Marriage & Divorce - 16 July 2007

Do you think it's better to cry sometimes or just brush it off & be strong! I think I mostly try to be strong, but if something hits me just right I will break down and cry! Am I a wimp or just human? Serious question.

I've had someone tell me I'm to old to have my feelings hurt. That's not true is it?

2007-07-16 17:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

10 year marriage. Wife suddenly unhappy and gets own apartment after I refuse to leave house but doesn't move out as planned - finally moves in with guy (second affair in 3 months) on our street who the children know (I do not) - cocaine likely being abused by wife - now does not call children or seem to be interested in them - incidentally had breast enhancement and botox without my knowledge about 3 weeks ago (? where money came from) - she is determined to allow this new person to spend time with our children and I am refusing - any suggestions? (I have filed for divorce and am seeking sole custody)

2007-07-16 16:59:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 16:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by C C 1

My sister used to say that all the time. I just read an answer to a post that reminded me of that. I've also heard alot of women say that. I personally think it depends on how much he cares about you. What do you think???

2007-07-16 16:56:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 16:47:22 · 16 answers · asked by lovelydol 1

Now that the kids have grown and pretty much left home and it's just she, myself and and the cat, I find that I've grown rather uncomfortable around my wife. The silence sometimes is almost deafening. Our interests are quite disimilar, and the fact that we don't nor really ever have had much in common doesn't make for very good conversation. And, I might add, the sex has become practically non existent, which only seems to compound the problem. This is, in a nutshell, is my problem. It's really considerably more complicated than this, but there just isn't the time or the space here for all the details. In short, I really don't know what to do. Any suggestions? Twenty six and a half years, I fear, are about to go down the drain unless a solution can be found. Thank you all in advance for whatever you might be able to contribute.

2007-07-16 16:45:40 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's 25. He's had a crush on me for the past 3 years, but because I was extremely, shy, busy with school and work i turned him down when he asked me twice and avoided him. I really do like him and realize the error of my ways and I want to try again, but he isn't being cooperative. I try to be friendly, smile, approach, start conversation but he is extremely nervous around me, help.

2007-07-16 16:38:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 16:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so lonley my husband never shows me any affection and when I ask him hwat the hell is up and tell him how it makes me feel real bad he acts like I am crazy he is really anice guy and sweet as can be just mean to me and on top of all this I mena I lilterally just got married last week and I thought newlyweds like have sex all the time so what is up I mena other people hit on me all the time and like would do anything to hae sex with me but still this si my husband the only one Iwant to be with so it ruins my self esteem what shoul dI do?

2007-07-16 16:34:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have 2 beautiful children together. he doesn't want me to work. He say's my responsibilities are to our children and he will take care of us financilly. Which he is at the time. what can i do legally to assure i am titled to some of our finances in the future, if we should split up? He calls me his wife and i call him my husband. We've been together for 6years. I am not trying to get out or get his$$. .. i just want to make sure me and my 2 kids are secured in th future if anything should happened. (I sense he is doing somthing behind my back)

2007-07-16 16:11:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my 20's, married, and my wife found out I masturbate. Our sex life is less than steller, so on occassion I'll do it. She is upset and I don't know what to say/do to calm her down? Is masturbation really that wrong?

2007-07-16 14:49:42 · 37 answers · asked by Tommy 1

Sexual relations outside of the bedroom, and especially outside of the home, can be an exciting and fun part of a married couple's sex life. But where and when, that is the question.

Is having sex in your car illegal? What kind of charges can one expect if caught engaging in a sexual act in their automobile?

How do you spice up your love life outside of the bedroom, and outside of the house?

2007-07-16 14:46:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was told (MIL)that I shouldnt "entertain"( we play rate the burp its not like I strip) people of the opposite sex when i'm married to someone... If I grew up a tomb boy and am far more comfortable beign friends with guys, shoudl i become reclusive when i beceom married and let my shusband be friends with either gender?Basicly it's an insecurtiy on my spouses part because he's afraid of revenge...I think its a bunch of milarchy

2007-07-16 14:41:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe it is the 18th anniversary. We are going to be at a family reunion on their actual anniversary, so we want to be able to bring something special. Maybe something customized or unusual (but nice). Nothing too plain and nothing tacky. Help! We are both teenagers so we don't have a ton of $$ but can spend a little bit.

2007-07-16 14:37:01 · 18 answers · asked by anonymous 4

She was so proud of the affair. She told me my husband was only with me because I was sick. This woman is 60 years old and have 6 grown child, she also have a husband. Should I tell her husband?

2007-07-16 13:59:25 · 35 answers · asked by rubyhurting 1

what are the statsic on living together verse marriage and what has the better out come.. not living together or living together

2007-07-16 13:54:10 · 16 answers · asked by vis 7

ok, well i love this guy very very much, he is my cousin, yes in my religion we are allowed to love and marry our cousins, he also loves me 2, but the only problem is he is 8 yrs older than me, and my mom doesn't want me to get married with anybody in the family, but our love for each other is so much, we can't live without being together, if anyone who has been through this situation, well than how did u overcome it, anyone who has loved plz answer

2007-07-16 13:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by island girl!! 5

i got married and everything was cool then i went to iraq and now we dont talk go out have sex or just about anything together.. she smiles when talking to family but never to me and when we talk i find myself pissed just at the site of her.... i know i should leave but we have a lil girl and i wanna take care of my baby but i also know i dont wanna raise her in a house with no love left what the hell should i do

2007-07-16 13:40:17 · 23 answers · asked by ready2go 1

Okay so my husband and I were together for a year and a few months and then we seperated. I moved out and took 1/2 the assets. But then we tried dating and did use our joint account a few months later. I feel that we should just stop and walk away and do a dissolution but he feels that I owe him money spent during the marriage. I am a full time student and he is a cpl in the marine corps. He made most of the money during our marriage. I told him it would be in our best interest to just do a dissolution because he would end up paying spousal support since he made most of the money. He is from west virginia and doesnt understand california laws (not that I myself have a superb knowledge either). Someone reccomended that we go to a mediator but would there be a point if he is not going to cooroperate? This whole thing is affecting my school financial aid and everything. I was also thinking about a seperation does he have to agree to that? PLEASE HELP! I am soooo lost . . . .

2007-07-16 13:20:06 · 4 answers · asked by TheButrfly 2

I was having an affair with a married woman that I was working with. She was having troubles in her marriage and so was I so we pursued a relationship. Her husband found out about it and proceeded to inform not only my wife but my entire neighbor hood. What form of revenge am I entitled too?

2007-07-16 13:18:04 · 43 answers · asked by clive_beaumont_1957 1

2007-07-16 13:13:25 · 21 answers · asked by Larry 4

also was told its a felony which I dont believe, hope someone can find an answer for me!

2007-07-16 13:11:21 · 18 answers · asked by Steven K 1

My buddy and i went to vegas for the weekend and he thinks because the girls we met said they were married and touching them would "cost him" they were hookers.

2007-07-16 13:09:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

have been married for 40 years. I guess I know the answer, but can't seem to do the right thing.

2007-07-16 13:07:28 · 15 answers · asked by connor 1

2007-07-16 13:03:10 · 20 answers · asked by Ryan M 1

My husband decided to change jobs so he will be able to be home during the week. So we're looking to buy a house closer to place of new business, and I am quitting my job (other quest. posted). He just called and said present employer offered him a raise and possible bonuses; (he is in construction, a superintendent). New job will give him a vehicle to drive to and from work and same wage with raise and bonuses regularly. He wants to stay with present job, but wants me to decide. I am very hurt. I thought the whole thing was so we could finally be together more instead of just weekends! I'm thinking of just telling him it's his choice, see what he does, and then decide how I am going to handle it; separation, divorce...I don't know. Am so confused. Any advice? And yes, I've discussed this all with him before, so he does know how I feel. I won't make the decision, because if I say you better take the new job or else, and it doesn't work out, he will blame me.

2007-07-16 13:01:02 · 14 answers · asked by dawnUSA 5

2007-07-16 12:48:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 12:45:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 12:34:27 · 13 answers · asked by ikiv 1

I have been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy but he has lied and kept stuff from me in the past nothing bad or serious like cheating,gambling or drugs just small insignificant things..Last yr he lied about numerous things so i had a talk with him and he promised to stop this but it happened again so again i had another talk with him and he said he would be open and honest with me from that moment on and he says he has and i hope he has but should i trust him on this.

2007-07-16 12:29:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous