my husband is currently working overseas-he just left about a month ago and will be back in oct. we have been married abt 5 yrs, and I thought we had a good, honest relationship. i found this email addressed to a woman I have never heard of in his Sent Box:
Hello babe,
...so we'll meet up once i'm back...in oct tht is...thanks for the mails...kep them coming...take care and keep the engine warmed up when i come to see you...if u know whty i mean..
signed **his name**
is he cheating on me? shall i be worried?
please dont judge me on the fact that i had hacked into his email a/c. i was the one who set up this account for him a couple of yrs ago....but he hadnt called for the past week and replied my email, and i was worried for him...so, i had entered his account wanting to check if he had read my mails. thanks in advance for ur answers.
2007-07-16 03:50:08 · 33 answers · asked by swellen_gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you need a house to fall on you ? He's cheating , you have the proof . I have been on the internet for about 10 years .I play pogo games and in 99% of the rooms married people have something going on with someone else .And a lot of them meet in person . You can see them downing there hubby's and wives and sucking up to the honey
How do I know they are married ? I like to read profiles some are very funny . Internet cheating is a big thing . Confront him .
2007-07-16 04:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by feistyirishme7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, it sounds like she has a male friend. People have friends that they talk to like that, believe it or not. Especially if they are close. If anyone in the relationship has a problem, it's you. You're invading her privacy, jumping to conclusions, and getting overly jealous. I don't see where she has "lied" to you. There is no proof in any of that that she's cheating on you. You are the one "going behind" her back by reading her personal mail. If I were you, I would do nothing. You have no proof that she's doing anything, and you're only going to ruin the relationship when you have to explain what brought you to this conclusion (reading her email). And if you really can't trust her, then you need to break up with her.
2016-04-01 06:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send her an email and tell her I was his wife and ask her if she knew he was married? You really have nothing to lose, he's already keeping her engine warm. It is possible that she doesn't know that he's married, so don't automatically assume that, but I would send a simple email to "her". Then I would contact a lawyer, send his stuff to her house (or to another friends house)and change the locks. I would take him for everything the lawyer could get. Sorry, but he deserves what he gets.
2007-07-16 04:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by LAL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh man thats a tough one. Just based on what the email said I know if it were my husband I would be extremely suspicious. It does sound like something more than just an innocent email to some random girl to me. I would definately confront him about it when he gets home. just one evening when you two are alone I would just straight up ask him about it. You are his wife and you definately have a right to know. I hope everything works out for you two. Good luck!
2007-07-16 03:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for his return - hopefully you have no children invovled - but get out your sat at home like the trusting, honest loyal wife and he sends another women a mail like that -- HELL NO -- I wouldn't give him cause for concern until he returns. Or you could email her a take his stuff round.
Take care and remember you are worth more than that.
2007-07-16 04:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by bambam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always look at it from both sides. From your side I can definitely see your concern and I would have checked his email account too but from his side is it possible that the email was accidentally sent to the wrong "babe"? Maybe it was meant for you but was sent to the wrong email address. If you do confront him about this email and it was a mistake he won't trust you and he will probably open a new account or change his password so do a little digging first.
2007-07-16 03:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by bubbliebub 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's your husband and he hadn't contacted you in a week? I'm sorry but he's definitely cheating on you with at least one other person. I wouldn't be surprised if he's seeing someone overseas. It's up to you on whether or not you decide to confront him while he's gone or upon his return. Take this time to prepare yourself for a possible break up....I'm sorry
2007-07-16 03:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't already cheated - he will. I've been through this, and I'm so very sorry you have to - but be strong and confront him. Believe me, I wouldn't judge you on the email thing - I understand. It kind of sounds like he hasn't met up with her yet - sounds like he met her online and is planning onhooking up. Put a stop to it. And put your foot up his ***. Best wishes.
2007-07-16 04:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Magic 8 ball says yes
2007-07-16 03:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt reply to ur mails yet finds time to mail another woman..i think that says it all..esp the bit abt the engine..the meaning of their relationship is pretty clear..tell him that u found the incriminating mail n confront him..
good luck
2007-07-16 04:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by tas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋