guys---instructions on sex?

Question

ok, i've slept with a few men, some as old as 40... and guys you don't have a clue. i'm bi and been with women...

i always feel like i'm a sex instructor, and i'm tired of the effort of training.

men need to be taught for our sake?

Men and Women My QUESTION IS?

men would you ever consider paying someone to teach you how to satisfy a woman

women do you wish men would pay someone to learn how to satisfy you?

if so what would it be worth?

Answer 1

yes i'd pay for my husband to learn... been trying to teach the man for our entire marriage....

i'd say $150 a hour session that's what i'd pay for my therapist to deal with the fact he sucks in bed

Answer 2

You need to find some decent guys.

Sex should be a planned and special experience every time, with as much time spent thinking in preparation as executing the deed.

This doesn't mean spontaneous sex is bad, just that too many people start off with no plan on how they will go about pleasuring their partner - so its quick and nasty.

Plus there are lot of ignorant people who have no idea what their own body can do, let alone what their lovers body is capable of. We can thank stupid religious teachings and cultural practices for this.
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Answer 3

You have a wife and you are engage somewhere else, you won't be in the position to satisfy your wife. Teaching is unnecessary but to stop going after other women, and eventually you will have enough time to your famil hence satisfying each other. Like wise to women.

Answer 4

Um, excuse me, but I am fantastically outstanding in bed, and could teach YOU a few things. But you couldn't afford me! HA!
If you're tired of being the instructor, then become a nun and quit your bitching.
And why is your question slanted so that the man has to pay? If your man isn't good for you, why don't YOU pay to get him some help? YOU hire the wh**e to teach him.
Stupid, selfish question.

Answer 5

I can show them, why do you need a third party, if you can't talk to him why should jhe learn how to satisfy you, communication is the key. If to embarrassed then it must not be to important to you plus you never know talking about it just might get things started in the right direction

Answer 6

A feminist spin on prostitution. Really, I enjoy teaching or maybe I got sick of it and that's why I got married, now I've just got one man. Haha!

Yes, some men are clueless. Do you know why men are clueless? It has to do with sexual taboos. Women who enjoy sex are sluts. Okay, not really, but that's the general assumption. Women are told that we like to have sex for 'emotional reasons' and 'closeness' wheras men are enjoying the physical pleasures. More bull? Indeed, but that's what happens.

Now, because women believe that enjoying sex is this bad thing or that ladies don't masturbate, women don't know how to tell their lovers what's good and what's not good etc.

Men are much more forward about these things or at least I've noticed in my own experiences that men are not shy about getting off.

Now, I'm sure you've had to deal with some clingy guy who thinks a shared orgasm is some kind of love and you know that sex is a physical act which may or may not reflect love. This kind of thinking? It's not acceptable.

Women are trained not to enjoy sex, by other women and by men. How easy is it for a man when he doesn't have to even believe in the possibility of a female orgasm and all he has to do is listen to her talk about her 'feelings' and buy her some shiny jewels and flowers? It's too easy.

Teach men how to please a woman? Yea, right. Men don't want to please women. They want it easy. They just want to say, "It's making love baby."

Instead of teaching men how to please women, teach women how to please themselves and how to talk about sex and that yes, having sex for a physical release is good! This way, women will stop hurting eachother when it comes to sexual satisfaction and men? Well, they'll either have to catch on that women enjoy sex just as much as they do or get themselves a rubber vagina.

Answer 7

Some guys pay attention to what the gals like, some don't. Personally I like to know how they feel, each one is different, so I like to learn. Some guys just worry about themselves. I would love to take instruction, so I could graduate with honors.The more I learn, the more claw marks on my back, and harder it is for me to hear.

Answer 8

My aren't you a generous lover. It sounds like after one or two of your "lessons" the person (or persons) take off. Just what some guy or gal needs in bed.....

....."alright stupid stop what you are doing. Now put this hand here and this thumb there and try to STOP DOING THAT YOU AZZ HOLE, now move over here...."

Yeah sex, it's all about you.

Answer 9

You have to pick one partner and let them how,what and where you like it.Different people have different dizziers,different ways of satisfaction.You can't expect everybody know yours.

Answer 10

i wont pay coz i know will some 1 pay me ?