2007-07-15 20:08:06 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Muffet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOPE- if we are married he should be faithful. If we are having problems, then we should communicate them, not run out and cheat.
Communication is the key, both partners need to listen, take things in, think about it, and work on a resolution, if problems can't be resolved, then move on. AKA- if my husband cheats on me, it's OVER. But if our problem is he leaves towels on the floor, I can ask him to not to and he can work on it and make an effort.
2007-07-15 20:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbyt 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you can forgive but you cant forget.... It's always in the back of your mind... and depending onthe guy they become accusational and paranoid that your gonna do the same as"payback" or something... if its a habit you need to be a secure confident person that the one you love may wander but never for long... because you will go crazy if you think every little conversation or anything wiht the opposite sex is something more...knowing they had looked elsewhere will be there.. and the next thing you know that extra smile at the cashier in stop and shop turns into an argument all the way home... or a "hidden" attitude from you for the rest of the night....
2007-07-16 09:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If my wife wanted to go out for lunch without me I would definitely divorce.
Your question is so vague as to be meaningless. My wife and I both look elsewhere all the time for a whole number of things, we have even been known to look at members of the opposite sex and find them attractive.
What we don't do is engage in sex outside of our marriage or do anything that we know would upset our partner.
Looking is OK, touching is very border line and depends on touching what, when and how and intimacy, particularly sexual intimacy is out.
2007-07-16 03:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would they forgive you? Doubt it. Why are they looking elsewhere anyways they evidently arent happy and looking would be the first step to cheating.
2007-07-16 06:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by jalaney_delaney 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck no Kick him to the curb. Once they cheat nothing will stop them. Not kissing the A**, not cooking for them, not showing up naked and telling them you want sex.
If they are dipping elsewhere you don't want what they get from whoever!!
2007-07-16 03:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that. it's only normal to look elsewhere if there's something of interest. we all are human beings and the reaction is normal.
2007-07-16 03:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking elsewhere for what?
2007-07-16 03:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldnt forgive and my hubbie did it and I couldnt forgive because forgiving means forgeting and I havent forgot it yet
2007-07-16 03:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by LOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he was just a quick look, or dropped his mouth type look. But nonetheless, it is wrong and disrespectful. Talk to your partner about your feelings, let him know how you feel hurt, and to value you as a person that he loves....good luck
2007-07-16 03:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Noe F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't personally. Can't tell someone you love them and sware to be loyal to them but then go cheat on the side. I would have enough respect for myself to leave. If he can't respect me, then I need to do that for myself IMO.
2007-07-16 05:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Һסρε 2ӨӨ8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋