As the whole surrounding is with negative attitude with him except the wife then how can the wife help him?
but he is totaly negative for every one also wife.
he considers that he is best and no one want to appreciate me.
he always passes comment on wife who behaves positively with him. Eg, u r stupid, u r emotional fool, u dont know how to deal with ur husband, i dont know how u will comeup in life, please help me for the answer
2007-07-02 16:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by rimple m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you need to talk to someone, therapist or spiritual adviser, to see what is going on with a neutral party trying to help out. If that wouldn't work maybe talk to parents or other couples you trust might work.
2007-07-02 16:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him he's negative all the time he'll probably take it in offense...why not try taking him to church, that may help or talk to him about how you feel , he has to want to change himself, there is no possible way you can change him yourself, he has to want to do it himself, just be there for him keep a positive attitude and try your best to help him.
2007-07-02 16:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't in love with his wife because he's already given his heart to his true love...himself. She should decide she is worth more than being his doormat.
2007-07-02 16:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by southerngifts4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not change your husband, you can only change what you are doing. Stop worrying about what he thinks of you and don't listen to him when he calls you names. To thine own self be true.
2007-07-02 16:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you gotta realize that you can't change another person.
2007-07-02 16:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋