Marriage & Divorce - 4 July 2007

...and is in an abusive relationship..and has seen me steadily for about 6 months secretly...will she move with me and marry me?

2007-07-04 11:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by extrapacker 1

2007-07-04 11:37:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was supposed to get married on Sept 15th of this year. I just found out that my fiance (now ex-fiance) kissed her boss at work (100% confident it was a kiss, and a passionate one). When I confronted her about it, she lied to my face for days before I was able to dig up enough proof that she couldn't deny. She was deleting calls made to/from him every Thurs (poker night). She was married before and cheated on her first husband with this boss (for over a year; not an isolated incident). The boss is 15 years older, married, and has 2 kids of his own. To make matters worse, her and I bought a house together 9 months ago (in both our names) and neither can afford it on our own. If we refinance it in one of our names, we lose the employee discount we originally got on the loan rate as well (plus we would also now need to purchase mortgage insurance). We would have to sell the house for 10K more today than we bought it for to break even (and the market isn't there). What are your thoughts?

2007-07-04 11:24:32 · 26 answers · asked by jamsch1978 2

holding hands kissing cuddling etc?

2007-07-04 11:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1

...she is still involved with another guy, does she really love you?

2007-07-04 11:17:03 · 13 answers · asked by extrapacker 1

2007-07-04 11:05:40 · 25 answers · asked by stefan l 1

I have a question. According to mark 19:9, luke 16:18, and scripture in the bible regarding adultery. According to god, a marriage is a promise made before god to commit to a partner for the remainder of life, to which no man can separate. People think of adultery as cheating on your spouse, when god states this as "except for the cause of sexual immorality" but the bible clearly states adultery by definition is remarriage after divorce. God also says to flee fornication, meaning to run away and fast... as if in danger.

I have kept myself pure but I am middle aged now, and the majority of selection for men are divorced men. It does not mean they are bad people, but anyone that is divorced with the exception that their wife cheated on them, and not vice versa is off limits due to the potential sin of adultery. What is sad, is that if I fall in love with a divorced man, and he has no conscience for scripture - then he will find love with another women. I know it is adultery for me

2007-07-04 10:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by EM-water2 6

I am really fed up my husband is going out almost everynight, dont get me wrong i dont mind him having the odd night out but its getting more frequent , i have tried talking to him and he doesnt seem to think he is doing any harm , do you think im being selfish for wanting him to stay in a bit more ? i feel like we are drifting apart we have been married 17 years and have 3 children

2007-07-04 10:56:11 · 31 answers · asked by michelle G 3

I just moved back in with my husband after being seperated for 1 year. There were a lot of problems. He was lying. That was the major issue. During counseling one issue that I braught up was his porn habit. He said he stopped. But I found out that he's been looking at it. I don't care much that he looks at it. I find it really upsetting that he lied. Again. He has lied about major things. I moved in only 3 days ago and he says I can move out if I don't like it. I feel stressed. We have a 5 year old daughter together. I have no family around and I was so happy living alone. I wasnted to give the marriage another chance. But I feel I will never be able to satisfy this man. He hurts me. I feel so lonely and scared.

2007-07-04 10:54:03 · 13 answers · asked by kelly 2

My husband has a past with this one woman who was his first, which was more then 20 yrs ago. He went out with her again when at same time dating a very nice outgoing girl. And again when he was single short yrs ago. When (we) dated, she came again at a xmas party uninvited to ask him if he has any plans? Which at that time he told her he was seeing me. We have been married so far for 3 yrs became good christains who love the Lord. Now this woman is back in the picture once again showing up at my husbands old buddies partys here + there asking about him. I feel in the middle and fear of losing him. I don't feel right about this at all. My husband being a christain wants to see them and (her) to preach to them which i told him,"they can get it else where if we pray for someone else to step in to share Gods word not you! and leave the past in past!!" i want to know why men go back to the same woman of the past over and over? Our sex is good with oral sex as well!!!!!

2007-07-04 10:47:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

no, im not your normal guy...i love everything about the topic, think about it every second of everyday, and i'd love to be a part of the adult entertainment industry

ever since i was a youngster...girls have fascinated me!

WHY AM I LIKE THIS??

and no im not perverted or anything lol

2007-07-04 10:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to get married at my local courthouse but dont know how exactly to do it, somone told me I would need to apply for a marridge licence first, i thought you just went to the courthouse and got married, i never knew about this applying for a marrige licence before. Somone please tell me if they know how to go about doing this. Seriouse answers only please.

2007-07-04 10:30:33 · 19 answers · asked by rn_bratt 2

What made you leave? Did you stay with the person? If not, why? Do you have kids? Did you tell your spouse the reason you were leaving? Would you have left if you hadn't found someone else? Do you regret it?

2007-07-04 10:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by shoegal0675 2

We were together for 8 years. No kids I have forgiven him for lying to me about being married, then for cheating on me, so many other things. Then 2 months ago I found out for the last 4 months he's been lying yet again! This time he told me his father had brain surgery. Every week for 4 months he'd go visit him at the hospital and he would even cry about it to me saying he's scared he may die. We'll oneday I called and guess who answered! His dying father whose never been sick yet alone in the hospital. He said he lyed so he could stay overnight away from me - he only did that like 4 times in the 4 months but still. Why lie especially that. So now I told him I need space and don't want to be with him anymore and he will not respect it. He calls and leaves messages and just won't quit. I feel like he is killing my spirit slowly and even when I tell him this he still keeps calling saying he can't get through the day without contacting me. What do I do? I am so stressed out!

2007-07-04 10:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he clipped his wifes nails today..is that supposed to mean anything.. or is it a show off or just simple affection?

2007-07-04 10:17:20 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2

I grew up a country boy that not too many people wanted. I worked the farms with a few other guys in the same boat until I was 18 and joined the Navy 15 years ago. My retirement is set, my bills are paid and I own land back there on the river. I'm only 34 and all I think about is living my life on that river in peace and happiness. Settle down with a little cutie, lay in my hammock and watch the water go by with a yellow lab nearby.

I'm a vet so insurance is covered if I have trouble finding work. Can somebody talk some sense in me?

2007-07-04 09:59:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off I was married before and I have 2 kids (age 5 and 2). I have been with my bf for about 10 months now. He has a god daughter that is having a bday party this weekend (turning 2). My kid's father was going to pick them up this weekend but my bf said maybe we should have him swap it to next weekend so that the 2 yr old can go with him (my bf) to the party. and me and my 5 yr old can have a fun girls day.

Here is the part that makes me wonder- the mother of his god daughter is his ex-fiance. I assumed since the kids wouldnt be here I would go with him to the party. he called today from work and made it a point that he just wanted the baby to go and that I should do something with my daughter. Not that I wouldn't love to have alone time with her but it is just I have a gut feeling that there is another reason he would rather me stay behind. I try not to be jealous of this girl but it seems he harbors feelings for her & she for him.
Should I be worried about it or let him go?

2007-07-04 09:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by angelbabies98517 1

You come across your mate's personal address book. Do you glance at it?

2007-07-04 09:55:31 · 20 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7

My chicken keep peckin up da other 3 chicken all de time and kill one chickens alredy. I try to seprate dis chicken but den he stop eatin no mo. How I stop chicken from doin dis?

2007-07-04 09:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by Buckwheat 3

I have been with my boyfriend for five years now. We have a daughter together. He has been acting very strange lately. He doesn't come up and give me a kiss or hug when he gets home from work, he doesn'talk to me anymore, he doesn't even go to bed when I do anymore(he stays up and watchs tv and falls asleep on the couch), and he has been getting home from work later and later. He hasn't acted like this since last year. And when he did act like this I made a mistake and had affair with someone else. I love him so much but I had lived with him for two years and he treated me more like a room mate than a girlfriend. I tried to talk to him numerous times before it got that bad but he never wanted to talk to me. After I cheated on him I have be paying for my mistake. I have put up with smart comments and hurtful cold shoulders. I don't say anything about it because I know it is partially my fault. But now he is telling me that he is debating on staying with afriend for while.Whatshould I do

2007-07-04 09:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How relible is he/she? Like you make plans, how high is the propability it is gonna happen? (Married or long lasting relationships only, please)

2007-07-04 08:50:43 · 11 answers · asked by aaja 3

i won the lottery in my state 4 mo ago and i have not told anyone because my family is always fighting so if i reveal this theres no telling what will happen not only that i'm going through a divorce with my wife of six years she does not know either what should i do i'm a very handsome quiet guy who works two jobs

2007-07-04 08:41:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont want to just tell him to ask me to marry me but i really want him to ask my mom and dad for my hand.

2007-07-04 08:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by ghettofabshay 2

2007-07-04 07:48:12 · 14 answers · asked by Destiny 4

We filed for divorce because he still had a girlfriend and is living with her. He told his parents about our divorce but not about the girlfriend. They knew about her a year ago, but thought she was gone. Why can't he tell them the truth?

2007-07-04 06:44:11 · 17 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

I've been separated for almost four years, and everyday my ex (he cheated on me) does more things to annoy me or hurt me. We have a 8 years old girl and that's the only reason I've tried to have a civilized relationship with him. I dont want to keep our wedding pictures (or any one from when we were dating), but I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing and wont regret it. Please help me. Thanks!!!

2007-07-04 06:33:25 · 33 answers · asked by CARTAGENA 1

HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY!!! Today I celebrate my independence! Do you? Or perhaps you are spending yours with a significant other? What are your plans today?

2007-07-04 06:28:38 · 16 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

i mean we are facing so many problems y we must get other life to face same problem

2007-07-04 06:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by lubbu 2

2007-07-04 06:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay after 4 years of marriage seperated for 6 months my husband has anger managment issues . I am getting a divorce though i have not told my husband yet.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a prior relationship who has only seen her biological dad a hand full of times when she was a newborn.Her father does send her presents and transfers money every few months into my account.Her dad is a russian business man who travels a lot and is a bit cold in apperance(he spent time in russian prison).I think my divorce and move may be easier on her if her real dad and her meet possibly start a relationship?

2007-07-04 06:09:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous