Ok, I have been deployed out of the country for a bit more than a year. My wife started watching the kids of this guy during the day (we also have kids, and his wife had passed away). No problem. He paid her for doing it. My wife is not the cheating kind. A couple of weeks ago she told me she and this guy had a huge fight that involved some shoving and had to be broken up. She said she filed a police report. I was terribly upset of course. But today I was on MySpace and saw that this guy is still on her friends list, and when I went to his profile I saw that my wife had recently (less than a week ago) sent her comments and some pictures (of the kids). Nothing is making me think that she's cheating ... but she's certainly acting strangely. I haven't been able to get a hold of her lately. Is she just being a drama queen? Am I being an idiot?
2007-07-16 23:10:21 · 13 answers · asked by inTHEgaddadavida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh, the latter. Sorry. Anyone that a woman calls the police on that she still has any dealings with means that there is a relationship there.
And she's not even that shrewd, which is good for you. At least you know.
2007-07-17 00:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Seems so. . . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to worry about it because it will not have any effect on what is going to happen anyways.
Worrying about something that you can't do anything about is sure to consume all of your energy and will drive you crazy if given enough time.
Put it in God's hands and he will deal with it while you are overseas and tend to things until you get back.
It might be a good idea to see if you can arrive a week or two earlier than expected next time you come home.
A surprise can bring a lot of surprises, so be careful!
2007-07-17 06:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by runninfool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm sure it's tough being where you are and not being able to get to the root of everything. She's hanging with someone who pushes her around? If the cops were involved, SOMEBODY is in jail right now or was. It just might be her. Call a friend or relative and have them check up on what's going on, it looks like you won't be able to do it for yourself since she's not answering.
God Bless you guys serving our country, our hearts go out to you. What a hard time in your life. You'll make it and we'll get you home...very soon, I hope!
2007-07-17 06:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your an idiot, jody is tapping that man wake up and smell the coffee, don't be a fool your away and the wife is going to play. Wow, trust in that I have been deployed twice at 18months at a time and I would never let my wife watch another man's kids along with that his wife is dead and I am sure he needs to be consoled, and who better then your wife.
2007-07-17 06:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being an idiot in thinking that shes not cheating on you,id hate to reply to this question because i know your away from your kids and wife but honestly all the sighns are there you need to look into it bit more she is definately not being honest with you and if you really want to know whats going on why dont you message this guy on my space your answers will be solved then
2007-07-17 06:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was religious and she's the last one I thought would do anything like that after tweenty nine years. Boy, was I wrong.
2007-07-17 06:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your feelings. Can't you find out from the police what happened?
2007-07-17 06:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Muthe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is weird! Like you don't already have enough to worry about.
Do you have a friend or sibling that can look into it for you? Maybe she needs to be checked up on?
2007-07-17 06:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Always follow your hunches you are feeling something isnt right check it out befor its to late
2007-07-17 06:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by rick k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but your being idiot!! think about alittle over a year and no will ya know!! and his wife pass away god rest her soul.i would be worry.
2007-07-17 06:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by LINDA J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋