Marriage & Divorce - 2 July 2007

i'm a little depressed latly

2007-07-02 09:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can you keep the butterflies , the Im never hungry feeling cause youre pretty much living on love ? What are things you can do to have that feeling again ? Ive been with my husband for 6 years and I WISH I still had that feeling !!!!

2007-07-02 09:09:06 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_manzana_verde 2

We have been engaged for 2 yrs and he just got out of debt and has some extra money now.I want to put money away for a house/wedding(both of us) but instead he keeps buying expensive stuff(drums/car stuff/guns) that total over 3k with no signs of stoping.He knows i have my share of the money for the house/wedding but he will not put any away himself(he wants to buy a house too).I can't help but think he expects me to put the whole down payment on the house.When i have talked to him about it he says he will put his share of the wedding on a c.c but what about the down payment on a house?I think now that his debt is cleared up and he has extra money some of it should go in the bank to pay for these things rather than buying expensive toys.

2007-07-02 09:07:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Finally peace and quiet but now I am bored. Any suggestions on what I can do? The house is clean and nothing is on tv. HELP

2007-07-02 09:00:17 · 42 answers · asked by Nicole 2

My husband lied to me and went to a party with young 20's (some underage) drinking party, no married couples, no children and he thought this was okay. I was ticked. I waited up for him until 2:00 when he came up to bed and said he had come home awhile ago and fell asleep on the couch (I saw him when he got home which was about ten minutes before he walked in the bedroom). Am I over reacting or is he being a jerk?

2007-07-02 08:59:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think someone can cheat only once and say they feel like its the worst mistake they have ever made and if put in that position agian do you think they would not cheat again?

2007-07-02 08:53:20 · 14 answers · asked by chicksmom 2

I was dating a guy who was married as well as me. We have both since filed for divorce. His spouse is still living with him.
My spouse is too. My spouse and I have 2 children. The other couple does not have any together. Although, the wife has a daughter from a previous relationship. I feel that he is pulling away from me. He keeps saying nothing has changed. He keeps asking me to be patient. I keep asking him to to be patient for what. I never seem to get a straight answer. He keeps telling me that he has a lot on his plate right now. His company is very slow now. I know he is really concerned with his finances. He also has to replace something very expensive at his home that is broke. He was not prepared for the expense.
I constantly feel like he is still sleeping with his wife. He says he is not. There have been a few opportunities that we could have gotten together and he always seems to be busy or doesnt answer his cell phone. what do you think?

2007-07-02 08:41:46 · 26 answers · asked by pnutt777 1

What would you pay him for his Escort Services*?

2007-07-02 08:37:44 · 12 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

My ex who is mexican says this is true but then I said"how come there is so much mexican girls here in cali are having sex and getting pregnant at 13 -1 6"

2007-07-02 08:29:40 · 10 answers · asked by innocentheartbreakerr 1

I know I am only 16 and he is 18 but I think about marrying my guy every day that is how much I love him...I dont want to get married right now but after college, I just want him to be the one I spend the rest of my life with...I worry about what he is going to do with his life because he has always wanted to be a Marine..I think about marriage even though I know it is not a good time...Is that so bad...

2007-07-02 08:28:26 · 24 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2

when life itself is turning into compremise ,it really is bothering me very hard.i don't claim i never make any mistakes, i do make some ,but inspite of everything i always think abt my husband and child,i hardly take any time for me,still i cannot satisfy my husband and he is not happy with me.i tried talking ,but in vein.now i think i should be silent forever,but this silence is killing me.

2007-07-02 08:24:01 · 34 answers · asked by udhi 1

2007-07-02 08:00:15 · 34 answers · asked by ifhusain 4

Is marriage really "like hold on the ride or I may get thrown off"?
or is it easier then the single life?

I know the single part. How do you like it? or don't you?

Where does a single person go on the 4th?? :(

Am I waiting for the one and only and then I get let down? I mean maybe I am asking too much, but I always had a dream wedding planned? Is it far reached or reality?

2007-07-02 07:56:58 · 5 answers · asked by queenofsiberia 3

2007-07-02 07:42:38 · 39 answers · asked by Para R 1

My wife and I have been arguing for several months and she's asked for a divorce.

We have just put every cent into buying a new home and moved in approximately 9 weeks ago. If we are to sell our house now usinga real estate agent, we would be financially ruined. Each of us would walk away with about $20,0000 in debt and this does not take into account the costs of a divorce.
I feel our differences are not big enough to justify a divorce yet she is now firm on this decisoion ver agonoizing on it for about 10 days (based on a fight, but we've beeen bickering for about 6 months).

I want to work things out with her... we've been together for 7 years most of which has really been wonderful. we still love each other but she questions whether or not she is happy these days.

For the life of me, I have no idea what to do.

2007-07-02 07:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4

We've been married 7 months, shes 18 and i'm 22. Things have been going along so great for us, especially lately. We went on a trip for her birthday and everything was great. Today was the first day she moved in with me because her dad wouldn't let her until today and shes' been wanting to move in so bad and now that shes here she is upset and angry and won't talk about anything, she cries and is depressed and she up and left me and left her ring on the counter and says she won't be back for a couple days. What happened? I'm totally blindsided by this one?

2007-07-02 07:22:25 · 5 answers · asked by riowildfire 2

or more assets if the other spouse cheated?

2007-07-02 07:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother and father where in the military for a long time. They divorced and my father has to pay $310.00 a month. In the divorce decree I keep getting paid every month until I'm 23 years old and in college. The last time I was paid was May 2006! The only way it stops is if I'm marriered or drop out of college. He stop the money cause he thinks I'm not in college, but I have sent him transcripts and report cards every semester. He is a college professioar at USC and a middle school JROTC sargent. He just bilt a house and owns 4 cars. He has cut my brother and sisters child support as well!!

I'm a college student, and he needs to be a real father and pay me, he has told me the only way I get paid is if I take him to court! So, I called Judge Joe Brown, which I'll be taking him to court. They told he I would have to serve him. So how do I serve my father to go to court!!??

2007-07-02 07:19:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshyne 1

2007-07-02 07:16:11 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly L 4

my gf and I want to have intercourse but shes afraid shell become pregnant or her parents will find out..is there anything I could do to make her relax and/or convince that everything will be alright? should I just wait it out? I dont want to force her...so how would i do this in a calm fashion?

2007-07-02 07:15:23 · 7 answers · asked by Samuel B 1

what do you think his excuse will be?

2007-07-02 07:10:36 · 58 answers · asked by Lisa T 6

I do know that it is without a jury(duh), but what is a merits trial?

2007-07-02 07:09:52 · 2 answers · asked by just me 2

2007-07-02 07:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by bubblescg2008 2

A friend is getting a divorce after seven years of marriage. His house was given as a gift to both for the wedding by her parents. His name is on the deed and he has been paying the mortgage for 7 years. There is around 600K equity on house should or can he take half? Is it ethical. I'm thinking if roles were reversed she would absolutely take half. Is that good enough reason for him to do the same?

2007-07-02 07:08:18 · 26 answers · asked by chillypowder 3

Ex filed for custody of our kids he hasn't seen in over a month (his choice) and Ive already responded. Now what happens?

2007-07-02 06:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by Starr 2

How many of you would like to strangle your ex-spouses ??

2007-07-02 06:48:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our order is for every other weekend here in nyc but his is relocating VA and has not been working since Feb. 07. He wants to adjust the order to change the time. He is not reliable or stable. He moves from woman to woman and dragging my children through it and is not paying his child support at all he owes close to $15,000.

2007-07-02 06:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by Diane C 2

I'm in a great relationship but feel in a way like what's the point of getting married? So many marriages end in divorce.

2007-07-02 06:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by RDwannabe 2

We were on the same cell phone plan for the last 5years and everything was fine. Now he wants to take me off his plan. he told me the day b4 he wanted to get a smaller plan and the next morning i woke up and my phone was off. He didnt even give me a chance to find another plan or anything. Im pertty upset and i want to tell him about it. I called and got it cut back on and i paid the bill myself. Am i wrong?

2007-07-02 06:39:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-02 06:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by lola iska 1