Hi. I have had other postings on here regarding this. I am beyond inlove with this girl that is with an idiot that now just uses her for sex. Anyway I posted everything previously so if there is anyway to view it please do. People have told me to move on. I REALLY CANT. PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME WAIT TILL THIS GUY IS GONE WHICH SHE IS CRAZY ABOUT & WONT LEAVE HIM & HE TREATS HER BAD! I asked on here when anyone thought the relationship would end etc. People have told me to back off a bit. Okay so I talk to her here & there. WELL This new guy literally came out of nowhere sorta just like showed up. Funny that she would not leave this other guy for nothing yet something starting with this new friend. You can see it of course. He is actually nice though. Who knows what the future holds but I see a relationship starting. He is also 10 years older by the way. Yes I want to see her happy but come on anyone who has been in my posision knows its hard not to be MAD. Continued.....
2007-07-02 22:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any advice would be appreciated! What do you think is going to happen? Thanks everyone for devoted your time to answer questions & all who have helped me by answering precious questions! God Bless! Thanks again in advance...IM REALLY STARTING TO GO CRAZY 2 YEARS FINALLY HER OTHER RELATIONSHIP ALMOST OVER &NOW THIS. I LOVE ABSOLOUTLY EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS GIRL. I LET HER KNOW NOT TO LONG AGO WHAT I MEANT THAT I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER & LOVE HER ETC. DO I TELL HER THE REST OF MY FEELINGS??? NOW??? THANKS!
2007-07-02 22:35:58 · update #1
Obviously, you are the "Friend" that she will NEVER see as a potential beau! It is obvious she want to date others, and you are forever relegated to the "Friend" section.
I know, it sucks, but you can't FORCE her to see you any other way! Sorry!
2007-07-02 22:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience, it sounds like this girl is no more interested in a serious relationship with you other than just being friends, sorry. Your feelings obvisiously dont match hers so nothing will ever happen. This hppens in the game of love. This isnt to say that something may never happen but not now or in the near future so either you wait for however long or move on. Just let hr know youre there for her but dont force your feelings on her as it probably would do more damage than good. You just dont fill that need in her love life right now but who knows on down the road. Some girls actually thrive on the way theyre treated in a relationship so dont judge a relationship by whats happening from within. Shes old enough to know when enough is enough and she doesnt have to take that crap anymore and moves on by herself. Shes lucky to have such a good friend thats so interested in her well being and hopefully one day she will realize this and change her thinking of you as just a friend. Good luck
2007-07-02 22:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are just some girls who will always pick the bastard over the nice guy. The nicer you are, the more she'll run. If she won't listen to your advice, will she listen to someone else's ie friend of family? Its hard to leave someone you care about when you know they are not in a good place. Maybe be there for her when she needs a friend, but make sure you protect yourself and your feelings. There are girls out their who do like Nice Guys. Good Luck.
2007-07-02 22:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Krisso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I been in the exact situation b4, and dude, if she doesn't already know then you either need to forget about her cuz she is not interested in you that way, more as a friend, or tell her straight up that you don't care what her bf does, and you want to be with her and you have wanted to be with her for that long...
Good luck
2007-07-02 22:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by crewbrotha86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm she sounds like a ***** to me
2007-07-02 22:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she has never taken you seriously, you should move on. There are better girls than this s*l*u*T
2007-07-02 22:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Just Ordinary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋