Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2007

I work out of town a lot. All of the time. My wife has never complained about it and wwas always okay with it. I have just gotten some info that she has been cheating on me. She admitted it. Should I even the score?

2007-07-15 16:00:00 · 26 answers · asked by jalwells 2

I want to sound stuck up but I just recently met this guy off a dating site about three weeks ago. We finally met and I went to his house after the date. He is a really geniuine guy. He's very sweet and compassionate. Everything I wanted in a guy. He lives with his parent because he is still in college. But when I went to his house it was a different story. It wasn't nasty but it wasn't the cleanest either. Then he has bugs which grossed me out. Some people say you should judge a book by its cover. But if you knew we were coming back to your place why not already clean it up. Am I being to dramatic about this. I am going to feel very uncomfortable if we do keep talking about coming to his house. What do you think?

2007-07-15 15:51:42 · 27 answers · asked by situated 1

This has been going on for a couple of years and they said that they were gettin a divorce several of times but my sis and i won't let them. they aren't like they used to be(from what i remember) but they fight call eachother names and idk what to do anymore so plz i need help can you tell me some ideas or somethin i want my parents to be happy i want my family back

2007-07-15 15:50:52 · 8 answers · asked by lolo 1

Would you tell your hubby the truth how you loose your virginity knowing that he is a very jeolous person. I have lied to him when we were dating and he didn't suspect that he is not my first one. Should I tell him the truth now. We are married for 20 years already.

2007-07-15 15:50:41 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 15:50:37 · 16 answers · asked by Pamela P 1

Im talking expenses, If one spouse makes 70k and one makes 24K how should the finances be split? After I make my car payment,put gas in the car and mainaince, pay my medical bills, credit cards,and groceries I literally have about 50 dollars left.Many times I have bounced checks to pay for groceries. My husband wants me to get rid of my car and give him that money towards the house.He goes out at least once a week. He gave his son a car and pays the insurance as well.He gave his oldest son a credit card w/a 10k limit. My husband pays for all the charges on the card.( including airline tickt for his sons girlfriend) He says he gives them a small percentage compared to what he "gives"me. All 3 boys are in their 20's- one is 27. He calls me a freeloader and wants me to leave. I truely do what I can. I work but am restricted to 30 hours a week due to an injury l He pays all the household expenses I do not ask him for anything.If I do I pay it back. I would leave if I could afford to.

2007-07-15 15:49:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 15:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 15:47:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY MARRIAGE ENDED UNEXPECTEDLY,HE WAS DOING DIRT THAT HE WOULD NOT ADMIT TO AND OUR PASTOR HAD TO TELL ME EVERTHING, HOW DO I HANDLE BEING LEFT WITH ALL THE EXSPENCES AND EVERTHING ON MY OWN,I REALLY ALSO WANT TO KNOW HOW TO GET THIS S.O.B BACK FOR ALL THE HURT. THE ONLY GOOD THING THAT CAME FROM THE RELATIONSHIP IS OUR TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN.

2007-07-15 15:44:25 · 7 answers · asked by MissLady 1

i just dont know what to do anymore. me and my other half were doing fine up until a few months ago then everything started going downhill. he will NOT sleep with me anymore. he says our bed hurts his back too much but it never botherd him the first 6 months that we had it. he has no time for me anymore but any time his ex asks him to go do something with her hel go with her. every time i ask him to go do something with me he either tells me hes busy ( he hasnt worked for over a month) or hes too tired. he conveniently sleeps while im home and then when i go to work he stays up and then when i get home hes wide awake and i have to fight to stay awake to talk to him because im so tired from working. the worst part is ever since we been together hes told me he loved me and now he wont tell me anymore. every time i say it to him he tells me " yah whatever" or "thats so overrated". its really hurting my feelings. ive talked to a few friends about it but i wanted to see what yallz thought.

2007-07-15 15:44:08 · 42 answers · asked by *Jenn* 6

2007-07-15 15:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

would like to see my w-2 for last yer. Not order it.

2007-07-15 15:33:30 · 1 answers · asked by chinadoll 1

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and we have a great son and another on the way, due next month. The problem is that for the past month or two, there really hasn't been any romance, sex for instance. We both work different hours, but there are times, when we could fit it in, but either I'm too tired from chasing a 2 yr old and being pregnant and I actually don't feel desirable. I haven't gained a lot of weight (19 lbs) during pregnancy, but I've tried saying stuff like to try to get in the mood, but it doesn't work. Talking to him doesn't work alll the time too. What are your thoughts? What should I do?

2007-07-15 15:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Andrea W 3

My husband cheated.
Now we both really want to work it out and be happy but EVERYTHING I do makes me think about it! TV, Radio, comments, EVERYTHING. I find myself totally obsessed and I know that we'll never heal if this doesn't stop! I've tried, hobbies, and therapy too. I'm just totally stuck on what he did.
I'm so sick of everyone saying TIME. Time heals all wounds. To me time is the enemy because it means more time to dwell and think about it!

2007-07-15 15:20:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on so he could expereince the feel. He complied like a good hubby and hes been hooked on wearing them ever since (only for bedroom action). I really havent worn them much since and and its kind of ironic that as I was moving away from wearing them, hes was getting into it. Now I wear the pants, and he wears the pantyhose!

2007-07-15 15:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 15:09:55 · 16 answers · asked by stllablu1977 1

well maybe she loves you but isnt in love with you anymore.

2007-07-15 15:07:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had to do it all over again would you marry your current spouse? Not saying that you don't love them but has it all been worth it? Would you do it all again?

2007-07-15 15:02:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 15:00:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my hubby cheated on me though maybe no sexual relationship with that women. He has since stop all contacts from her. However, I lost the trust that I used to have in him. I become paranoid easily. I can't forget what he did and keep imagine what he actually did with that women doing those few months. It really hurts me.

2007-07-15 14:58:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, this is the story: I drove 5 1/2 hours to go pick up my 15 year-old step-daughter, and we had a GREAT time (at least I thought). My husband had to leave for a couple of days (he owns his own business and had to fix some equipment located in a town close to my step-daughter's house) and was leaving her in my care. She told my husband that she didn't like me, didn't want anything to do with me, and didn't want to talk to me and even called her mom to talk her mom into coming to get her.

When she called her mother, she said, "I don't like her, and I don't like him." She did this is the presence of my 6 year-old son and eight year-old daughter--my son started crying because he thought she was talking about them. She caused a lot of problems with my husband and my husband's ex-wife...I have tried to stay neutral.

My husband and I have been married for 13 years.

What would you do in my situation??

2007-07-15 14:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by futureteacher0613 5

Okay, this is the story: I drove 5 1/2 hours to go pick up my 15 year-old step-daughter, and we had a GREAT time (at least I thought). My husband had to leave for a couple of days (he owns his own business and had to fix some equipment located in a town close to my step-daughter's house) and was leaving her in my care. She told my husband that she didn't like me, didn't want anything to do with me, and didn't want to talk to me and even called her mom to talk her mom into coming to get her.

When she called her mother, she said, "I don't like her, and I don't like him." She did this is the presence of my 6 year-old son and eight year-old daughter--my son started crying because he thought she was talking about them. She caused a lot of problems with my husband and my husband's ex-wife...I have tried to stay neutral.

What would you do in my situation??

2007-07-15 14:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by futureteacher0613 5

my fiance and i decided to cancel/postpone our august 4, 2007 wedding. we're still together and in the process of working on our relationship.
i was told the according to proper ettiquette, we should return our shower gifts. we in the process of writing our thank you cards for our guests but also want to add on the thank you card that since our wedding is no longer taking place(for the time being), we want to guest to know they have the option for us to return their gift.
we neeeeeed help on how should we word this!!!!
HELP!!

2007-07-15 14:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3

I'm in my early 30's and with the same person for 12 years (I've been cheated on, ignored..the whole 9)...3 kids later I have no feelings for him...we've tried counseling and staying together for the kids...common sense says to part ways but he wants to keep trying and says I'm cold. I say you only get one shot at life and I don't want to be miserable at mine. Any thoughts from people who've been where I am? Thanks!

2007-07-15 14:29:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 22 years old and right out of college, and next week I will be getting married to my high school boyfriend next week. We've been together since we were about 15, and has been our goal to get married since we were 16. We also agreed that we would not have sex until we were married, not because of Religious belief, but just because we wanted it to be special.

SO, I am extremely excited to finally be married to him, and though he has already seen most of my body, I'm more worried about the actual intercourse, and how much it will hurt. I mean, the wedding night is supposed to be special! I just don't want to associate sex with pain, because I want it to be beautiful. How much does it hurt? What is the type of pain similar to?

Thanks!

2007-07-15 14:27:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My childs mother moved to another state (since returned) and was married.She has told me that my son was adopted by her husband,claiming to the courts that I had decesed.Could she have actually gotten away with this and how can I find out?

2007-07-15 14:26:48 · 13 answers · asked by joseph t 1

horrible, you feel like someone kicked you in the stomach) if a pill was offered to you to take away all the pain and memories, but you would NEVER feel that kind of love again in your lifetime , would you take the pill ?

2007-07-15 14:25:45 · 19 answers · asked by m210max 2

when you asked her to marry you how long before you told any one.. my bf asked me.. it has been a month when i ask him last wk why he has not told any one he say he has not had time..but he calls his parents everyday even though they live 10 min away and tells them about work.. and he has not mention it to his twin brother.. should red flags be flying.. because they are at the moment.. so i am thinking of telling him we need to stay gf and bf.. he did the same to his ex.. they never knew they were once engange.. and they had 2 kids together

2007-07-15 14:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by vis 7

how long were you in love before you married?

2007-07-15 14:13:55 · 13 answers · asked by ♫Magali♫ 5

2007-07-15 14:12:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous