Marriage & Divorce - 10 July 2007

He/She can do only one thing either he pays neighbour (good or Bad) and forget the son's daughters future or the reverse

2007-07-10 06:04:10 · 9 answers · asked by jatinder s 1

2007-07-10 06:02:38 · 30 answers · asked by lets talk 1

ok i have a 1 1/2 year old little girl to my ex fiance who i was with for 4 years and now im 7 months pregnant to a guy who wants nothing to do with me now?? does it make me a bad person to have these 2 children with diff last names and no daddys around??

2007-07-10 05:40:47 · 28 answers · asked by audrajean05 2

Does the relationship remain the same? Why do we feel the need to hold a cerimony, and sign a legal document? Also, what about pre nups? If you love and trust someone why would you have one? Does it mean you don't trust the other, what's it all about?

2007-07-10 05:39:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love being single and doing as I please and having my home a certain way and not having to answer to or provide for anyone but myself....what is so wrong with this in societys eyes?

2007-07-10 05:30:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

your neighbor . Im just curious if lots of married people practice this ?

2007-07-10 05:20:38 · 22 answers · asked by wishingstar5555 3

I caught my wife cheating on me and she also came clean with everything, after everything that has happened we've come to a conclusion to stay together and work it out. She promised to change all her ways and to do everything to gain my trust back. I've noticed that she is trying really hard the past 3-4 weeks and she's slowly gaining her trust back though i'm still very unsecure. I checked her website history the other day and i saw that she was looking for indianapolis colts merchandise and it looked like she was looking for a gift to give to somebody and she was also looking for beer merchandise. The guy that she cheated with is from Indiana and she is looking or searching for Indianapolis Colts merchandise and I just have this gut feeling that she isnt over with him yet and that they are still contacting each other. I dont know what to do or think...Am i able to trust her again or are these more signs that she isnt being truthful to me, i'm not sure if that colts stuff

2007-07-10 05:15:07 · 19 answers · asked by Jan R 1

after a while i asked him why he didn't kiss me like he used to.
he said something about germs and how he doesn't like drinking and eating after anyone and that kissing like that was the same thing. but that no longer makes since because he has gotten to where he will eat and drink after me and our 7 year old. hell even drink rain water off the roof mixed with flowers and who knows what else on a dare from our daughter. i don't get it. i haven't pushed it because i don't want to cause more problems, and id kind of like for him to want to. i cry every time i think about it.

2007-07-10 05:13:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter lives with my ex-in-laws, but they may not be related by blood. Me and my ex got married when I was 4 months pregnant. He never questioned the paternity, but I am. What should I do?
Serious answers only please!!

2007-07-10 05:12:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are a young married couple. We have a nine month daughter and another one on the way. I recently caught my husband cheating on me with a women 10 years older than me. I am devastated. He has been lying for months saying that he is working, but really he has been going to clubs and being with this women. He says that he wants to change and only be with me and our kids. But I am having a really hard time forgetting what happened and most importantly forgiving him. I think the only reason he is saying that is because he got caught and the other women does not want him. If anyone has been in this situation or a similar one, please I need some advise.

2007-07-10 05:10:31 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah 1

I have been experiencing a total lack of desire for sex lately and it is coming between me and my boyfriend. We have been together for 14 years and have 3 kids, ages 11, 8 and 1. He has been under a lot of stress and so have I. Its hard for me to "want it" when all he does is complain about the house not being clean enough (mind you we also have 2 apartments that I have to clean, paint and get rented out, which are done now, 2 of the kids are in baseball and the oldest on 2 teams), it seems like he finds stuff to yell about, nothing is good enough. Then really gets mad at me when I dont want to have sex. In fact, he woke me up from a dead sleep (which I have not had in awhile) and wanted it and got mad when I told him I was too tired ( I couldn't hardly keep my eyes open), this morning before he left for work, I tried talking to him and he said he wants nothing to do with me. What can I do to make him happy? I could care less about having sex, in fact I don't even want it. Help

2007-07-10 04:53:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Single women go to the gym and get boob jobs, etc., but married women don't nearly as much or as often. I see these poor married guys on the beach, who look like they take care of themselves, with their fat, droopy boobed, no make-up wives sitting next to them, and they look sooooo sad!

2007-07-10 04:49:36 · 22 answers · asked by SvetlanaFunGirl 4

2007-07-10 04:47:15 · 13 answers · asked by zirconiag 5

I do not trust my wife as she has lied to me. I cannot t live with her neither I cannot live without her. wht shd I do ?
My negative point is I think from heart and I am stop temper. I am having mood swings. I really need help. I am not able to eat and has not sleep more than 3-4 hours on an average for last 6 weeks. I am alone please help me.

2007-07-10 04:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by ADAM 1

Look at the attention Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie receive. And now we have Tori Spelling and her new husband getting their own reality tv show! He left his wife two weeks after the arrival of a new adopted baby! Is it no wonder that over 50% of marriage fail these days? Sad situation!

2007-07-10 04:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband works 3rd shift so i have the kids {12, 7, twin 2yr.olds, and a 1yr.old}all day i wish he was able to help w/some morning routines so he gets up for a hour and helps then sleeps till3 or 4 then gets up and the kids want all his attention. so after we have dinner it's time for him to go to work at 7 he does get 2 days off, but he wants to hang out w/friends or hisself and play vid/gms. i would like to go out and have "adult"time but he doesn'treally like going to a bar, but i think it's funner to have dinner then go to karoeke or see a band and dance and let off steam. he doesn't have the kids all day so he don't feel as stressed like i do.i spend all day playing,watching nick jr.and reading them books.theyare always on my lap or near me even in the bathroom.don't get me wrongi love my kids, but i miss my hubby alone time. is it wrong to want a night out every once and while w/ him,cuz he tells me to go w/my friends and he stays home with the kids but i want him to come with

2007-07-10 04:40:10 · 12 answers · asked by amber l+5KIDS 2

My bf of 3months is at his sisters wedding in USA. Before he left we split up as I felt he wasnt as committed to our relationship. He agreed but said he still had issues about his fiance who he split up with last Christmas.

He has been away for 2 weeks and has not e mailed or rung me. I am thinking this is his way of distancing himself. What do you think. He will be home this week-end and I have really missed him like crazy. How should I be with him. I would rather salvage a friendship than lose him altogether.

2007-07-10 04:38:22 · 17 answers · asked by Suzi 1

I'm exhausted! I have no idea how to remedy this problem. Is it just us that cant seem to get any sleep when sharing a bed or is this a common thing that happens? I'm about to drop. Any stories, words of wisdom. Thanks a lot :)

2007-07-10 04:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5

Why do gays need to be married? Why do people who do not want to have children need to be married?Why do stars who have a busy schedules want to be bogged down with marriage? I'm puzzled.

2007-07-10 04:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by a2zgoblog 3

"they are not two different things" idon,t want that anwer please

2007-07-10 04:26:24 · 24 answers · asked by rash0054 1

My soon to be ex-hubans molested my 13 year old cousin for a year before I found out and put him in jail. I am now divorcing him and I will not change my mind about it but what does God think about the situation. I read an artical the other day in a church paper that stated that you should try to work out marriage problems such as infedelity. But I belive that this is even worse than just cheating. Does He expectet us to forgive and forget such a thing and stay with the person, b/c I woulod not be able ton do that. What do you think and why.

2007-07-10 04:22:08 · 30 answers · asked by jessiejungle 2

i have a hard time with the fact that women are viewed as the ones who cook, clean and do all that kind of stuff. i have no problem cooking bc i love doing it, i just dont like to feel that i am EXPECTED to do it, and everyday. what are your takes on this? does this mean im not ready to get married?

2007-07-10 04:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

basically they both are uk residents and they wish to divorce they would prefer to go back to india to get divorced what would be the procedure they are both nri

if so would the decree absoulte be valid in the uk....

2007-07-10 04:17:15 · 3 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6

I spent a beautiful July 4th with my boyfriend. Being with him was the greatest! I wanted to just check my emails, so i used his computer to do so. I got a little noisy and checked his search box. I found out that he is on a personal site devoted to fat women. I thought it was odd. I let a few days pass. I confronted him. He said, "oh it is nothing.." But if it is nothing why is he on the site? right? and i know that he is not there just to merely chat??? i am very hurt and upset by this! very truly honestly madly upset. I think i should give him back his 2 carat ring that he gave me. (it is pretty, but maybe marrying him wouldn't be the right thing?) does he have more secrets i don't know about? He says he loves me, and shows me that more than i can imagine. But this personal site thing erks me? Hey, all the yahoo answers out there, what do you think of this? Maybe i am not seeing something clearly? I honestly don't know what to think anymore. We have been through so much. I love him!

2007-07-10 04:14:26 · 22 answers · asked by it@ly 1

Yes I like guys that are not my race, I told friends a cousin they back me up on it and I am dating a guy that is white but I want to hopefuly marry a guy that is not my race should I marry outside my race?

2007-07-10 04:12:03 · 57 answers · asked by suga mama 3

Ok, women usually have this crazy intuition. I just wanted to know if married women knew that they were going to marry a guy before hand. Is there some point where women say to themselves this is the guy im going to marry, and then that actually happens.

Or do women have that same feeling in all their relationships?

2007-07-10 04:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-10 03:46:11 · 11 answers · asked by knowitall 3

My husband and I have been married for five years, and it's been an o.k. marriage, we've had our share of ups and downs. The thing is, lately (past few months), it doesn't seem like we have a relationship at all. He is moody and distant, and every time I bring it up, he says there is nothing bothering him. When I ask him if he is happy in this marriage, he says "yes", but doesn't even crack a smile. At times he just seems so miserable, that I feel guilty being here, like I'm the one dragging his life down. He's never been one to really communicate and getting him to talk about his feelings is like pulling teeth. I even went as far as asking him if he wanted a divorce, and he says No, and sounds like he really means it. He is totally antisocial, he doesn't have any friends, doesn't want them, he's been that way since I've known him, I had to pratically pester the hell out of him, just to get him to talk to me when I first met him. I honestly don't believe he's cheating.

2007-07-10 03:40:00 · 18 answers · asked by Lovebug123 5

My curious male mind wants to know. Now we all know the female body is, generally speaking, a much more sensuous and appealing form to look at than that of a male. I'm not trying to perv on anyone, but in your opinion is it somewhat normal for a woman to get a little turned on sometimes by viewing other beautiful women..on television, movies, magazines, etc. I am not implying that it would mean any type of homosexual traits or whatever, but just the fact of viewing a sensual and sexy female body might turn on even a 100% straight woman. thoughts?

2007-07-10 03:37:37 · 24 answers · asked by TB28 2

Man i love is divorcing so what should i do??
He is 38 im 25. We have know each other 3 years and now his divorce is coming through this month in fact. He asked me to wait for him till last mont and he said he loves me and wants to be with me. Now that ive been asking when we can be together and meet his kids his saying that his still waiting on some information and untill that he cant be in a relationship. He also said his not ready to be in a full blown relationship in few months at least. What does that mean?? I feel so angry that he cant just make up his mind. And i feel like i just wanna see someone else. But im sure that as soon as i do he will want me. Why is he like this?

2007-07-10 03:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by Kittykat 2