2007-07-04 06:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No thing Can be Said after all that ,
You must go now if every thing is good as you say , what do you waiting for , i know this , they call it marriage hesitation , you are afraid to lose your past joys and happiness of being free and doing what ever you wanna do ,
but who said after marriage you will not be free , make a plan with your partner sharing her your thoughts and think by loud
dont worry from marriage may be it is the best thing you are about to do
Good Luck
2007-07-04 07:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hello G! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this, why are you asking this question here from a bunch of people who dont' know you, don't know your circumstance? Have people in your real life been telling you it's not a good idea? Are you having second thoughts?
You need to examine yourself and your relationship. It's normal to be nervous about marriage, it's a huge decision, one that will last a life time and should you decide you are making the wrong one, well, it's better to be left at the alter then get served divorce papers in the long run.
2007-07-04 13:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is something you have to decide, think long and hard if you ready and if this is really what you want for the rest of your life, but this isn't a decision anyone can make for you, look in your heart and decide from there, if you decide it's right and you feel good about it and you think your ready then why not.
2007-07-04 13:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is: Do YOU think it's a good decision? Only you can answer that.
If you're constantly 2nd guessing it, maybe it's not a good decision to get married.
If you're only questioning it once in awhile, maybe it's just cold feet.
You have to ask Yourself if you're sure you want to spend the rest of your life with this person.
In spite of their faults (cause we all have them), is this someone that you can be happy with forever?
Only you know that answer.
2007-07-04 13:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a thousand people on this thing told you it was wrong, would you stop the wedding?????
How in HELL are a whole bunch of strangers supposed to know if what YOU are doing is right????
Sounds like YOU are unsure and want someone else to tell you what to do; that's pretty dangerous when the people you're asking don't know you.
Sit down, relax, and think. Then TELL YOURSELF...is it right????
2007-07-04 13:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel it's the right time, then definately yes it's a good decision. Good luck!
2007-07-04 13:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you and the person you're going to marry can answer that.
Everything is fine now......how about when life happens....will everything be fine then?
2007-07-04 13:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us??? We don't know you, him/her or your relationship. Why is there a question mark after every sentence in your question???
Listen to your gut,
Pray about it and Listen to the spirit.
2007-07-04 13:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anna B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then obviously you have doubt somewhere. If it were right.... this question would never enter your mind.
2007-07-04 13:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by P B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is like a Funeral only you get to smell your own Flowers***.....
2007-07-04 15:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋