i love my bf a lot n wanna marry him..but my parents r completely against it coz he is not of my cast n he is little short height..( just 1 '' taller to me)..but i love him a lot n wanna marry him n i also don wanna go against my parents,i don know how to convince them for this..plss help me out wat should i do
2007-07-16 05:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by dreams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, right now your parents are living their lives, that's for them but now you have your own life i mean this is your one and only life your parents cannot live your life for you , they cannot be happy for you! by that i mean they cant apply what makes them happy in a relationship to your life,what makes them happy cannot make you happy it's a fact,tell them you love them but this is your life,you have to make yourself happy, you're the one that's gonna have to be with that person so say they choose someone for you it wouldn't work because your heart is not there girl so just tell them how you feel for this guy, you have to make them see it so they can believe it and if your parents really love you they wouldn't want you to stop something that's not gonna hurt you or kill you so just do you ma...if this guy really loves you, can't go wrong with that it's not everyday you find someone that truly loves you so if you feel thats the one for you fight for his love and make it happen...
2007-07-16 05:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Peter-Love 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are considering marriage there are a lot of things that you have to take into consideration, You have to be sure you are compatible and you have to take finances into consideration as well. I am assuming since you are still needing your parents approval that you are under 18, if that is the case, maybe they see some things that you don't and you guys can talk about them. In any case marriage is serious business and I hope that you are looking at everything before you take this step.
2007-07-16 05:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember to not rush into things. ur relationship may seem to feel right as of the moment but a lot of things can still happen. Know your partner better then in time you would know what to do. That is when the right time comes. Good luck.
2007-07-16 05:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're concerned about him not of your "caste", I'm going to assume you're Hindu (or at least your parents are). So why not have your boyfriend do some really good deeds, then kill him. Once he reincarnates, he'll have moved up to your caste, or better. Then your parents will be thrilled for you to marry him.
Better hurry up and do it soon, though, you'll be waiting 18 years for him to be able to marry after he comes back.
2007-07-16 05:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Corbett 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound (and write) like a 10 year old. Try growing up before you get into a relationship. And if you "wanna" marry him then wait until you can do so legally.
2007-07-16 05:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to see the whole thing from yoru parents view points and what are their objections. if your BF has all teh answes for it then explain it to your parents. dont antagonize your parents at any cost. By the way which part of the world are you from? local issues also need to be taken care of here. open to talk.
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2007-07-16 07:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you really love him, then tell your parents that you know he can give you happiness and you will be happy being with him. Tell them that you know which guy can be your life partner.
Ask your parents is your happiness important to them.. if it is then prove to them that this guy can give you the happiness.. and of cos this need to be done together with your bf.
2007-07-16 05:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart..... If you love him,then go for it.You won't have regrets if you follow your heart.The worsest thing is to feel and say "what if?" thoughts in the future.So, follow your heart and you wont have any regrets.
2007-07-16 05:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by richardandrewparedes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to talk to your parents....tell them exactly how u feel about your boyfriend...if they don't agree still but u love your boyfriend then mary him!....i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we live together and i'm 3 months pregnant and my parents HATE my boyfriend....they have learned to eccept it because we have been together so long and he never does anything to make them think anything negative....just try to talk to them or have your boyfriend talk to them....you can't ALWAYS please your parents though.... sometimes you have to do things that u thing are best for u. good luck!
2007-07-16 05:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,,,
How old are you ?? what he is doing ?? How long you are loving each other ??
During love you can see only the positive approach.. marriage life is totally different pl. think and do
2007-07-16 21:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by suman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋