how do you know when your wife doesnt love you anymore.?

Question

well maybe she loves you but isnt in love with you anymore.

Answer 1

When she has a distant look in her eyes. When her eyes don't light up when she sees you. When she doesn't want you to touch her, even when she's not angry. When she seems to pick fights for no reason.

Answer 2

When you just touch her and she pushes you away ,when you try to hold a conversation with her and she can't stand still long enough for you to finish and all sex stops When you walk in the same room she is in and she gets up and leaves. When you go to kiss her and she tells you you have bad breath. I could go on and on bottom line is only you know your wife and if she has changed towards you. Don't forget that marriages go through phases one day you love each other and the next day you can't stand to look at each other. Her love for you could be so far down that it will take something so loving and thoughtful from you to show how much you love her and appreciate her, her love will come rushing back to you sometimes that's all it takes.

Answer 3

Ask her and hopefully she will answer. It's obvious that something isn't working right and opening the lines of communication should be the number one step...number two is to get to a counselor. If you are on line trying to find out from strangers how your wife feels then that's number one in your list of problems.. lack of communication. If you let this go on for too long you will have more problems then you ever thought.. take care of it now! Good luck and dont' be a coward.. confront her.

Answer 4

It is only because he does not have the Lord in his life guiding him. There is a reason it is written in the Bible that we are not to divorce. I made that mistake several years ago. I divorced my first husband after 7 years of marriage. I felt the love wasn't there and I felt miserable. I remarried and it was worse than the first one. He was a liar and a cheater. It lasted maybe a year at the most, married on paper legally for about 2 years. I didn't know this mans character but I am paying very dearly for it now. He is a very revengeful and rotten person. I moved back to my home state with my kids and the twins we had. To make a very long story short, he played the system well and took residential custody of the twins. I now have to live by a miserable parenting plan that limits my visits to just the summer and a few holidays a year. Now he is seeking more revenge. He wants child support even though he makes well over $60,000 a year. It has been nothing but a nightmare. I remarried 4 years ago, being with my now husband almost 10 years. We started out as good friends. A little over 2 years ago I found the Lord and became a born again Christian. My husband did the same thing. This is the reason our marriage has lasted. Had we not found the Lord who knows what would have became of our marriage because we were ready to end it after the first year. The Lord shows you the way and keeps divorce out of your mind and He somehow gives you a sense of happiness to be with your spouse. The Lord still made me look at what is now. My first husband has a girlfriend who is into drugs and lost all 4 of her children to the state from her first relationship because of that. I now have grown up and teenage kids who are very disrespectful due to being around my first ex husband's girlfriend. They have tattoos, piercings, you name it and they have been caught out late at partys and in trouble with the law. Had I just stayed in my first marriage, maybe none of this would be going on and my older kids may have decent lives and also know the Lord. It is very hard to try and teach them now that they have lost respect for us adults who divorced. Might I add I would not have the drama in my life from my second marriage going on at this time had I just stayed in my first marriage to begin with and made it work. Eventually I would have found the Lord and loved my husband all over again. Stay in you marraiges. Don't leave just because you think you don't love your husband. Satan is here to destroy. Don't let it be your life. Seek salvation through Jesus Christ today. He is waiting for you and he truly hears you and there is not a sin in the world that he won't forgive.

Answer 5

She doesn't pay attention to you anymore, what you do doesn't hurt or affect her, she doesn't care if you're not affectionate, she has a life and prefers that life outside of you, she pays more attention to others, she dresses differently and is starting to exercise, eat right, etc., she tells you she's not in love with you, she lies, she has no regards to your feelings, she does things to upset you, she uses her free time away from you, she is selfish, she stops talking about you to friends, she's making new friends particularly that of the opposite sex, and that's all for now...

Answer 6

maybe you've been married for so long the passion has worn off, but it doesn't mean she doesn't love you anymore. Try and find new ways for you both to be together so you'll enjoy each other's company again. Let her know how much this means to you because you love her so much.

Answer 7

You should know your spouse. If something doesn't feel right go with your gut. Keep the communication Lines open. Make sure you figure out whats going on. If you feel like its worth fighting for then do it.

Answer 8

When she is not affectionate towards you anymore; when she says she has to work late and doesn't get home until 4a.m. Just not to see you at home!!!
Good luck on this!!!!

Answer 9

Love is not about sx. It's about wanting to be together for worse or good. What your point of view?

Answer 10

She has no respect for you, she is not happy to see you, she stops talking with you. And you must look at why that happened? What has effected this did you have an affair? Did she have an affair?