...and is in an abusive relationship..and has seen me steadily for about 6 months secretly...will she move with me and marry me?
2007-07-04 11:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by extrapacker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just remember if she cheats with you she will cheat on you.
2007-07-04 11:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs time to sort through her problems. She is at a very vulnerable period right now and needs a supportive friend more than she needs another committment. You have to help her make the right decision to leave and then give her space to work things out on her own. She'll still be with you later on if she cares that much about you but this'll keep her from ending up confused about herself and what she wants in the future. The worst thing a woman can do is rush stratight from on relationship into another.
2007-07-04 18:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by marieh000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is a long time to stay in a relationship when you have a lover on the side, so the anwer to your question is no, she has no intentions of leaving him, I say this because if she knows she has you to run to and still hasn't made that move she doesn't plan on unless have to case. Which to you should cause alarm, do you want to be second best?
2007-07-04 20:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation for you as she is still with her boyfriend or husband and IF he was a bad as she claims, she certainly wouldn't be sneaking around with you.
If she is willing to cheat on her "whatever" with you, chances are she will do this with you.
I would put an end to this OR at least tell her you don't want to see her until she leaves the relationship. Then see what happens.
2007-07-04 18:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure about this one. She sounds very confused and if she does get out of the relationship, I think she'd need to spend some time sorting herself out, before she'd be able to make a proper commitment to anyone.
2007-07-04 18:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's ok with having an affair, but not 'strong enough' to leave an abusive relationship? And you are helping her cheat? What does that say about her integrity and her character? Or yours for that matter?
Without professional help, which she needs, please don't consider marrying her and moving her in with you.
2007-07-04 18:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually, but play it safe, keep low until her divorce is final.
2007-07-04 18:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by goodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is more confused than you are. 2 confused equals vey very confused.
2007-07-04 23:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you, and she's just making sure you're okay with a woman who cheats, so she can do it to you later.
WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 18:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably does love you,but shes probably scared to leave her abusive relationship.maybe shel get enough courage to leave him.
2007-07-04 18:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by krazygirl30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋