2007-07-02 12:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by silly_wiket 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I have tried breaking up with him before but he kept saying is that really what you want and crying and telling me that he will do anything and i felt bad to because we have a child...everything is making me feel guilty...I have been talking to another man who gives me emotional attention and I now seem to can't live with out that. But I really don't want this to get to messy.
2007-07-02 12:23:49 · update #1
Lets see marriage and then kids dosn't help thats why people get divorces have you heard of them..There are many things I'm leaving out for instance the way I'm treated which since I'm not happy you may guess I'm not being treated to my standard....Anyhoo My point to the chick who commented on the marriage thing in case your living 100 years ago in you mind....Marriage dosn't solve one thing.
2007-07-02 14:15:27 · update #2
If you want out of the relationship then you need to be strong, be honest, step up to the plate and let him know that you want out.
He will be hurt, he may be mad but he will be less hurt and mad than if you try to manipulate him.
2007-07-02 12:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up for one. If YOU are unhappy and want to end it then YOU leave the relationship. He's gonna get hurt no matter what you do but its better and more mature to be honest and tell him that its just not working out anymore and tell him why and to do it sooner rather than wait and push him away and piss him off and try to make him do it especially if you have a child. But you are in the wrong for having an "emotional" relationship with another man. Thats just as bad as cheating on him.
2007-07-02 19:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Martinez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. Breaking up sucks no matter how you do it. Better to save him the pain of guessing for weeks or months and just tell him you want to break up. He will respect you more in the long run for this.
2007-07-02 19:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by LG 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats the first step to game playing right there. Don't even think about doing that. It's a terrible thing to do.
2007-07-02 19:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Cant Help It 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is why we do not have children until marriage. You are very selfish to break apart your child's family.
2007-07-02 19:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him that he's too much man for you to handle.
2007-07-02 19:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you've already made a mess, don't you?
2007-07-02 19:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by grneyes8621 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him know that you are not happy.
2007-07-02 19:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋