Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2007

2007-07-10 22:07:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

to try and gain custody of this child? I guess my question is would the court take into account the fact that she gave up one child when looking into the "best situation" for the child?

2007-07-10 21:53:05 · 5 answers · asked by scottcra1996 1

I've been dating this guy since March. I thought he's a nice guy and is really into me. He drive 2 hrs to pick me up to dates and then 2 hrs back home. He pays for the tickets, the meals. And took lots of pics on me during dates. Plans the next dates and call me frequently...But he doesn't kiss me or tried to hold my hands. Recently he told me he's going to another State to visit his family and maybe goin g to stay there for a while (he has a 6 week vacation from work, he's a teacher). He may even stay there for more than 6 weeks just "depends". I've been asking him when he's leaving and how long he's planning to stay there he keeps saying "i don't know. i'll probably come back though." My bday is coming soon and i asked if he's going to be here but he said he would prob leave before my bday. he said he didn't think about it. He did ask me if I would like to go with him and stayed there for couple weeks but I didn't make up my mind yet. I am confused, i feel like he's playing me.

2007-07-10 20:38:31 · 25 answers · asked by My Dear 2

I Caught her cheating and sending emails of her self to some dude at.MySpaceAfterdark.com What choud I do.

2007-07-10 19:22:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

You can find the elaborated explanation of this question to my previous question..feel free to read it.
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Do you think a wife should be lucky that she doesnt need to work or shes not force to work by her husband ? I am a liberated woman,i have that thinkin that woman or wife should have a career of their own.But living in Asia where theres very small options.I dont have a choice for great jobs unless i would want to be a factory worker or a supermarket lady. Am i really that lucky ,my friends envy me ..But i am used to working and having money save all for myself every month.Spend what i wanna spend save what i wanna save..Any comment

2007-07-10 19:19:46 · 24 answers · asked by foxyparis 1

what is the time frame of the divorce if there is no dispute over any money or other material items? clean cut divorce?

2007-07-10 19:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-10 19:00:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, when your wanting to marry your girlfriend or any women then are you supposed to talk to her dad first about marrying her? Is it a "have to do"? Or is it somethin that would be good to do and be a "Manly" thing to do?

2007-07-10 18:50:08 · 34 answers · asked by kennedym15 2

(2) A faithful man who allows his spouse to cheat?

Which do u prefer to have as a spouse? And why?

2007-07-10 18:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by pesticide 1

My 3rd cousin is 27. She just got married to a 22 year old (the younger 1 is the groom). What do you think the chance is that it will last?

2007-07-10 18:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by Wyatt F 2

Happily married mother of 3. My husband is my best friend and a rock star in the sack. I would never do anything to screw that up, but I have had a very chemical reaction to someone at work. I have no intention of doing ANYTHING, but if this person made a pass at me I'm not sure I could resist. I'm actually pretty freaked out by this. Is this normal human nature or is my marriage not so happy?

2007-07-10 18:14:28 · 17 answers · asked by maynsqz2001 1

2007-07-10 18:08:01 · 18 answers · asked by dave777 4

Be real, everyone has some kind of habit.

2007-07-10 17:23:53 · 26 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6

when i asked him what he would do if i said no he said he could not understand why i would not "help him out" and would have to reconsider our relationship as he would do it for me.Now i could do this but feel funny him asking me and not at all happy with his anwser.This debt is not from a medical problem but from his last divorce and money trying to "wine and dine" the old gf he left his wife for(not me)

2007-07-10 17:20:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My divorce will be final in September. I am here with no family or friends, and it seems clear to me that I will be stuck here by means of a permanent geographical restriction when the divorce is final, something they like to do in Texas, seemingly. How can they force a struggling single mom to stay in the county when her family and support system is in another state? What can I do to avoid it? It would be damaging to my survival to be forced to stay here. Yes, I have a lawyer, and I have not heard anything yet that I've wanted to hear. There must be a way. Note: Our child is 3 years old and father lives here, my entire network of family is in California, where I can also live with my mom for free and raise my daughter in a loving environment.

2007-07-10 17:11:51 · 11 answers · asked by trancegoddess2001 3

Chris Benoit killed his wife and son, then himself. His wife had previously filed for divorce, but later withdrew. Friends are saying she wanted her son to be with both parents. Do you think people stay for the kids too often and end up hurting rather than helping them?

2007-07-10 17:09:51 · 13 answers · asked by mimi s 2

Is EVERYONE THAT unhappy with their marriage?! It's really sad... I'm sure alot of these ppl that are complaining about their spouses really truly love them when it comes right down to it, so what's the deal? Why spend so much of your life complaining about the love of your life instead of telling ppl how happy he/she makes you?! Just curious to see what everyone else thinks about this. Is everyone as disturbed as I am? I'm not saying I'm not guilty of this myself because I am... and I DO really love that wonderful man that I married! I love the way he knows what I like in bed without me having to tell him. I love the way he laughs, I love the silly things he says... I love how determined he is to take care of his family, even when it's hard to get out of bed at 2am to go to work! I love that man! Tell me what you love about your spouse... =)

2007-07-10 16:28:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's the most frustrating situation in my life. I'm married to a man who loves me, but I DON"T LOVE HIM. IT's a really long story of how I married, but to wrap it up, I intended to divorce him, was in the process of it, then found myself to be pregnant. I stayed for the child... Big Mistake... here I am, many yrs later... NOT HAPPY... We get along ok, but I Can't stand him touching me.. I finally stopped faking it, I feel freer now... but still married, so now what?? Do I get a divorce, or stay for the kids??? To even think of staying 10 more years is like a sentence to me... UGH!! He's not an awful guy, I just don't love him...Some people aren't meant to be more than friends. Yes I know that sounds cold, and it probably is... but to tell the whole story would explain ALOT...

Put it this way, I was ignored for all those yrs!! Now he's paying attention to me. People thought I was a Single Mom til Now!!
We have seperate rooms, the kids are fine with it..So do I stay?? Thanks

2007-07-10 16:28:36 · 27 answers · asked by LMS4VR 1

Is it true if you marry a woman with kids, and you have kids with this woman later in the marriage, and you want a divorce. Can she take you to child support court for the other children that she came into the marriage with?

2007-07-10 15:39:58 · 27 answers · asked by finess 1

he text going to bed & she said goodnight sweet dreams & he said u to think of me in or on.when i asked about it he said it was a set up to see if i was going thru his phone.i really want out,but he has left to go oversea.how would i handle?i am tired of his cheating & he makes it clear he won't leave me.he has friends & family coming by to go thru house to see if someone is there & to see what i am doing.

2007-07-10 15:24:00 · 36 answers · asked by Teresa R 1

i was married. we split up a few months ago. i had two kids from a previous marriage, she had one. her daughter's father wasn't in the picture and we had her all the time. my kids came over two days a week. at the beginning of our marriage we went back and forth about another kid. then she said no she wanted to spend time with me after the kids grew up. since i'm 40, i thought that was a good idea. after a while she changed her mind but we were fighting like cats and dogs. she really got verbally abusive and i thought to myself there is no way i'm having a kid if their mother is like this. it runs in her family to be verbally abusive. she quit taking birth control and got pregnant, then immediately wanted an abortion. it was a complete 180 from her. was i wrong not to try to talk her out of the abortion? it just wasn't right the woman had a lot of emotion problems and cused and verbally abused everything in sight.

2007-07-10 15:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by survivor 1

I hate to argue and do all I can to keep the communication lines open in our marriage. We get along very well 90% of the time. But when my husband blows up on me about something he calls me names like "you crazy b*tc*" etc

I can't seem to get him to understand how hurtful it is to hear him say those things to me.

Do you say things like that to your spouse when you are mad? do you really mean it?

2007-07-10 14:36:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been married for 2 years and 7 months pregnant.i recently left my husband home alone fo 4 days to go to parents. when i ame back i saw that he went online looking for porn.i called him immediately and first he denied than came home started begging me to forgive him.even though i wasn;t the one satisfied in our sex. he said he never went before but u don't put nude school girls if its the first time u went to check it out. it makes me sick. i have no respect for himbecause to me he is immature and not reasdy to be a dad. i asked him is there anything else i shuld know. he said no. i asked do u have email accounts i don;t know about. he said no. and after 2 weeks i do some research and find his email account. i go on it. and find myspace account email. i ask him the password he said he doesn;t have myspace. so i put his email and click on forgot password and bam he puts on myspace that he is single. ihate my life.i have a man who denies/ i cry all the time/what shuld i do. its not same

2007-07-10 14:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by baby doll 1

i am really angry with my hubby we will watch porn togheter or on our own what really annoys me is i have been watching a porn website (maybe it's just me but some of it is more laughable than erotic) anyway i said to my hubby are we going to watch this website to which he replied no i dont want to watch that rubbish i'm not bothered and i believed him beacuse we have always been honest in our relationship. so i am really annoyed to discover he has signed up for an account with this website behind my back it is totally out of character for him. now i'm torn between telling him i now and give him a hard time about his deceit or do i keep my mouth shut and hope he will eventually tell me
what would you do??

2007-07-10 13:46:51 · 49 answers · asked by Georgies Girl 1

I am not physically abused by my husband. We have 2 great kids ages 5 and 7 who absolutely adore their dad. Problem is, my husband is a slacker. He misses days of work and might lose this great job b/c "his tooth hurts". I asked him if he thinks his job might be in jeapordy and he says "i don't know" I blew up at him this morning !! (in front of the kids) I am tired of his supremely lazy attitude towards life. He doesn't "take charge" as head of house and father , if I want to buy a home I have to do ALL the research and calls etc, I even got him his last job b/c I sent his resume out!! He is too laid back and when its nice weather he NEVER wants to do anything and tells me if I want to do something I should plan it. I pretty much hate his guts for being a lazy slob and DREAM of just me and the kids living our fun life but they love him and I'm afraid they'll be so hurt. By the way, we've been 2gether 11 years, I'VE ALREADY tried the 'talking to him', it DOESNT work. Thanks all

2007-07-10 13:27:41 · 13 answers · asked by Hope 4

I had sole/separate custudy of children for seven years, verbal agreement no child support in exchange for keeping my retirement. No order was established for child support. Statute of limitations? Children are now 35 and 33. She has been remarried 23 years. Any advice appreciated.

2007-07-10 13:02:45 · 7 answers · asked by stan ford 3

but seriously, it's time to try medication, how do I get her to try it.

I have a son, she's turned into a prude, I make all of the money and she is at home getting fatter from delivered food. She doesn't cook either. I really think medication would work. ..I'd be satisfied with someone that is just happier. I need to check this b*tch for real. I'm a good dad, no drugs, no drinking at home, no infidelity issues, and I'm an OK looking laid back guy.

2007-07-10 11:46:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband works with this Dr. and works 70+ hours a weekend has for a while. He gets a lot of overtime and that is a lot of money. He called me today and wants to quit because he says that he is tired of not seeing his family (we have a 4 and 2 year old) he is tired of not being able to tuck them in at night. Now I just graduated yesterday with my Bachelors and I have had a few job offers making twice as much as him and I would work normal hours. He said that he would stay home with the kids while I work. (Someone has to stay at home because our son has medical problems and therapist that come every day) I have wanted to work because I have been at home for 4 years and I need a break and I know I can make more and still spend time with my family. My hubby said that it was up to me to make the decision on whither or not he quits. We know that it is a major change. My family would hate it and say that he is a bad person because a man is the supporter. What do I do? I need advice

2007-07-10 11:21:58 · 31 answers · asked by lil_sis458 2

I'm a boy of 23. I'm a goldsmith and I want to get married with a good girl. I want to present my heart to my love!

2007-07-10 11:20:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would not.

2007-07-10 11:19:23 · 19 answers · asked by Page 4