What made you leave? Did you stay with the person? If not, why? Do you have kids? Did you tell your spouse the reason you were leaving? Would you have left if you hadn't found someone else? Do you regret it?
2007-07-04 10:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by shoegal0675 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband left his first wife for me seven years ago. I know he has no regrets in leaving her only wishing he did it sooner. He has 2 kids that were 4 and 7 at the time, now they are 11 and 14. I realize why he left {although everyone blamed me} everytime I see his ex and how she treats the kids. I am so very close to them and I love them like my own and we have a great family together. Some things are meant to be even though its hard at the time.
2007-07-04 10:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy let me tell you a story boys and girls i hope i dont run out of room so get comfortable.Yes i left my wife for another women after 9 yrs of marriage and yes i regret every minute of it.Ill try to make a long story short.My wife and i were having problems basically im a snuggle bug and i like to give and get affection and all that good stuff.well my wife wouldnt show me any affection hardly and sex was rare she just wasnt interested,and when we did have it i always had to do the initiating.We would argue about it we even went to counseling and sure it helped for awhile but soon went back to the way it was before,i mean i begged this women just to show me more love thats all i wanted and she just wouldnt do it.Eventually i got frustrated,lonely and just tired of the rejection.Well they hire this women at work and we start talking and getting to know each other and then the flirting started until i started having an affair on my wife with her.Well she gave me everything i was needing and wanted and it was wonderful.I was never able to have kids and she had a 5 yr old son that i got close to who started calling me daddy.So she starts promising me the world you know and i fall into that trap.So i leave my wife andmove in wife the girlfriend and we start the divorce stuff.Well my boss which is female is friends with my wife so she got me fired from my job.then a month afterward out of nowhere the girlfriend who promised me the world kicks me out and wouldnt give me a reason,leaving me homeless.
SO let me break this down for just since the beginning of 2007
ive lost my wife,my job,my house,my girlfriend which left me homeless and pennyless living out of my truck.
Im not living in an extended stay hotel for a few weeks until hopefully i can find a job if not ill be right back out on the street again.Do i regret it?you bet i do.
2007-07-04 20:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by catfishhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I left my spouse over 3 years ago..I finally after 25 years of being with him got what you call "BURNT OUT"I am truly glad I didn't have kids but I took my 2 dogs and myself and moved way 3,000 miles away from him it truly was over..I warned him and warned him but he took it as a joke because I had been saying the same thing for a long time.But a person knows when they have had enough.When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired you will put a fire under your feet and run for your life. It wasn't for another man it was I was sick
2007-07-04 17:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by cabbage-head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost. I stayed for our child. My husband has cheated on me and is a real asshole but provides for our child. When we were seperated he bitched about $34 dollars a week child support and didn't pick her up on the weekend so I could pick up a second job. He asked me to go back to him until she is raised and ta-da, here I am. 3 more yrs to go. Trust me, it has costs him alot more than $34 a week!
2007-07-04 21:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i split with my husband for another man,i was married 20 years and wasnt happy,we both knew the guy and i got friendly with him,i have kids they came with me,i was with the guy for 4 of the happiest years of my life ,sadly it didnt work for him and we split, i think i would still have been with my husband if i didnt meet this guy but i stopped loving him a long time before that,mayby in hindsight my other guy was my escape route and i wouldnt be on my own,im on my own now but i dont have any regrets
2007-07-04 17:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER consider leaving one for another. Problems usually follow.......eventually.
2007-07-04 17:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, i never got married!
2007-07-04 17:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by bevirtuousok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋