2007-07-02 17:40:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No! When we married my spouse was 50 pounds lighter. He is worried about his weight being a problem for me but i just keep on reassuring him that it is fine. I do want to make sure he is healthy though. If it is harder for you to "get turned on" rethink what "love" means and do not confuse it with lust. point blank if you are watching too much tv with all skinny people and lusting after how they look.....my advice would be turn off the tv and watch your spouse and see how they act and react to your emotions, actions, etc. and you will see a dramatic change in your behind closed doors with your spouse. Remember you might not always look like you do now. My first hisband (yes we divorced wanted me to be like a barbie doll) i was always under the pressure of looking great. now we are divorced i am happily married to another man and my ex is well how can i say this huger than ever and alone! my ex and i have been divorced for almost 20 years. that's a long time to be reaping what you sew. think about it
2007-07-02 18:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by wow1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES - my wife has not gained weight but it would bother me. It also not about being turned on but also the fact that person does not put health as a priority. If both have gained weight the it probably would not matter as much but if one is slim it can be a issue.
2007-07-02 18:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No my husband is a little thicker around the waist and i'm still as attracted to him as the day we met. I love him for soo much more than the way he looks. I find him attractive inside and out.
2007-07-02 17:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by reggie29 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does, my ex has gained quite a few extra pounds. We are still friends with privileges. But still it doesn't do much for the moment.
2007-07-02 17:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My husband was pretty big when we first started dating...then he lost about 70 pounds and I was "ALL OVER HIM" I couldn't get enough of him. Now he's put about 20 pounds back on...I'm still really attracted to him..but I "prefer" him smaller...make sense?
2007-07-02 17:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being larger does not change the person. It's what's in the heart that truely matters.
2007-07-02 18:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by justme 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not if you love the person unconditionally, which you should...
2007-07-03 00:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
single here and male . no it wouldnt bother me . my opion?
2007-07-02 17:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no it's not....i guess when you really love someone it doesn't matter what they look like!
2007-07-02 17:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Z 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i love my big daddys fat roll!
2007-07-02 17:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by im whats up! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋