Marriage & Divorce - 16 July 2007

shouts and screams at you that you can leave him and stay all alone and you dont need him .or do you just keep shut and make him feel that u r dependent on him and cant live without him .u r helpless .he can have his way .is it betteer to develop security in his heart or insecurity that u can leave him any moment which is better to hold him apart from loving him like hell . plzzzzzzzz help

2007-07-16 23:13:56 · 6 answers · asked by kamya 1

Ok, I have been deployed out of the country for a bit more than a year. My wife started watching the kids of this guy during the day (we also have kids, and his wife had passed away). No problem. He paid her for doing it. My wife is not the cheating kind. A couple of weeks ago she told me she and this guy had a huge fight that involved some shoving and had to be broken up. She said she filed a police report. I was terribly upset of course. But today I was on MySpace and saw that this guy is still on her friends list, and when I went to his profile I saw that my wife had recently (less than a week ago) sent her comments and some pictures (of the kids). Nothing is making me think that she's cheating ... but she's certainly acting strangely. I haven't been able to get a hold of her lately. Is she just being a drama queen? Am I being an idiot?

2007-07-16 23:10:21 · 13 answers · asked by inTHEgaddadavida 3

wife goes to her parents house and threatens not to return because her joining a job was refused for the time being, as the child is 10 months old. she was told by husband and his family to join job after 2 years when ths child is 3 years. what are the legal rights of a husband regarding divorce as well as possession of the child and alimony?

2007-07-16 23:09:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 22:50:48 · 15 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Everything keeps screwing up. I can't take the pressure. I really don't know what to do. No one seems to be able to help. I feel like I don't have anyone that understands me. I can't take it anymore.

2007-07-16 22:42:11 · 20 answers · asked by Mark Murderous 1

I would like some advice - if you fall for someone attractive at work and you are married what do you do ? I have had a platonic relationship with her over lunch breaks but the staff were jealous and complained to her now we cant be seen together - do I go the next step and try to see her after work or not - it is a strain seeing each other at work knowing we cannot communicate. What would you do ?

2007-07-16 22:39:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

in your opinion...



aaanndd are young marriages always destined to fail?

2007-07-16 22:20:10 · 26 answers · asked by dontregretwhatmadeusmile 2

My husband betrayed n ran with my belongings ….my jewelry, expenses clothes, my gifts everything and left his credit cards bills which I paid on his behalf. It is almost a year; I don’t know where he is? Unfortunately that was a love marriage I have marriage certificate with me. Now I want to rid of this burden relationship. How this could is possible without his sign.

2007-07-16 21:58:53 · 15 answers · asked by puchee 1

If a man sleeps with a married woman then what is he called?

2007-07-16 21:50:12 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ gina ♥ 4

2007-07-16 21:43:57 · 26 answers · asked by KEDARNATH S 1

I have only been with my girlfriend for one year, however we have been on a long distance relationship because she is trying to get her visa in america. We both was friends first, but immediately we had a strong love for each other. We have been on a long distance relationship for one year. We visit each other and contact as much as we both can. However her test just pass, and we had some arguements because I felt ignored during her testing period. Everything is find now, we almost broke it off 7 times because we don't know if she can work in the US. in Hawaii where I'm at. I am still a student and will be for one and half year more to go. I'm thinking of asking her to marry me if she can't get a working visa as a nurse in Hawaii. However being both low income students, maybe hard and my parents will be upset because they are asian and they want me to graduate first before I marry. I need some suggestions, I'm 24 and she is three years older than me. I want to marry her but am I ready.

2007-07-16 21:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my man have been together for almost 3 yrs. When we first got together I got the impression from our conversations that he would want to marry me and have children. Now he dosn't want to. He says things like what would be different than things are now other than a piece of paper on the wall. I told him that marriage is more than a piece of paper on the wall, but its a committment between us and God. He seemed to agree, but dosn't want to talk about it. He has known from the begining that was what I wanted and I have even argued the point then why did you fall in love with me if you were not willing for us to be a family. He has been married before and already has 3 kids whom I love dearly, but then again they aren't "mine". If any of ya'll have advice or have been in the same situation could ya possibly help me out here or give me some advice.

Thanks

2007-07-16 21:20:22 · 19 answers · asked by cowboysbaby090804 1

I am an male 'older' divorced (7 years) single parent with two school age children (13 and 15) living with me. I have worked like hell to pay of the mortagage on my house (worth about £150,000) and consequently have nothing else - not even a pension plan. My idea is that this is the childrens inheritance and security. (If they want, they could sell it to pay for their education - whatever). How can I protect this house from the ambitions of my ex-wife and her partner (they own two houses) so that my kids can benefit.? Creative and unusual ideas are welcome too.
Lets assume that my position is correct when I say that my gold-digging ex is morally not entitled to benefit from this house, which is mine. The deeds are solely in my name, and in 13 years I paid everything from the mortgage to the milk bill, whilst my ex conducted her (private) financial affairs (debts) from her mothers address. I was buying the house before I met her. She has a new partner and a child.

2007-07-16 21:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by Gwyhir 2

sense I got was she felt, "Enough is enough". I was to wait to hear the news from others in the "real world". As I sat on a couch waiting I wondered how he died and then saw a DR.'s report on a test of his stomach - something orange "floating" in it. Then I wondered how I was going to tell our daughters knowing they would be devistated. I also felt a sense of "It's finally over". - My ex husband has a bad temper had has been abusive in many ways. However, he has not flown off the handle in a while, so I don't know why I would dream this. We have been apart for almost 3 years. What does this mean? It has been bothering me all day?

2007-07-16 20:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by Nature Girl 1

His unfaithfulness and lying has literally changed me. I don't feel good about myself at all. He's made passes at my friends.... slept with women I wouldn't touch with other men's penises. I've given everything I can. I don't have anything left. Please, someone help. My confidence is gone.... and my family doesn't even see things my way. Good lord, what do I do? He's killing me.... I've never turned to so many vices in my life. Since we've been married, I've become and alcoholic, been prescribed Prozac, and I can't stop snorting cocaine... all this just to make it through the day. I can't take anymore. I'm literally dying.... and he's asleep. Are any of you awake? Please don't bash me. I can't take it right now.

2007-07-16 20:20:30 · 31 answers · asked by kriskabob 3

My turkish husband who used me to try to get a visa to Canada ( thank god Canada saw through his charade) and is now divorcing me is marrying a second wife before the divorce is final in an illegal islamic ceremony next month. How would you deal with this emotionally after a year of fake words of love and then a year of abuse ? Why do i feel like garbage thrown out on the street and deeply dishonored ? Can't seem to shrug it off and am deeply depressed.

2007-07-16 19:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by seker 1

Does my X wife have the right to keep the kids from seeing me, when she herself would keep the kids with her parents in which one of them sexually abused one of them in front of her and she never said a thing? While I told her to take the kids from there and she said no the parent was not doing what I thought I saw them doing. Later that year another one of my family members saw that same thing happen. I reported it to social services but no action has been taken. Help me save the innocent children before anything serious happens. But I still want to see them.

2007-07-16 19:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by simpsonomar 1

to my house to hang out, this girl was here for 4 hours and she spoke to me about things but she talks alot about how she thinks my husband is so nice and cool and how she thinks hes the best looking of all the other male co workers I dont like it very much and it seems that they get along too good cant help to feel jealous please help.

2007-07-16 19:26:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today society has different values from the ol' days, of course. What is your personal choice for this? At what age is it consider allright to have sex (NO paedophilic answer, please!)?

Personally, how long you must get to know each other until you decide to marry him/her? With or without having sex?

2007-07-16 19:11:12 · 15 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4

I was reading on the news about that senator, and his wife said she forgave him. I was wondering what would you do? honestly would you stay and try and work things out? Are you unsure? Or would you leave? Also please tell me if you are a man or woman and the duration of your relationship. Thanks! by the way I will post what I would do after the other answers are posted. I do not want to bias anyone.

2007-07-16 18:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by Me 4

2007-07-16 18:09:36 · 16 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5

i mean, I love my hubby so so much, wouldn't trade him for anything in the world, but sometimes i feel like he's my third child, i sometimes get after him more than the kids on certain days, anyone elses hubby like this?....he's great with the kids, and fun to be around but sometimes just sometimes i wish he could act grown up...lol..am i the only one feeling like this?

2007-07-16 17:46:15 · 15 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7

2007-07-16 17:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had to rephrase, I meant if married. sorry.

2007-07-16 17:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

after ten years of being in a commited relationship.what is the best way to move on with my life.

2007-07-16 17:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by rodwrnr 3

ok, my friend's ex-husband is getting out of prison soon. she had 2 kids with him, which both are very young. (3 and 6) he still has an equal ammount of custody over the kids. she has tried to go to a bunch of places to get custody over them but none will help her. how can she get full custody?
PS- i think she i filing for a restraint order, but we don't when it will be effective.

please help. we need suggestions. tyvm.

2007-07-16 17:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by Comicstorm 3

Ok i am getting merried but this hole prosses thing has becomed the worst nightmare because of mother

I am trying to please my mother and his family by getting merried through the church, but the priest wants me to be to go back in to my original state were he is so we could do it together like most couples do. The thing is that i cant go back because my mother wount let me go unless i am merried by the church. My mother is very religious and so is his parents. If i ever end up going back to my original state i would not have any place to live but his house. In wich he dosent mind cuz his brother lives there to. What scares me the most is that i love my parents and i want them to be there on the day of my wedding and wrost part is that my own mother has threten me that if i ever leave not to count with her sopport.

So what should i do?

2007-07-16 17:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Araceli B 1

My Fi went to college but dropped out after 3 years. He didn't have enough money to finish. I graduated w/ a bachelor's degree and I'm pursuing a master's in education.

My closest and very well educated friend said she would never marry someone of less education. She asked me if I considered how our educational difference might cause tension in our marriage.

Of course, I never thought about this.

Should I? What tension might this cause?

2007-07-16 17:09:43 · 9 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5

has been married for 14 years to a woman who will not have sex. She is "afraid" or something. He has tried to show compassion, understanding, patience, love, has tried to get counseling. She says that she "will change", that she will work on the issue, but never has. The marriage has never been consummated. I know it seems crazy that he has waited this long, but he really believes in marriage and has tried to "live without it". He wants kids and now, just does not love her anymore. He's done. Can he get an annulment? Should he just file for a divorce? Will he have to pay alimony?

2007-07-16 17:07:53 · 10 answers · asked by SAR 1

My husband is in navy he had to move back and get things situated for me and our little girl to move to mississippi in a couple of weeks but I am havign a hard time with the distance I keep thinking that I he might cheat on me or somethign what shoudl I do Imena he has never given me any reason to think that but I guess I just have low self esteem?

2007-07-16 17:04:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous