if you really had to choose, and marry a person, would you marry someone who you loved (crazily) but they didnt love you, or someone who loved you (crazily) but you didnt love them?
and you have to choose one!
2007-07-02 18:15:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would choose some one who loved me because maybe they would grow on me and the other way around could be very unhealthy having those type of feelings for someone who didn't give a damn about me i know how to be faithful and make the best of what i have but who knows what somebody who dosent care about me anyway would do.
2007-07-02 18:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by im whats up! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would marry someone who crazily loved me... because that is SO SEXY and I would have no choice but to fall right in love with that guy!
2007-07-02 18:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by katiebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 of the people who answered said they would choose the person who loved them.
Only 3 chose to marry the person they loved instead.
6 did not answer your hypothetical question (answers such as "neither" or "my husband married me because he fell in love with me" fall into this category).
I would marry someone who I loved crazily but who did not love me, because I possess an over-abundance of cockiness -- somehow I would MAKE it work! So, with my answer, your stats go to 15-4-6.
2007-07-03 02:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who i loved crazily
2007-07-02 21:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non I would wait to find the one who crazily loves me and I crazily love him
2007-07-02 19:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by lost-in-love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! This is a tough question. Hmmm..... Yes! I pick the first statement than the second one. Marry with someone crazily love you bout you don't love them is far more worse to each happiness and relationship than you marry the one you love but he/she does'nt love you at all. At least..... there is always an oppurtunity for YOU to work it up for a love, isn't it than nothing at all. Marriage won't succeed if there isn't any effort to make it happen.
2007-07-02 18:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd marry someone who loved me, but I didn't love them. It's said that it's better to marry someone who loves you more, because then you may grow to love them. Whereas, if you marry someone you love crazily, but they don't love you, you'll only grow weary and frustrated.
2007-07-02 19:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I had to choose one I would choose them loving me and me not loving them .. it is a horrible choice to make but I guess at least that way you would get something out of the relationship.
Hope to never have to find out!
2007-07-02 22:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who loved me cause i know that i could make due, even though Id feel horrible. But if the person is uterly unbearable then i would go with no one cause i dont want to be the stalker...wait...i have to pick so yeah, but if they are annoying they might go missing, so marrying someone who doesnt like me wouldnt seem so bad.
2007-07-02 18:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was required to pick a wife of these two, I suspect that I may choose the one that was "crazy" in love with me and hope that I was able to return her love within time. That way there wouldn't be any guess work on my part. Just a guess.
2007-07-02 18:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋