Marriage & Divorce - 13 July 2007

If some one really gets to you during pregnancy how should you handle it in a sensible manner?
I am 26 weeks pregnant with no 2 and we are going to my inlaws house next week for about 10 days.We stay very far away and are going after nearly 9 months.In general my mother in law is a very difficult and unpredictable person.I am aneamic aswell and I know she doesnt really worry much about my circumstances.How do you cope with her in communication and if she does try to pick arguements over petty things..I would probably not even be going but we are also attending a family wedding.

2007-07-13 23:53:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know how naiive this question is, but i'm years away from marraige... anyway, what's the reason behind all that cheating and all those affairs? i mean i see that half the questions on here are about that (in the marraige and divorce section) i mean i guess that's a worthy reason to come on here, to get advice (because why would people with good healthy marraiges come on here right?)

so what's the motive behind it? is it bordom? is it bad impulsive decisions? is it lack of love?

2007-07-13 23:10:49 · 10 answers · asked by hairspray queen 5

the marriage 1st night....what do you like to do first with your romantic wife.....girls and gays tell me.....\

REPLY......

2007-07-13 22:47:21 · 4 answers · asked by shami742003 1

Hello is anyone experiencing this - I have been married for 20 yrs and unfortunately feel the physical spark has gone but dont want to end it all - I feel comitted to be there to the end and be supportive into old age. On the other hand is this a correct feeling if one cannnot give the relationship the physical passion it needs - would my wife be happier with someone else - she does'nt want to start all over and seems happy with the way things are. Our sex life has not gone completely south its just that I dont feel that rush of excitement you feel when you are togethe in a new relationship. That is something I crave emotionally and physically but I can see it I would have to lose a lot to get it with somenone new.

2007-07-13 21:52:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have dated a guy for almost 4 years and we were so much in love that we decided to get married.But when we got married everything changed.We started ti fight alot and things were going from bad to worse.We got devorced after a year of marriage.We are devorced now for 2 years.I feel that i still love him and i miss him so much.I feel that i should give him another chance but does he still love me?

2007-07-13 21:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by sasha 1

I fight with my live-in GF all the time. Lately no fighting cuz I gave up, we dont fight or talk, nothing between us anymore, I hoped she would change her ways (spending way toooooo much money, spoiling her 5 yr old son rotten, working too many hours, screaming at the kids, very possesive and controlling of me). I am not allowed to have friends or talk to them. I have devoted my life 100% to her for over a year and got nothing in return. We are in counseling now, not going well.She has many issues (fear of abandonement, jealousy, she was raped by her dad for years when she was a teenager, etc.) I love her, but I cant fix her, and this relationship completely drains me, I do it all, and she takes it all. She wants to make another baby, that she cant afford to have too. We are so broke, all from her. Is love enuf, or do I need more than that? I hatre to disrupt our family, but dont I deserve to be happy too? Everything is all for her, nobody else, not even the kids.

2007-07-13 21:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by TJ 1

My girlfriend of 6 years and I have been having some trust issues. About 6 months ago she needed some "help" from a guy I didn't like to get on with a company. She was hiding text messages, and calls, and things like that. We talked it out and was fine.. well now she wants to do a ride along with him..

She did one last week and is doing another one. All I asked of her was not to ride with him, I'm not controlling, I just don't trust the guy. She says she couldn't choose who she rode with, but 2 weeks in a row she's riding with him??

Tonight we made plans, I would get off early and come over. Well I go to her house and she has went to do another ride along without giving me a heads up... until 3 a.m. with this guy.

What do I do? We've talked about it but I dunno anymore.. is she cheating?

2007-07-13 20:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by aa 1

Could he just be taking advantage of the situation?

2007-07-13 20:17:36 · 19 answers · asked by Girli 3

2007-07-13 20:16:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 24 years old right now. almost my friend already got married. My sister who olny 1 years older is married last mouth. actually if i think about married, i felt that i am not prepared for that, and how about baby. i like childen but to take care of them. should i married?

2007-07-13 19:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by Sylvia R 2

My husband is 2000 miles away for a one month specialized training. He called my frequently towards the beginning of the month, now, maybe once or twice a day. I know he'd been going out on the weekends to get drunk with his classmates, but I decided to look up our cellphone account and I saw that he had been text messaging some woman; both messaging frequently for the past week. I called her number and she of course claimed that I had the wrong number. I have been trying to call his cell phone and hotel he's staying at, but no answer. He's the one that has always been paranoid about me cheating on him even though I never have or would want to. Do I try calling him still or let him call me back? I've left him numerous txt messages and 3 voicemails.

2007-07-13 19:49:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

The problem is that my husband and i have separated but i am yet to file for divorce. I will be filing for divorce in about 1 month. In the meanwhile i need to get my daughter's passport made urgently. Also though we married in 2005 we never got the marraige registered so we have no marraige certificate i only have the child's birthcertificate. he would never agree to get my child's passport made since he needs her custody. What should i do to get a legal passport made without my husband's knowledge?

2007-07-13 19:40:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-13 19:34:42 · 14 answers · asked by smartgirl 1

ok, i think i can be a male p0rnstar. im only 6 inches but when i release i can spray 10 feet and thats WITHOUT supplements and the other products used in the industry...

i can also produce a lot....

2007-07-13 19:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here it goes my wife died giving birth to our baby...this happened 2 years ago..so my babys 2 years old now and im 22 and about a year ago i started dating and have been with this girl for about a year now and my lil girl sees her as her mom and i didnt tell my wifes family that im seein someone..now her family came to visit and im tryin to act like i live with my mom still with the baby but the truth is that i live with my gf and i want to come clean with them before they leave but i dont know how...my gfs sad that i dont say nothing but its hard any advise

2007-07-13 19:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by Ronald 3

We had been fighting a lot and now she just wants to be friends. We fought about trust, inclusion into each others personal lives, and the explanation of our feelings. She is "all talked out" and has put up emotional and “intimate” barriers saying she needs her space and that I need to respect her boundaries. She has said “every time I think we are doing fine we end up here again”. I feel so lost and clueless. I feel as if she has given up on us. She is still physically here and has always been good at doing her part around the house and I am grateful for that, but now she is very, very guarded emotionally. I try to get her to open up about it but it only makes things worse. So now I try to be as light hearted and good to her as possible waiting for the day that she will trust me enough to open up again. I want to listen to what she has to say, hoping she can open up to me. I miss her smile in the morning and her loving kisses when we part company. I am scared thought, I feel as if she is or has slipped away, and I have no way of making things right.

Is this a game, and what is she thinking?

2007-07-13 18:48:28 · 25 answers · asked by M P 1

My husband (20 years older than me) asked me to promise him that I would never have serious or / and intimate relationships with ANY man after his death.
What do you think ? Would you say "yes" ?

2007-07-13 18:43:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What ifyou found out the that man you were seeing had a permanent fixation on a woman from his past?


What if he was deeply in love with her and things went bad and he lost her - but he could never get over her?

What if she was his true love and you were merely a "replacement" - (you resemble her somewhat in appearance - that's why heis with you)

What if he kept a picture of her in his wallet and you found out he had pictures of him and her together and he was obsessing over them.

What if he felt he could never love anyone ever again the way he did her - and he could never be 100% open with you?

2007-07-13 18:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, before I get jumped all over, yes, I know I'm generalizing. I asked a serious relationship question last night about my husband and many of the men either didn't read my details or jumped to the conclusion that it's the wife's responsibility to be a door mat for her husband. What the heck? Please tell me that not all men are like that. It appears that even my husband is blaming me for his actions. What ever happened to accountability?

2007-07-13 18:38:24 · 20 answers · asked by natureutt78 4

41, He has no children and wants me 2 have 1 4 him. I have went to the Dr. and she gave me some medicine to help me ovulate(to become pregnant). I have found out about 2 different females, what should I do ? If I need to explain more I will

2007-07-13 18:25:46 · 20 answers · asked by mustluv50 1

2007-07-13 18:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by smaxxx 1

Is Apple River, in Wisconsin, really the ****-fest I am imagining it to be, or are there really guys who can go, float and drink, and NOT screw a whore? My boyfriend JUST decided like 4 hours ago to go with his friends and I am upset. I trust him, but I do NOT trust the guys he went with. Neither of us can stand the main guy, but he is my b/f's friend. So he deals. I have a friendship like that too. Also, my b/f stopped doing drugs shortly before I met him and has only smoked pot 2 times since then, once in Hawaii, so that doesn't really count...:)_ The friend was bragging about how high they already were(him and 2 other guys) And how much pot and coke he had in the car, on TOP of the $300 worth of stolen beer. Like I said before, I trust him, I just know that when my

2007-07-13 18:15:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

uhm do u have to be 18 to but zigzag papers?

2007-07-13 17:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by cms2 2

are there any married women from north shore who are interested in talking with a mwm?

2007-07-13 17:21:21 · 4 answers · asked by jonny r 1

When a women tells her spouse that she needs her space what does that really mean?

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shes an xspouse. she wont give me her new cell number she doesnt even give me her house number so i could call my kids she doesnt want me to come around the house or her job . she used to be ok with everything . but she says she's not screwing anyone .That. this the last thing on her mind . the only thing on her mind is school and her 4 boys. but totally denies it. I know she's BSing .does anyone feel the same way . please let me know your opinion. so i could print all your answers to show her if people agree with me or her.

2007-07-13 17:06:54 · 25 answers · asked by LIL Bear 1

... he went to church and didn't ask me to join him! I feel so hurt! and I just found out that he wasn't going to tell me...

2007-07-13 16:45:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I noticed my husband has a new female "friend" on his myspace. I asked him about her and he said she just appeared in his friends list and that he has not spokent to her, he added she apparently lives in the same small town we just moved to. I was nosey and looked at his messages. all his sent items were deleted but among her responses which were in the trash folder were "you know what I just realized your married...so why do you want an invite to one of my private parties? Doesn't mean I care if your married, just wondering? I'll still invite you and f$#k the hell outta ya, and like it even more that you are married...karen" , and "Getty up Cowboy...;)
....just remember to pull my hair and spank my a$$!!" I was ,logged in as me and clicked on the chat btn to talk to her, somehow she thought I was my husband and immediately asked me if i lived with my girlfriend because she didn't want an angry woman after her because she has been there done that.....

2007-07-13 16:29:04 · 23 answers · asked by viper pilot 2

2007-07-13 16:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by angthangl 1

well me and my husband are together for almost 3 yrs in a half and married for 1 yr and me and his sister and him live in the same house . but she has 1 kid and bf and he goes to work at 1pm and comes home late but anywaysz.........................i will admidt i am jealous of my sister in law.......because everyday she askes " wheres my brother"and she likes to see me get mad evryday and she always askes '' where you going'' and im thinking like dam why should she know every where i go because she knows where i always go and thats going with my grandmother

but also its like evry time i leave she and my husband are always happy & when i get home and when i dont go anywhere she gets mad and then when her baby cries she just doesn't care and its like dang am i missing something here.
and also when i was going to get grocieries he doesnt give me that much money and im like what am i going to buy with this....but he gives her$ 60 .its just stresses me out. please help me

2007-07-13 16:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by loca16_4u 2

Let me just start off by saying I am a board certified OB/GYN (so no one thinks this is some in-home dangerous operation). My best friend has been trying to get pregnant with her husband for about 4 years, they are in their late 30s. She has had 3 miscarriages and she is about 5 weeks pregnant now. She has said she would just like to end this pregnancy before it ends in another miscarriage as it has really been taking a toll on her and her husbands marriage. She says she will get her tubes tied after/if I do the abortion as she is giving up on having children. I know this would devestate her husband, as he wants a baby desperately too. On one hand she is my best friend, but the guilt I would have...what should I do!?

2007-07-13 16:05:17 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous