If you had to do it all over again would you marry your current spouse? Not saying that you don't love them but has it all been worth it? Would you do it all again?
2007-07-15 15:02:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My lady and I were married the day after our high school graduation. We had our children when we were very young because we wanted to grow up with them, and we did. I thought, at the time that I was marrying the "perfect lady", and continue to feel that way today. Of course we've only been together forty five years, so maybe something negative will turn up. I'll let ya know. Would I do it all over again? What do you think? Life is good.
2007-07-15 15:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely marry my husband again!
We 'married' again for our 5 year anniversary and I would like to do that evey 5 years! We have been married over 8 years so not a huge amount of time but it seems a long time! We have had some hard times but my love for him is great. I just can't imagine being with anyone else.
2007-07-15 15:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not trade my wife in on a new model!
(I could not handle the break in period!)
Actually I think I did pretty well when I married my wife. We have been married about 27 years, and it has been more good than bad!
You can always play the "what if" game. What if I was able to marry a super model? What if I found a rich sex fiend? What if, what if , what if.
You can not change the past, and your memories of the ones that got away are always going to be better than reality!
If I had to do it all over again, I would make some changes, but the changes would be more about me than her! I got a good one!
2007-07-15 16:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by fire4511 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would definetly. It has only been a short 6 yrs of marriage but I would. all over again. The difference my husband has over the others I dated, he has my respect. I suspected after a few dates he was the one for me. I had not even kissed him yet. I knew if he ever asked me to marry him I would not even have to think about it. I knew if I could not make it work with him, then I couldn't with anyone else. But no one else could I go through life with and feel we are bonded stronger than before. No regrets.
I was engaged to another man before in my 20's but I called it off. I am so glad I never married him. I know I did us both a favor. I was/am certain still to this day that one would not have lasted.
Before I met my husband I would think what would have been about another guy from my early 20's but that sadly to say would have ended in divorce too. He spent $ like crazy,($ he didn't make) example: bought/traded in many cars in 1 yr. (credit nightmare) He wanted to live together after a short courtship I didn't. I had to work, save $ pay students loans first etc. I was a little more into financial responsilbility ,credit, but got along great with his family.
He was live for a moment I want it now materials guy. Perhaps I just knew he wasn't the one. Shortly after moving 1 hr. away from him, he was acting weird. I openly asked him if he was seeing someone and wanted to break it off (we were exclusive) He said no just tired etc whatever excuse. I stupidly blieved him.1 month later he dumped me. I found out after he was dating someone(probably sleeping with) for a month and lying to make sure she'd stay before cutting me loose.Better before marriage than after huh?
She gave him what he wanted that I couldn't/wouldn't: live together & co-mingle finances before marriage, engaged, married, bought a brand new construction home,(her credit) all in less than a year. True love probably, but I could not have moved that fast at that age.
As I got older I realized it would not have lasted and it was really about other stuff not him that I missed. My ego about getting dumped/cheated on and liking his family so much not that he was such a great guy. .
2007-07-15 15:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would I do it all over again? Yes! Would I do exactly what I did all over again? No.
I have made mistakes and so has he. If I had known then what I know now, I would have done things differently.
But if I had the choice of doing it over exactly the same, or never having met him at all, I would choose to do the same again. What can I say, I love him.
2007-07-15 15:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would definately do it all over again. No matter how many problems that we have had in the past almost 8 years none of them had directly to do with the two of us. We have been very happy with each other. I would do it a million times again if given the opportunity!
2007-07-15 15:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by 4everNever 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband very much, we have a very close relationship. If I had to do it all over again I would still marry him, even though at times it's difficult, I can't imagine my life without him.
2007-07-15 15:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren S. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've only been married for 2 years but yes, I'd certainly marry my husband again.
2007-07-15 15:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ahni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would over and over again. We have had some hard times but that comes with every marriage. I learn new things about my husband everyday. So for me it is never dull!! I have 3 great little boys.
2007-07-15 15:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn`t.. i have been with him for 16 yrs and am tired of being someones room mate..he sits in his chair at night and i try to talk to him he pays no attention...might as well just have his picture there..i got a new job and tried to tell him some stories he told me he didn`t want to hear about it..we have a daughter together she is 13 now and he treats her as if she is a burdon. he calls her a ***** and he thinks she will and up pregnant. she talks to me about everything.. i know her..he didn`t even wish her happy birthday let alone a gift.. he has a grandson from his oldest son previous marriage that he dotes on all the time.. i am tired and we don`t even have sex anymore he is 55 and i am 44 and i look great..
2007-07-15 15:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋