Marriage & Divorce - 13 July 2007

i love one, and care deeply for the other. and can't seem to break up with either of them.

2007-07-13 05:24:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this normal and how do i deal with it?
i love him and know he loves me but it seems he cant stop doing it. im an independent person who hasnt done badly in life so there is no need for his behaviour. i wonder if he simply doesnt love me anymore or if his family are interfering and saying negative things about me to him...help! any (good) suggestions appreciated..perhaps im over reacting or i wonder if it is his own problem with self confidence, if so i wonder how to tackle this

2007-07-13 05:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sex life is great. You have all the fun when you are in the dating period. But can it get better once you get married? Can marriage offers something more on the sexual experience? If so, what are those? This question is not for those who would wait to have sex until marriage.

2007-07-13 05:20:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys... what don't you get about women?? Gals... what dont you get about guys??
ie. from a man's persepctive.... why are women so emotional ( when they just said another woman was beautiful and then told their partner she looks like she's gained weight). This is just one example, tell me out your personal experiences. I'd love a guys perspective too on the silly things women do too!

2007-07-13 05:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4

My husband is eager to please me but he says I am going to kill him one day. I could have sex AT LEAST twice a day and I have multiple orgasms. I enjoy every minute of it and crave more even when he can't continue. He thinks that he can't satisfy me because I want more but I orgasm sometimes 4 or 5 times before he does. Sometimes I feel like I am addicted but I didn't used to be like this. Before my husband, no one had ever given me an orgasm, let alone MULTIPLES. What do you think?

2007-07-13 05:18:39 · 23 answers · asked by *~PEACHY~* (^_^) 2

A month ago my boyfriend of 2 yrs. and I moved in together. I have been on my own for almost 10 yrs. and he lived at home with his parents his entire life (30 yrs). He was hit by a car when he was 10 and suffered a closed head injury. So his parents have been overprotective and had no faith that he would ever be on his own,until now. Since we have moved in together it seems like we have been fighting more and I am feeling like I do everything work, clean, shop, pay the bills..everything. He just goes to work and comes home, occasionaly stopping to play pool after work (I work days he works nights.) So I confronted him nicely and it blew up from there, him saying well I have never had to do this stuff and then he said Maybe this was a bad idea to live together. I broke down, then he said it was because he didnt know what to do, he had lived at home and this was a huge change. He says he loves me and wants to marry me. He still said he wants to stay with me ....Im very hurt

2007-07-13 05:15:40 · 14 answers · asked by pinkfrizzle78 3

Basically, she is aching for a cat. She says she loves them and since we don't want children, she at least wants a pet. She tells me I can take allergy medcine, but I HATE cats. They are sneaky and ugly and they scare me. Plus I sneeze and get so sick. We live in the city, so it would have to stay indoors. I don't want to lose her. What can I do???

2007-07-13 05:14:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Rate my appearance please, I know it's shallow but I'm curious. Scale of 1-10, with 10 being hi..

I already know my personality is off the scale...LOL

2007-07-13 05:11:15 · 42 answers · asked by Cupcakes Moosey! 4

Please help me coz i in dilemma. I got a marriege proposal from muslim kashmiri man. I am malaysian. So far he is a nice man and coz of long distance we only met 2 times only when he coming to indonesia. he said he love me and want to marry me. Please help me to make decision. I admit that i really love him and afraid if i take a wrong decision to marry him. i heard people (internationally) said if a foreigner want to marry local (myself), they only want to get PR. Some people said foreigner want to marry malaysian because they want to stay in a peace country. I also heard people (not only malaysian said) indian man love to play with LOVE words. They are always successful when they use their love words. Please help me. I really need advise from all of you before i said yes to his proposal. Thank you.

2007-07-13 05:10:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jaan 1

I have known my fiance since we were freshmen in high school. He is not a bad person wouldn't hurt a fly. Just got involved with the wrong person and made a bad choice (robbed a bank). We have 10 month old twin boy's together. He is a great father to those boy's they love their dad very much. The thing is we are very yung only 19 years old. I want to stay with him it is just very hard. Please someone i need advice. Again he is not a bad person so don't say oh hunny you have to think what if he gets out and hurts you, he is not like that. He just made a stupid mistake.

2007-07-13 05:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by Colie 2

I know S.S. and DL, and financial inst. but what else?

2007-07-13 05:08:19 · 4 answers · asked by lilirodal81 2

We were together 2 years and he cheated then with someone who had the same first name& oh yeah we were engaged also. I stayed with him, things started to go great now we have 2 wonderful kids. Just after we had been together 7 years we got married & things were still great then about 7 months after that I noticed he was acting funny. He was talk to a girl who lived in Washington and we live in Michigan. He had to order parts from her over the phone for his job, after talking to her daily for 6 months they started to get a bit close and then they decided to meet. He took our money from our family and spent over a thousand dollars to meet her in Vegas 1 week before our 1st wedding anniversary. So anyway, I figured it all out on my own before it went down but he insisted on going up North to someones cabin from work anyway because of all the problems we were having.Now 1 year later we work for the same place and the co worker said he never went up there.Do I ask him about it or let it go?

2007-07-13 05:04:15 · 24 answers · asked by so lost in life 1

So often in this forum, there is all the divorce talk. My marriage is great, we have our moments, but things are wonderful. We have three wonderful children together and in October we will celebrate 11 years married. I have yet to find a woman who could possibly come close to be a better match for me. My wife is my best friend, the best lover, my greatest supporter, the best mother and the best person I have ever known. I have posted this question a while back, but I love to hear the good side of marriage since there is so much negativity on this forum. Tell me your good marriage stories.

2007-07-13 04:59:58 · 13 answers · asked by YouWishYouWereMe 5

My husband & I are going through a divorce. He left me 2 1/2 months ago for another woman who is now pregnant, possibly with his kid. our legal separation will be official on Tuesday. This past Tuesday, he send me a text message talking about how he can't get a job, he's going to go bankrupt, he's going to have a nervous break down, he's more & more depressed every day, that he knows he brought it all on himself, & that he "wakes up every morning feeling like a worthless piece of crap". this came COMPLETELY out of the blue. Then on Wednesday, when I saw him, he acted like nothing at all was wrong. & again yesterday afternoon -- like nothing was wrong. him & i were just talking away as if nothing ever changed. then last night, he called me crying. for 30 minutes he went on about how he's so sorry for ruining our 2 y/o daughter's life & how he wants to go to sleep and never wake up again. i did my best to console him as this makes me think he's suicidal. (see below for more)

2007-07-13 04:50:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 47, married and happy with my choices in life. My husband and I are swingers and have been for over 15 years, we love this lifestyle and I am asking that you please don't judge us for our choice. He and I both have wonderful sex lives but I have a fantasy that I have had for years. I have asked my husband to choose a man to fulfill my fantasy without any warning to me, with the use of all safe words of course. This is a rape fantasy. Yesterday I met the perfect candidate and I want to let my husband know but I don't want him to feel that I don't trust his decission or choice of a man. I need a way to tell him of this man without effecting his ego, can anyone help? If you do not approve of our lifestyle please do not lecture, this is our life not yours.

2007-07-13 04:45:25 · 32 answers · asked by Patricia W 1

If so, what was the breaking point for you? The lies, the deceit, the emotional infedelity ... it's too much. It's nerve wrecking and when you always have to check up on somebody and wonder what they're doing.

2007-07-13 04:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

My husband and I have been having difficulties for a while now. Well, now he's decided to be gone 3-4 times a week and gone on the weekends. We also have a 2 year old son and so I am the primary caretaker now. I really love my husband and he and I are trying to work things out. But here's my delimma, I am wanting to take a trip in October with my son (Just he and I) just to get a way. On the way I would like to stop and visit with a friend of mine. This friend is a guy I have known for many, many years and I used to have feelings for him, But I don't think he felt the same, but now I have grown out of it. Well, my friend and I have been talking a lot lately and I am getting mixed feelings about how he feels about me. We were on the phone last week and he almost said "I love"...then he caught himself and said "Later" as we were hanging up. I am confused,...My heart say's "stay away this is not good." But I would like to see him and say hi. Is this a really bad idea, to see him???

2007-07-13 04:39:28 · 30 answers · asked by Amy L 4

my mom and dad are getting a divoerce and theres a HUGE...BBULLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-13 04:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Madisen 2

In response to may adultery questions, people say that Karma will catch up with them. I have NEVER seen that happen.Those people do what they want and live happy lives (while their exes and kids suffer). I don't beleive that what goes around comes around. Do you?

2007-07-13 04:38:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, my hubby and I are staying at my sisters house until our house is ready to be moved into. Since we are only going to be there for only a few days we said that we were not going have sex in her house. Oh yeah, she's allowing us to sleep in her bedroom.
Any way, we've only been there for two days and we broke last night. Though, it was hard, we didn't make a lot of noise. We started in the bed, but ended up on the floor because the bed starting squeeking a little. It was sooooo gooooooooood cause we were being sneaky!! Are we wrong? Ha, ha, ha!!!!

2007-07-13 04:30:15 · 36 answers · asked by W.O.W. 2

After 27 years in a abusive relationship I got divorced 2 years ago. I stayed at home and raised my 3 children. Ex didn't want me to work. Over the last 15 years of marriage I was hit with excruciating back pain, rib and muscle pain. Went to 13 doctors. They finally said that I have Fibromylagia as well as numerous other medical conditions. I thought that I could get Disibility. Not true if you haven't worked in the last ten years before your disibility. In two years I will be broke. I am on Vicodin and Morophine for the pain . Ex doesn't pay any alminomy as the court appointed case worker just didn't get it through her head that I couldn't. In the meantime the Ex is working getting paid $15.00 per hour, can retire in another year, collect his Social Security and Pension. There is 9 years difference in our age so I have to wait until I 'am 59 1/2 to collect Social Security. Can I take Ex back to court to get alimony? Any other suggestions?

2007-07-13 04:29:46 · 12 answers · asked by teetee 1

When my husband and I met and got together, I was a little worried because he has such a strong sex drive and he can't seem to keep his hands off of himself. He used to look at other women a lot in my presence. I told him it bothered me, and he has made an attempt not to do it with me around...well as much as he can anyways. Well, I caught my husband looking at pics of women on a dating site last night, and I am mad and hurt. I give this man what he needs...although obviously not enough, I'm not a machine after all. Well between the pics and the excessive masturbation I am worried. The most unusual thing about this situation, I feel...is that my husband is 5'7" and 325 lbs., and I am 5'3", 145lbs. How is it that I can't keep this man satisfied? What should I do about his sexual obsessions and the fear I have that he may or already has cheated on me? How do I begin to repair my self-esteem which is about nil right now? HELP???

Thanks

2007-07-13 04:25:13 · 15 answers · asked by Roseamond 1

my husband has a child from another relationship and he has tryed for vistations and won but now the mother is putting threats on our phone not to mention we have to pay childsupport and day care for the child while the child is hear with us the mother won't even help with the child cost and I feel that it's not far why pay child support for a child that is not in the mothers care .hell when we picked the child up the child didn't even have any night clothes or close toe shoes he had to fight with the mother to even put enough clothes for the child and we dont know what to do also other things that wasn't right when we picked the child .I know that alot of fathers dont do for their kids but do you think it's right when you have a dad that is willing to do the right thing no matter what help please

2007-07-13 04:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by funnybunny 1

iam 25 married for 7 years.I have 4 kids with my husband.

2007-07-13 04:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by cassandrah 1

To revise my previous question, the reasons I do not want her to go is definitely the danger factor, which is why I would rather go. I trust her in terms of being around other men so that does not bother me. Also, I think being away from her for long periods of time just crushes my heart. I would rather somthing happen to me then something happen to her.

2007-07-13 04:22:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband gives me everything I want, except a child. He says he doesn't want one. But I do. So I went off the pill and got pregnant. Now he is freaking out, saying I trapped him. hello, we are married. He was trapped anyway. We aren't white trash, we can afford a kid. But he is mad. How do I make him see that this is reasonable and it's really none of his business. It's my uterus!!!

2007-07-13 04:13:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am paying for the divorce and the lawyer said he is responsible for half the debt until the house is sold but he does not pay enough to cover half the expenses and does not care. The house will go into foreclosure before the divorce is settled through the courts and before it is sold what should i do

2007-07-13 04:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by Marsha M 1

I'm constantly picking fights with him. Why is this? I honestly don't know why I feel this way. Any suggestions or opionions??

2007-07-13 04:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man ends a marriage (cheats on her or just doesnt want to be married to the woman anymore), the woman wants to take half of everything the man owns as an act or revenge. Most cases the woman never had anything and the man is hard working. She wants all of what's hers and all of whats his if she can get it. However, when it's the woman that ends the marriage (cheats on the husband or falls in love with someone else), men are not concerned with getting all or half of what the woman owns. Why does most men like to work hard for what they have but most woman like everything handed to them for free. Women feel as long as they have a vagina, they're entitled to the world. If you happen to be one of the women I'm referring to, please don't be that way. Stay in school, don't get pregnant at 16. Get your bachelors degree and become successful. Stop depending on men. You'll be respected more.

2007-07-13 04:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is that still considered "cheating"? And/or if you don't do it, but want sex really bad are you cheating yourself?

2007-07-13 04:07:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous