My wife and I have decided to separate and move towards divorce.
Should I be able to care that she is now contacting ex-boyfriends? Seems like it should be none of my business but it also seems kinda classlesss
2007-07-02 19:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the 2 of you are still living in the same home, then ya that IS classless! very. Tell her to at least wait till shes out the door. wow. good-luck.
2007-07-02 19:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already decided that divorce is what your going to do then no are right that you shouldn't be concerned. Also it seems fitting that you don't approve..another reason your divorcing....differences. Divorce is not easy not ever I don't think. The faster she moves on..you should too. Not meaning you should find someone else but don't make her affairs your business, its going to hurt. Move out, distance yourself so you don't have to see or hear any of her actions. Best Wishes.
2007-07-03 03:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it should sting no matter what the circumstances are. It's pretty much something you'll have to find a way to deal with, nothing can be done about it. She may just be feeling THAT desperate. Divorce is very hard and reactions to it are different for different reasons. You may think your ex hates you when in fact they feel you don't want them and its over so they try to feel things they wish they could feel.
2007-07-03 02:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by cindy h 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were a willing participant with the idea of separation and divorce. So, what's the problem?
2007-07-03 06:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the circumstances of your divorce. However, it is probably her attempt at retrieving her self-esteem, which can be brutally damaged during a divorce. I would recommend you stay out of it and let her ride her own whirlwind.
2007-07-03 02:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by mula012 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you still love her.
2007-07-03 02:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a girl friend.
2007-07-03 02:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your jealous because she's not wasting anytime ... she's moving on.
2007-07-03 03:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋