2007-07-16 16:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by C C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, figure out what makes the other partner "in the mood" and go for it! If you work hard to increase their sex drive, you two could have a lot of fun!
There was a time when my "drive" was low during my marriage.. my husband and I talked about it.. and he would help out with housework after work so I wasn't so tired.. let me go get "pretty" and relax in the tub while he helped with the baby.. then when the baby was asleep, he would sit back and give me a nice massage with a bottle of lotion.. that would do the trick... of course, we tried other things too, but that's just an example of talking and working it out.
2007-07-16 17:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think so, you talk it out till you come to a solution, if one has a high sex drive and the other does not there has to be a compromise somewhere, relationships take work and it's hard but any promblem can be solved with talking and finding out how to make both of you happy, it's a hard situation one being into the sex and one not, but talk it out and find a way ...there is always a way....no cheating though....that's not right, if you really love one another you both have to understand why the other is the way they are and go from there....
2007-07-16 17:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will be difficult without intense counseling. I assume that one is a nymphomaniac, and the other is just OK with sex, or does disinterested mean frigid?
I can tell you that the one with the high sex drive is going to have some lonely nights!
This is an unequal match. Doomed
2007-07-16 17:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. I am way more interested then my dh or should I say was. We have talked and talked and talked for years about it and suddenly it is improving big time! you will have to work through it possibly with counseling or long talks of your own but if you really understand the person and they really understand you there is usually some way to resolve any problem.
2007-07-16 17:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think you need to get to the root of the real problem.
It may be that it is just manifesting itself in sex (or lack of).
2007-07-16 17:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. Relationships are more than sex. If you love someone you talk it out, figure it out and do what works for both of you.
2007-07-16 17:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure. It involves high speed Internet and a bottle of lotion.
2007-07-16 17:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by flashmeon3 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes. Not going tell you how to do it. :)
2007-07-16 16:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open marrage. my opion?
2007-07-16 17:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OPEN MARRIAGE!
2007-07-16 17:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by mimi s 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋