Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2007

Do you know anyone that got married because they were pregnant? In your experience, do they often work out?

2007-07-15 23:56:59 · 18 answers · asked by Jasmina 4

me and my bf have been dating for more than a year an a half now..i have a very bad temper..and each time when im angry..i'll take my anger out on my bf..he's really caring and continue being patient with me..until this year..he could not stand it any longer..he sad that he wants to take a break..and he is tired of arguing with me(we argue too often)...i cried and beg him not to leave me.. but he said that he'll leave me for 1 month..and in this 1months time..he's expecting me to change my attitude and anger..i really don't want to lose him..what should i do?

2007-07-15 23:14:50 · 11 answers · asked by pinky L 1

2007-07-15 23:10:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 3 years and have a 1 year old son together. He also has 3 other kids from his previous marriage. Anyway, i don't know what to do. He doesn't ever seem ''in the mood'' to do anything with me anymore or at least lately. He says he is always in the mood but he never tells me. When i ask him why he doesn't answer. He also seems to be in a depressed mood lately and i try and talk to him about it and he doesn't answer back. No, im not a nagging wife infact i give him plenty of space. This situation is really bugging me. It's like we're an old married couple with sex being last. Now i don't need to hear how sex isn't everything because believe me i know it's not but it's different when it's pretty much non existant. My husband's other son besides the one we have together lives with us too and he has slept by his friend's house 3 nights in a row yet my husband and i spent ZERO time together all 3 nights! Does anyone see a problem with this? I do. I haven't let myself

2007-07-15 22:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Periodically I write and ask advice for a male friend who has had ongoing trouble with the mother of his daughter. I always look for insight and advice here, because some give the best advice here. So many sharp minds. Which has been a awesome resource.
He came to me today, very upset. He recieved some emails, which I read, and was so sick I thought I would vomit.
His daughter has not been to his house in 4 months. And she sent him numerious e-mails stating unless he divorced his current wife, she would never be back. She has claimed her stepmother has pinched her and called her a fat, nasty, lesbian. And cusses her out all the time. This was also what his daughter has said her mothers ex and the kids at school have said. So there is a patern. His current wife has never done anything of the sort and is offended and very put off by them. He is now going to hire a lawyer to terminate parental rights because he is sick of his ex using his child and is disgusted to no end.

2007-07-15 22:53:19 · 13 answers · asked by treasuredwife69 5

My wife is planning to resign her job today and going back to her home country to live with her parents and her sister. Wehave been married for four years. All the fights and arguements have brought us to this point. She often talks of her ex boyfriend, but admits she fought more with him than me. But I don't look for fights. This situation has come to a head now so she is going fotr about 2 or 3 months. I thinkthe space is good because it will give us both time to assess things clearly. Yet I know if she does'nt come back, I will miss her, and in another way, maybe I won't. For those that have been through this, how did you cope, or if you still are going through this, how are you coping?

2007-07-15 22:50:55 · 10 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

What is wrong if a woman has a relationship with another man especially when her husband is drunkard and has been pretending to her and telling lies to her that he doesn't have this habit at all and spends money on this and tells hundreds of lies for this and she comes to know about this habit thro one of this office colleagues itself. Added to this if he happens to be earning less and incapable of running a family whereas the wife happens to earn more than him. Will any woman have any respect for this kind of a man will she not be agitated and wanted to have her own kind of life. Pls do not say divorce since it is being considered as a taboo even today by some family . What do you say if a woman has been bearing with this kind of a man for nearly 4 yrs. At least if he is settled in life to certain extent we can accept even that is not there means won't any woman's mind get diverted. That too when she is forced to bear with this man. After all she is also a ordinary humanbeing.

2007-07-15 22:50:11 · 10 answers · asked by janu 1

Here's a quick run through:
1. Realized I couldn't afford to live in california after the seperation.
2. Discussed my financial situation with father & advised I'd have 2 move & that we needed 2 come up w/ a custody arrangement.
3. Was served w/ custody papers preventing me from leaving.
4. I Initially proposed 2 let her stay w/ him for the 1st 3 years, where she would be w/ me in the summer & alternating Thanksgiving & Christmas ( 2 get aclomated 2 the new area), then for the following 3 years she'd come w/ me & be w/ him for the summer, etc. - - - He did not agree & requested 2 have her evaluated (I guess this request is a right he has).
5. Father has a history of trying 2 keep my 12 year old stepson from his natural mother & not encouraging a relationship between them (I've raised him for the last 10 years). He's showing signs of repeating that with our kid
6. He has spanked our other kids (welts, bruises), there is a report from CPS on fie.
7. She wants to come with me 1st

2007-07-15 21:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dear Friends, I need to obtain the Marriage Certificate for Legal Purpose i am married for more than 7 years with both Born & Brougt in Mumbai. what documents are required to submit. or their any site from where i can obtain Form H. Please give me details answer in this regards

2007-07-15 21:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by CoolVeryCool 1

My husband of 15 year does not love me nor respecct me anymore.He has a series of affairs and he moves with other women openly without caring for my feelings.This has gone on for over 10years.We have 3 children (14,12,1 and half years )he is finacially stable,He gives us all the financiall support and he loves his children but as I said earlier has no love for me.We have not had sex for over 1 year because of his lack of interest.
Three years ago I fell in love with another man who now loves me dearly.He has show me love ,respect and attention that I have not experienced before ,with him I feel like a quen.We got so intimate to the point of getting a baby with him.The baby is now 1 and Half year old (my 3rd born) and due to ignorance my husband is not aware that he is not the biologocal father.
I now want to runaway from my husband and get married to this man who loves me dearly.

Pls advice.

2007-07-15 21:36:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is not a good listener .I am a bit emotional & sentimental . whenever i want to share something which hurts me he always has a negligent attitude and wants to get rid to that topic. i feel hurt & lonely and doesn't find in him the person with whom i can share my feelings& my emotions. please help

2007-07-15 21:04:02 · 16 answers · asked by cancer 1

when my husband died 5 years ago, i started doing meth all the time dailey,i had to go through

2007-07-15 20:21:55 · 6 answers · asked by countrygirl 1

2007-07-15 20:08:06 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Muffet 1

My husband came in the room and ask "What is that fishy smell?" I was so embarrassed I acted like I didn't know what it was.

Whay does my vagina smell days after I eat fish?

2007-07-15 20:07:00 · 20 answers · asked by Truth_Hurts 1

My ex and I have shared custody of our beautiful children who I adore. I spend all three of my days per week doing all kinds of fun activities with the children... skating, kung fu, Renaissance Festival, Movies, parks, and spending lots of time at Grandma and Grandpa's house :-) The problem is that she always has something to complain about come Sunday when she picks them up. This time it was because one of our children had a accident (poo poo) in her pants while my ex was watching her. She says this is my fault because I am a bad father somehow. What do I do? I've tried to reason with her and ignore her but it just doesn't seem to work. Any insight from those of you who know... or ideas from those who don't?

2007-07-15 20:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by Red Dragon 2007 {Free Palestine} 4

Had a great time with my girlfriend yesterday.we rented a movie got a pizza and had some margauritas.we were both buzzed but not drunk.She went and lay on the bed and Istarted giving her a massage.I know massages dont necessarily lead to sex and if I do get sexual and she's not in the mood she will let me know.She did not give any sign this time.She let me take off her clothes.I turned her over and started kissing the whole front of her.I had my hand down there and she was very wet.After a while I went for a condom came back and put it on.Continuing to sensually run my hands over her body I slid inside of her.30seconds later she made sounds like she wanted me to stop which did but I was confused felt like i took advange.I said sorry kissed her on the head and went outside to cool off.I came back in I asked her why she stopped me cus I feel bad and she said why r u saying its my fault n i said because you let me get that far.Its cool if she didnt want to but why let it get that far.

2007-07-15 19:54:48 · 9 answers · asked by Tool7 3

my wife and i had seperated about a month ago and the state will not give us a divorce untill 60 days are up. she has been out (with my son) at partys with all kinds of people who she doesnt know and left him in a back room all alone. so do i try for full custody or should i just just wait till the state makes her give him up

2007-07-15 19:32:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I said some hurtful things to my ex bf as I have had trust issues in the past. I was jealous he was seein his ex as a friend. I regret so many of the the things I said. We have talked for hours on end and are still very close. He is very stubborn and says that he cant forgive me for the things I said. I regret this and have told him and asked him for another chance. I really want him back. How can I win him round? Anyone else been in this situation?

2007-07-15 19:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3

he looks at webcam sites and dating sites too but he won't have sex with me

2007-07-15 19:18:03 · 6 answers · asked by violet g 1

I think I just figured it out. Married for 18 years. I asked her why and she told me that when she figures it out she will tell me. I'm a great father and was a good husband. I think she lacked big time in self esteem. She had a eating disorder in highschool. I told her when she left me how I always told her how beautiful she was. Her response.. If you don't feel it on the inside it doesn't matter. She was also raped in highschool and molested by her step brother. Could I have found a big piece to my puzzle? She lacked self esteem and heres a new guy telling her who knows what. what do you think??thank you

2007-07-15 19:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 19:04:46 · 4 answers · asked by dimpy k 1

what could a man change to keep his relationships strong and healthy, and how much time does he need to change when all this man has to offer is his faithfulness and his love.

2007-07-15 19:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by jrgimp 2

2007-07-15 18:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by kelley 1

I'm getting married next year, what I want to know is.. I have 2 bridesmaids and now my fiance only want 1 best man.Now i dont know if its going to work out because now we are going to be 3 women an 2 men standing at the front.Is there any way i can make it equel.

2007-07-15 18:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by jjdd 2

So, I know this isn't a Q... and has nothing to do with Marriage / Divorce, but if you're like me you could use a good laugh.

Tonight I take my three year old out to eat. I had hush puppies and she was eyeing them. I offered her one and she gingerly dunked it in her ketchup.. then she got ready to bite, but hesitated, pulled it back and looked again. I knew it was a "new" food for her, so I said, "It's ok, honey, just take a bite." She said "How do I eat it?" I said, "well, just bite into it, it's not that cruchy all the way through".. she said, she stops and looks at me... and says very quietly and very seriously, "but mommy, it'll bark."

2007-07-15 18:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

She is married and I have a long time boyfriend. But this hair thing is plain annoying!!!!!Any psychs with insight on this behavior?

2007-07-15 18:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by exosted 1

I was not looking for anyone and BANG the magnet of attraction hit me like a ton of bricks. I have been married 20yrs and have 2 sons (14 and 18). I have had a pretty high libido for most of my marriage. Although my husband and I have had a healthy sex life,he seems to be losing his interest in sex over the past few years. He makes excuses that he's tired or early morning rise or "i don't want to mess your new expensive hairdo". I even waxed everything for him and bought a silky sexy nightgown and he said oh that's nice now hurry up and let's get some shut eye Well this man i have been driving to church on Sundays is kind, polite, actually listens to what i have to say. I never in a million years would've thought that I would entertain the idea of being sexually draw to another man I love my husband but I have never felt the tingling through my body as when i see him. Wks have gone by and he is saying he loves me and will take care of me.Do i leavemy family to be happy again or endit

2007-07-15 18:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by LIZ M 1

Yes, we had had sexual activities previously but like our relationship is a long distance type and sometimes we asked ourselves to do certain things but I ended up turning him off bc I don't do it bc i feel uncomfortable. I went thru a very bad thing in my past and Thanks God I knew how to deal with that and Now i feel better. my fiance knows about that bc he even helped to get right off from that. But like I want to give my best to who's gonna be my future husband. I feel so sad bc he feels sad I can't please him. How can i change that?
He pleases me super well and I... just dont reply back like he'd wish. He says that he doesnt understands why I feel that way. we love alot each other.

What can I do?

2007-07-15 18:43:56 · 10 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2

Because I was wanting to see some pictures of FRUMPY DUMPY wemen.

But instead I got the opposite.

What gives?

Do a search for "husband" and no porn

Do a search for "wife" and every picture is porn.

I think it tells you a little about society and wemen.

2007-07-15 18:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

It results in nothing but hot naked women. When did the word "wife" become synonymous with porno?

I thought "wife" was something sacred...right? NOT.

I would post the link for it but:

1. I don't want to get reported
2. it’s easy enough for you to do it. Just type "wife" in Google and click on the images link. yep.

2007-07-15 18:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3