from different states. We are both consenting, old enough, etc. He is a NY resident and I'm a SC resident. We apply for the marriage license together, right? If we were to get married in NY, as long as we both had birth certificates and ID, wouldn't all we would have to do be to appear in front of a clerk of court and sign everything/pay a fee?

What all is involved in our case? How do we get married?!

2007-07-02 11:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by tle t 1

So I know my husband has every right to be mad and I am trying to give him his space and tryin to do everything I can to show him I love him and I want to be with him... but he is doing things that aren't called for... for example... I was on the couch curled up with a blanket because he didnt want to talk to me at the moment... so i was giving him his space... he comes up to me takes the blanket off of me and throws it on the other couch... I dont say anything but get the blanket and curl back up on the couch... he again grabs the blanket and takes it from me but I grabed it in time... he tells me he hates me all the time... even before I told him I cheated... and he wants to know details about what happend... but I think it is pointless information and all it is goin to do is make him more mad.... I want to stay around and show him that I am willing to do anything to work this out... but I also feel like hes goin a lil over the top with this... what should I do???

2007-07-02 11:25:20 · 32 answers · asked by luvsick143 2

The only reason I found out about this is because I knew he was acting "differently" and searched the history on his computer. I found some evidence, and confronted him with my suspicion (which he initially denied of course.) He finally fessed up, was teary and regretful, swore he had deleted his email account, and said it was all just a "fantasy" and that he couldn't believe he almost sacrificed everything we have together. We have 4 kids and have been married 11 years. He said the contact began when she sent him an email out of the blue. They had communication for a couple of months and were planning to meet at a hotel, but says they never did. I don't know what to believe now and it is eating me up inside. I am so angry with him. I am unsure how to resolve my anger and mistrust. He swears that "nothing happened." Any advice/ opinions/ comments on how to move on, or what to believe, are appreciated. What bothers me is that had I not found out myself I would never have known a thing.

2007-07-02 11:23:54 · 35 answers · asked by Saia 2

even if he said it was ok to do so,

2007-07-02 11:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by birddog 2

My friend's husband just cheated on her with his co-worker. He regrets everything and is willing to do anything to earn her trust back. Someone mentioned to him that he should keep a voice recorder on him while he's working, so that his wife knows he's not doing anything. She's asking for my advice. I don't know what to tell her. Is that going too far? Or should she do anything to make her marriage work? Please help....she's really depressed and I don't know what to tell her.....

2007-07-02 11:10:16 · 19 answers · asked by Damon ♥ Elena 6

I have been married for over two years and after a deployment to Afghanistan during which my son was born relations with my wife have deteriorated. She refuses to have sex and the last time was over a month ago. We have gone to counseling and she claims she does not love me anymore. However, I do not wish to divorce because I want my son to have a normal life with a mother and father who love him. The sex situation is intolerable though. She informed me that the only way she would have sex with me was if I paid her $300 per event. I do not wish to cheat on my wife and I think the situation is outrageous. What would you do if you were in my situation? I need advice.

2007-07-02 11:01:24 · 30 answers · asked by subotai77 1

He apparently is a very good liar because I did not have a clue. I had not worked in years, have 3 children but started a job about 5 months ago. When our income tax money came I took it and paid bills. I was afraid he would get it and spend it on drugs. He was furious. A couple of weeks after that he begged to come back home, even having his family call me to say how miserable he was without me & the kids. He has been mentally abusive since, he cusses me & ignores me but talks to everyone else. He says its my fault...that everything would be fine if i would just chill out. I'm now afraid he is just trying to make me look crazy and telling people that he's trying but I'm the one thats mean & abusive. What do you think he's trying to do or am i just being paranoid?

2007-07-02 10:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by ka_ce 1

So I am a little insecure, which is stupid, my live in boyfriend makes me feel wonderful, but a few months ago, I know that he was having doubts about me, so I started out teasing, and just let my acid fingers make a snotty comment while we were chatting. I am not sure why I do this. We have been doing great, reconnecting, honestly I've been feeling more loved over the last few days than ever, he's been perfect, I've been working on controlling my inner *****, but it just slips up every now and again. Anyway have any tips? Maybe I should just always pause before saying anything. I was trying to be funny, and really just made an *** out of myself... I mean I feel like a real jerk right now.

signed,
Foot Permanently Stuck in Mouth

2007-07-02 10:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by Lost and Confused 2

read this one:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmgvQvtoSJqbZ704b_W6z1rsy6IX?qid=20070702131153AA6RYnZ&show=7#profile-info-ZBuBKK2Raa

"Take it to the grave"

But if a man cheats...take him for all he's worth and he's the scum of the earth.

I understand that women need many lovers in their lifetime...and I accept this.

But why does it have to be the end of the world if a man cheats?

I still don't get it.

So as long as I keep my mouth shut...I guess I should be able to cheat too right?

2007-07-02 10:31:06 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3

ok..my brother and my sister in law have been married for about 3 years..i found out about my sister in law cheating on my brother about 3 months ago through their msn chats...it shook my world because i thought she was a simple innocent girl but i was wrong..i told my brother, but he did not believe it at all, and my sister in law's sister took the blame on her...i caught her 2nd time as well, through facebook msgs which werent so bad, but he still didnt believe me...now ive found more proof..what should i do ? im afraid my brother might hurt himself, and that when my parents find out they will have health problems..since my dad has already had a heart attack mainly because of stress and tension..please help..

2007-07-02 10:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by JamesA 1

Iwas looking at a car passing by and just because there was a woman in the passenger seat i was accused of ogling. I could tell her the type of rims, custom color, and model of the car , she didnt even know the type and she knows cars , but she could tell me everything 'I' noticed about the passenger. So who was looking at the car and who was really looking at the passenger? And with all that info why does she feel she's correct?

2007-07-02 10:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by Mike 1

i really hate it when i meet someone and then later on they just let themselfs go. get fat, stop dressing sexy!!!

i want to look the best for my girl and i try to make her happy, and she does the same for me but i see so many couples just stop trying to be the best for there loved one

2007-07-02 10:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-02 10:01:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

^How long did you wait before marriage and how did you know it was the right time to get married?


Please only answer if you are in a successful marriage.

2007-07-02 09:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a falling out with a guy I had an affair with for three years - how do I get him to speak to me again? He blocked me from AIM, won't return emails or texts either. Will he ever forgive me?

2007-07-02 09:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

Hello! I'm 22, got married at 19, am miserable now. Was emotionally immature and trying to escape a bad home life that made me at times literally suicidal...it was stupid of me, but it never occurred to me that I could just move out. I thought I would find fulfillment in him. Everyone told me he was such a good man (and he is) , I didn't want to be alone so I and married him. I'm not in love with him. He's moderately abusive in the emotional sense. I don't want to hurt him but I finally realize what I've done and I don't know if I can do this anymore. Right now I feel like I'm only staying because (1) to not hurt him and upset our families (mine would probably disown me), and (2) I'd be financially destitute and it would set my career/school life back years. BUT I don't know if I have it in me to be a wife to him and I feel sick when I think of staying and having kids with him. I don't want to string him along. More counseling? Divorce? Stay on the chance I might be happier one day?

2007-07-02 09:44:22 · 20 answers · asked by MamboMama 2

Girls Only.

2007-07-02 09:41:25 · 27 answers · asked by arnold m 1

Efective strategy or manipulation?

2007-07-02 09:18:06 · 9 answers · asked by Equinoxical ™ 5