Marriage & Divorce - 16 July 2007

would be okay with their mother inlaw staying with you at a brand new house being married to your husband or wife for only for a year . but shes staying for one year e cause you have not been working cause you just had a baby and you husband wont help finding a babysitter

2007-07-16 05:58:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Spouse went out of town for grown daughter's delivery, 9 months later and no return...?
Has been back a couple of times to visit, but still has not come by the house, I filed for divorce but she refuses to sign, has to do with medical insurance, needs the coverage but does not want to be married....what to do?

2007-07-16 05:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by jaydee 1

If the husband isnt happy.....
eventually will he leave?
Just wondering

2007-07-16 05:57:45 · 27 answers · asked by Shannon 1

seems like some on here talk bad about your mates, why are you with them if they are so bad?? when you talk bad about your mates it makes you look like a fool, you are married to them, so it doesnt say much about you either. seems some here are never satisfied, did you know how your mates were before you married them?? so now you married them and you still complain about them, you must like the situation you are in or you have no self-esteem and you put up with anything, im sure ill get some nasty responses, that will tell me the truth hurts.

2007-07-16 05:56:44 · 7 answers · asked by amy j 2

The husband wishes to reunite but is not allowed to contact his wife. The wife is staying with her mother & elder brother unwillingly & is being compelled by her family to file for a divorce. What legal provisions are applicable for the husband to refuse the divorce???

2007-07-16 05:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by presidentofasia 3

why did it take as long as it did and do you wish you waited or did it earlier?

my husband and i got married after 3 years and it is heaven.

2007-07-16 05:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by skyskadoodles 3

I watching this 'maboke' a Congolese movie and the main character was happily married. when she started having problems with her hubby, he was coming home late, not eating his dinner, he even pretended he was going away on a business trip then his boss turned up to his house to look for him. she used to confide in her best friend Melody and the whole time Melody was the other woman. its quite sick but its also inspired from real life experiences. Do you guys think that certain friends can use what you confide in them against you for their own gains.
oh by the way i am completely happy in my relationship and there is complete trust. this question is just because i am curious.

2007-07-16 05:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jesuslovesmeyesiknow 4

A friend critized my fiance and myself for leaving my son with his grandparents so we could have a night out. She says that anyone who has children needs to spend all their time as family time. Won't it damage your relationship not to have"couple" time?

2007-07-16 05:27:13 · 19 answers · asked by sparkle 2

I love my husband but I am so unhappy with the sex in our marriage. I don't want to cheat but I feel like I am getting close. I am finding it harder to turn down guys that hit on me and find myself fantasizing about other men when I am with my hubby.I know he is happy with our sex life. Should I have an affair?

2007-07-16 05:25:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my bf a lot n wanna marry him..but my parents r completely against it coz he is not of my cast n he is little short height..( just 1 '' taller to me)..but i love him a lot n wanna marry him n i also don wanna go against my parents,i don know how to convince them for this..plss help me out wat should i do

2007-07-16 05:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by dreams 1

2007-07-16 05:15:08 · 17 answers · asked by vijaykumar m 1

2007-07-16 05:14:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering what does love mean to you?

2007-07-16 05:13:59 · 9 answers · asked by Adrian 2

I have been dating the same man for eight years we live together and we have shared some of the most important moments of our lives together. However, he still has not asked me to marry him. My dad jokes saying "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free" is there some truth to this statement. What is wrong and how can I speed up the process?

2007-07-16 05:12:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced. The mother has indirect contact with the children, through letters and etc and insists on having a "likes and dislikes" sent at regular intervals. However, she refuses to give her own address for me to post them to, and instead asks it to be sent to her parents home in another country, which will then be redirected to her.

In her letters, she sometimes leaves disturbing comments about how she can "see" us.

Thank you.

2007-07-16 05:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this happen to me and lots of other guys i know, they get married to a hot girl. they start a family have a baby and the hot wife starts dress like a granny, stops taking care of herself, and begins to let herself go.

they dont dress sexy like they use to, now im not talking about in front of the kids. when they go out for dinner when they get a baby sitter stuff like that

ladies whats the deal

2007-07-16 05:07:21 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and I don't think we really talk enough when we're together. He's one of those guys who doesn't really talk about how they feel or anything. I try to talk to him about things that are going on and sometimes I tell him how much he means to me. He never really does that, unless he's just telling me he loves me. He told me that he lets his actions do the things he can't say. But, sometimes a girl needs to hear it, ya know. And I've said that to him, and when I tell him that he'll talk a little bit about it, but not much. I just fear that we're going to drift apart because of this. I couldn't handle not being with him, but I don't know what to do to help him realize that he can say anything he needs to, to me. It isn't like I'm going to laugh at him if he tells me how he feels. I thought it would be better to put this in the marriage section, since a lot of you know what it took to keep your relationship going.

2007-07-16 05:05:20 · 6 answers · asked by IndiHippi 5

I am recently married to my husband whom i adore and am very attracted to, I believe he feels the same way. We dated for about 5 years before we married and have always had a good to normal sex life, i trust him and have never suspected him of cheating. i recently found out i was pregnant and my husband is thrilled. Our lovemaking has slowed down a bit understandibly. My question is lately he has been waking me up in the middle of the night to have sex, but he is alseep at the time! He doesnt even remember in the morning. He is never violent, mostly playful but very aggresive,it hurts my feelings that he isnt as into it in the waking hours. This has never happned before and seems to have started around when i got pregnant. Should i be nervous, he has been very stressed lately and works a million hours to save money for the baby, and has been fixing our house on the weekends, he has been drinking a lot more lately which i have been letting go because he is with friends.What do i do??

2007-07-16 05:00:07 · 37 answers · asked by Julie C 2

hi...i'm a 24 yr old woman.....married for half a yr. my hubby is 27 and our marriage has all the ingredients it takes to make one. but we had an argument over something yesterday and it snowballed into a bad fight. my hubby is not the one to lose his cool easily but this time he's had it. i sulked all day and my ego didn't allow me to say a simple sorry. to be honest...i was the one to start the argument...i just meant it as a joke but it's gone too far. he ended up saying,"stop being childish.". i know i've been immature about it but he's been a little cold towards me since then...maybe too angry inside too. what do i do to cool it off? i need an unconventional idea...something which would really blow his mind off. plz temme a way to go about it? i can't handle this anymore and would hate to cry and make it dramatic. plz suggest some ways which won't keep him angry any longer.....plzzzzz.......

2007-07-16 04:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...give me some tips on what men LIKE or should I say LOVE...for women to do to them..tell me what makes you HOT HOT....things like where to put my hands...or fingers..

2007-07-16 04:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My now husband cheated and now has an outside child. He hasn't seen the child and says he doesn't want to ever. I at least want to see the child (being that she's MY son's sister). I wouldn't have even known of the child if the other woman didn't contact me "after" the child turned 3yrs old!! She's being stubborn because he is, but I'm sure she wouldn't turn down my son if I just showed up. Should "I" go out of my way to be in the child's life when her mother knew of me the ENTIRE TIME she was sleeping with my husband?....And my husband ONLY wants to pay child support? What's up with that? I'm trying to bring some sanity to this horrible situation, but is it even worth trying?!? Why should I be "The Good Guy"?

2007-07-16 04:34:39 · 19 answers · asked by concerned 2

my hubby doesn't liek the in-laws. He always thinks his parents are PERFECT. Sometimes he's right- my family can get JERRY SPRINGER. Is this common for most people?

2007-07-16 04:32:14 · 7 answers · asked by girl 3

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2007-07-16 04:07:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was ordered to pay child support but now me and the mom are back together. How long do i have to continue paying child support - can i get it stopped

2007-07-16 04:04:23 · 25 answers · asked by M R 2

hi i left my husband once before because he was controling me, and i was gone for 4 months and came back cause he went to counceling and changed. we got married and now that im back he was fine at first cause we went to marriage christian counceling together and it helped i think. and now we havnt gone for months cause the councelar said we dont need it anymore. but now hes getting mad at me and jelous when i go to friends houses and yesterday he didnt want me to even go to the park with my dad. he wants me to stay home and not go anywhere but yet when im here at home he doesnt wanna talk to me he ecnores me sometimes. now hes telling me today u can do whatever the hell u wanna do. just cause i went and visited this couple who r like parents to me yesterday for several hours. he telling me what to do and always telling me i need to teach you lessons. u need to listen. i always invite him and he says he never wants to go. i get depressed sitting at home, we dont do things 2gether. help?

2007-07-16 04:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband’s family is coming out next week and they are pressuring me (husband included) into taking our 3 year old into a major city for a full busy day. I am wary because we just finished up potty training (some accidents) and because he has the attention span of a 3 year old, we still can’t take him to a restaurant without him causing some kind of commotion, getting a time out for bad behavior or crying/whining to go home. I feel that the train ride, the cabs, the walking will all be too much for him and I really want him to be ready for such a milestone to appreciate it. I know hubby and the rest of the pack don’t care because I am the one that will have to change him, take him out when he is misbehaving, etc while they are enjoying themselves, especially at cocktail time. How do I get this through their thick skulls?

2007-07-16 03:58:25 · 15 answers · asked by DAR76 7

Can someone explain to me why people continue to be unfaithful? I see questions on here all the time from folks wanting to know how to deal with betrayal.

How many relationships have to be destroyed before people finally come to their senses and realize it is wrong? I know there is an endless list of reasons for straying, but are people just not capable of surpressing their desires?

Perhaps humans are not meant to be monogamous.

2007-07-16 03:56:47 · 7 answers · asked by posttk421 3

my husband is currently working overseas-he just left about a month ago and will be back in oct. we have been married abt 5 yrs, and I thought we had a good, honest relationship. i found this email addressed to a woman I have never heard of in his Sent Box:

Hello babe,
...so we'll meet up once i'm back...in oct tht is...thanks for the mails...kep them coming...take care and keep the engine warmed up when i come to see you...if u know whty i mean..

signed **his name**

is he cheating on me? shall i be worried?
please dont judge me on the fact that i had hacked into his email a/c. i was the one who set up this account for him a couple of yrs ago....but he hadnt called for the past week and replied my email, and i was worried for him...so, i had entered his account wanting to check if he had read my mails. thanks in advance for ur answers.

2007-07-16 03:50:08 · 33 answers · asked by swellen_gal 3

2007-07-16 03:48:07 · 40 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

My husband has been working a lot of long hours lately and I want him to know I appreciate him. Especially because he is doing it so that I can be home more with our baby. What is a good gift to give him? We are going on our first date in a few months this weekend. Thanks!

2007-07-16 03:43:06 · 15 answers · asked by ME 2