now flowers are lost, pot is left out..should i dump the pot too?
2007-07-04 23:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean she is good for nothing and imparts abuse and negativity to me, she is a warrior..
2007-07-04 23:18:39 · update #1
if i tell her to come to councelling, she disagrees, culprits generally don't accept proposals like this
2007-07-04 23:20:03 · update #2
What attracted you to her? What made her more special than any other woman that you chose her above all others?
Clean the slate, start over from scratch. Arrange for a weekend away for just the two of you. If she starts to get warriorlike smile at her and tell her why you married her. Find at least three things a day you can compliment her on. Every night when you get into bed, thank her for any thing she did during the day to make your life more enjoyable. And apologize every night. If she says "what for"...then you know things are ok.
Why should you do the changing? Because you are the one who is not happy. Don't look for an out. You got into this marriage for the long haul, stay committed because it is cheaper to keep her and because all you will ever find is more problems to replace the ones you have. If you change, she will change in response to you.
My prayers and good throughts are with you.
2007-07-04 23:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by sandy_uf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to make a decision, should you throw out a good pot because you didn't like the flower or should you try to nurture a new flower in this old but good pot? It seems you are frustrated and you want to leave. I think if you really want to save this flowerpot then take drastic action and bring in help. Have an intervention, the flowerpot maybe angry but if it is worth it then at the end you will have a beautiful flower blossoming with new life. Take the chance don't let this drag on if you are unhappy!
2007-07-05 06:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Syane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plant a new flower in the pot...
no sense throwing out a good pot...
2007-07-05 06:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to keep the pot and dump her.
2007-07-05 07:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watering your flower.. they say flowers and plants grow better when we talk to them. flowers dont just grow from sunshine, you know... show your flower more that just weekly watering and maybe she will bloom into the most beautiful flower ever seen!
2007-07-05 06:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by who are you anyway?? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
throw the pot aaway
2007-07-05 06:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm .. okay!!
2007-07-05 06:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋