Marriage & Divorce - 12 July 2007

2007-07-12 23:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many times I have mentioned my divorce problem. I have took divorce from my husband. He never cares me and loved me.His family also torcher me.
I was always polite with everyone with my in-laws and my husband. Till six years of my marriage I try to solve all problems.But no result. Now everything have finished. I have took divorce.Buth some person advise me that because you was polite thats why your husband and your in-laws torcher you. I you took bold step against them then every thing could be O.k. But I tried my level best for settle everything but I was failed.I have no kid so some people suggest if you have a kid then all will be fine. Is all that true. Please advise.
Poonam

2007-07-12 23:28:47 · 6 answers · asked by poonam s 1

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2007-07-12 23:20:39 · 15 answers · asked by suresh m 1

Hi…I’m a 24 yr old woman. I’ve been married for 2 yrs now. I have a wonderful marriage a wonderful man as a husband. He’s 27. But this little thing is bothering me and I’m unable to take my mind off it. 2 days ago I was sifting through the cupboards and found a tape. It was a cupboard where we store our old things…like our college stuff, old albums and the like. I found this tape and I knew it was my husband’s since it wasn’t mine. I knew he was part of his university band and would tape their performances and hilarious moments. I took it to be one such tape and couldn’t resist having a look at wat’s in it. Wat I found gave me a shock. It wasn’t anything near a stage performance…it was a steamy video of my husband with a girl. He was very young in it…bout 19 or 20. I shouldn’t have but I watched a bit more of it and found that it was the first time for the girl. I know my hubby used to be a heartthrob in school and college and knew he has had his share of affairs but this tape gives me such a strange feeling. I can’t describe the feeling that I am going through right now. I didn’t talk to my husband about finding the video though but bottling it up inside me is so terrible for me. I feel like I have trespassed into something I shouldn’t have. But at the same time I feel a bit angry at my hubby too. Wat do I do? How do I deal with it? Do I tell my hubby about it? Wat can be his reaction? Plz plz plz tell me.

2007-07-12 23:04:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Judgement have given the divorce. If I marrie that person.
1. what is the 1st wife rights.
2. Assets and Income will be shared to 1st wife also.
3. what is the right 1st wife child rights.
4. How much will be paid the Income & Assets
5.

2007-07-12 22:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by poorna 1

I left my wife when she discovered the 16 months of emails to my mistress that I had saved. We are negotiating a financial settlement and I am worried that she will use the details against me. What privacy laws can protect me from this? Can I prevent her from going "public" with my writings?

2007-07-12 22:54:29 · 16 answers · asked by creep 1

the relationship is about 12 yrs now. we have 1 son. yes were not yet married, because he is not yet divorced. Although he keep telling me i am his wife now, idon't feel it.He is working outside of the country for 5 yrs. He is giving us only 10% of his salary. And when he comes home here, he is telling me that he bought jewelry amounting to big money and i put in the bank deposit, and he usually bought all his friends a branded gift when he is coming home here and when he goes back to his work place. Yes i feel jealous coz it seems that he is forgetting me, I am just pissed off coz i can't see the real meaning of wife that he keep telling me. Now i am tired and fed up. Do you blame me if oneday i will leave him?

2007-07-12 22:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by pink_blossom 2

He is a good Dad and whenever his ex calls or texts regarding anything he replies. He says it is normal and that he will always be there for her with regards to the kids. He swears that he would not go back to her and that they are just friends. She re-married a year ago but they split up 2 weeks ago. The son has started being a typical teenager and I feel that she is leaning on my bf too much! What do you think?

2007-07-12 22:29:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay my husband and i are headed very quickly for divorce...my question is....our house wasbought by his grandfather and originally deeded in my husbands and his aunts name, after we were married his aunt deeded the house and property to the both of us..........is that still considered marital property or is it considered separate property?

2007-07-12 22:18:47 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca b 2

2007-07-12 22:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by Omar 1

Dear All,
we both are from Uttarakhand & working in Gurgaon for past 2 yr n want to marry here. families are as usual against.
dont have a Ration Card or adress proof, how can we register(in gurgaon only) or can get a marriage certificate in short period,
as we dont want to do all in temple or Arya Samaz.
no relative or family member will be involved,

kindly advice

Kanchan

2007-07-12 21:48:53 · 3 answers · asked by kannu007 1

ok, so that being said. I'll turn to my husband. I told him of the affair shortly after it happened. We broke up spent 6 months apart we both dated different people. He came to me one day at work and asked to go to coffee. I went. We worked things out... kinda fast forward... 2 yrs we had a son... got married in the back yard 3 weeks after he was born.... year later filed bankruptcy..... a year after that had a baby girl..... all the while things were ok with us. Not great just Ok. We were living with my mom... my husband changed careers twice... then decided to change a third time and move us away from home. I almost didn't go that time but i did cause the kids were so young.... his temper started to show shortly before our 2nd child was born... fast forward to now... he has major anger issues.... never physically abuse but the words are horrible. and its mainly to the kids... i've asked repeatedly for him to go to counsilling... hasn't gone.. I did.. con't in nxt p

2007-07-12 21:24:32 · 1 answers · asked by dazed&confused 1

Ok, so here is the story. My husband and I met 13 years ago. We got off to a rocky start. About a year after we started dating, I got pregnant. We thought the best course of action would be termination. He was leaving for school before it would happen. I thought he would take time out to come back for it but he didn't and I think it kinda effected me. About another year later a male coworker started showing alot of interest in me. To make a long story short we had sex togther 3 times over 8 month. We physically ended it but seeing as we worked together the emotional aspect never ended. This went on for about 9 years. We never once kissed again but there was some hugging and grabbing my waist and other flirty things that went on. But most of all it was the comments. During the past 10 years I have put on considerable weight but he never treated me any differently. I saw him about a year ago and you couldv'e cut the tension with a knife. I will cntinue this in anther post.

2007-07-12 21:17:42 · 1 answers · asked by dazed&confused 1

is it illegal to cheat on your wife/husband?
can u get fined? jail? what?

2007-07-12 20:01:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I take care of all my resonsibilities. I provide for the family and I do my share of household stuff. I couldn't be a better father. Yet I feel my wife is not satisfied with me. I'm a total romantic, but that is not what she is lacking.

In other words, she denies me the sexual satisfaction (not to mention herself) that she knows I need. I'm GTG every day, but if it were up to her, she'd be satisfied with only once a month. So, after 20 years (can you beleive that?) I remain unhappy. I love her, yet resent being neglected. I'm tempted to cheat for personal satisfaction, but cannot cross the line. Nor can I desert her or the children. This sounds pathetic, but maybe someone has an idea for me. I suspect I'm not the only one.

2007-07-12 19:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Julius4U 3

2007-07-12 19:32:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Late 30's, early 40's

2007-07-12 19:20:44 · 16 answers · asked by Don't quote me on this... 3

an endless arguement..some say the wife others the other woman.what is your point of view?

2007-07-12 19:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by honey 5

This is something that has been on my mind ever since this happened. I'd like a man's opinion on this if possible.

Last year, my spouse left our house late at night in a very angry mood. He stayed out all night, arrived back late the next morning, and told me not to answer the phone under any circumstances. It rang several times, and he was very demanding about not answering it. He also said we'd be short on money.
Later, he shouted at me that he had spent $400 on strippers, described them in detail, and said that he had "almost had sex" with one of them, but didn't, so I "should be happy about that" (I wasn't). I asked him about the phone, and he stammered before making a comment about making a new friend at the strip club. He didn't sound very sure of himself.

I just need to know what this sounds like to others. I believe he lied to me about not having sex.

We're currently separated for other reasons involving domestic abuse. I left soon after this event.

2007-07-12 19:13:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I am 21 and separated (not divorced yet, though don't see her), no kids from that, I have met this really nice woman who is 28 and separated also (not divorced yet either) with 2 gorgeous girls, naturally there is some contact with her ex for their kids. But obviously could become quite a messy situation. Does anyone wish to offer advice? please none of the simply get out or go for it , at least expand and elaborate thanks.

2007-07-12 19:04:03 · 13 answers · asked by Jesk 6

I commited my life to this marriage, but I am so unhappy. Am I alone? How do I get through this? Any suggestions, insights, etc? I'm so lost.

2007-07-12 19:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by natureutt78 4

2007-07-12 19:00:45 · 28 answers · asked by crazyc 1

2007-07-12 18:46:56 · 10 answers · asked by hoahong 1

Would a 41 year old woman with kids aged 3,5 and 11, leave her husband, break up a beautiful family and inflict the kind of hurt and suffering that a divorce has on young kids, because she needs to "find herself" and "it's not you, it's me"???

By her own admission, her husband is a great father, does his share and then some around the house, is affectionate and loving, makes good money and has no major vices, other than smoking....and she even claims that the way her husband is and the point her marriage is at, is supposedly what she's always wanted...what she's has always claimed would make her happy.. Yet, "I'm just not happy" "I've lost a piece of myself over the years, need to think about myself and what makes ME happy"... I say that what is really going on is that she's met someone else!

I have to add that 4 months ago she WAS interested in someone else...she considered having an affair... and it was after this guy at work came on to her that all these changes started. Hmmm!!

2007-07-12 18:46:21 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1

She never wants to make love.
Could I justify an affair just for release.
Please ladies only answer I think I know mens reactions

2007-07-12 18:45:40 · 35 answers · asked by Tony 1

Why do wemen like spell the check so much?

Meh...who needs it. This isn't some essay or english class now ladies.

I know you all got some baggage due to past lovers but really....stop already with the SPELL the CHECK...man

This is the controlling nature that results from marriage?

2007-07-12 18:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

Man the marrieds are obsessive compulsive about this.

So is it:

a. wymin
b. wowmen
c. woesmen
d. wamon
e. all of the above
f. a and e only

2007-07-12 18:34:54 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3

Continuing with what I said on the first part, she does have some good qualities. Unfortunately I feel that the negatives are beginning to outweigh the positive. To be fair let me tell you a little about me. I like straight forward answers. I consider my self to be a worry-free person, she worries alot. I like to dive in. I dont like to watch life from the edge of the pool. I feel a spirit of creativeness about me. Overall I am a little rough in attitude but with a positive view of life. I cant stand negativism. Please answer my question for I have many more questions that I believe you might like to read and answer. Nothing I have written has been made up.

2007-07-12 18:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never thought that my husband (of 3 years would cheat on me until i checked the online history on our computer and discovered that someone has been visiting the ashley madison website which is a place to go and connect with other people who are disconnected from their relationships or married and looking for other options or something. now the only reason that i haven't gone off is because we also live with my husband's brother (who is in a commited relationship from what i understand) so it is possible that he is the one that went to that site but then again why would he go to a site for married people and he's not married? last night my husband slept on the floor for some dumb reason i don't know but i woke up and he was there on the floor. every friday he goes out to the bar and never invites me (which i have asked a question on her before about). am i just trippin or do i really have a ligetamate excuse to blow up here?

2007-07-12 18:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been a truant. She left me after 6 months of our marriage to stay with her parents (we were in relationship for 4 years before getting married). I went after her many a times, took counselling but the last time she ran away i didn't go after her.

Last she told me she wanted a divorce however she calls me up or text msgs me every few days. i think she is finding a reason to talk to me and this confuses me a lot.

Pl. help

2007-07-12 18:29:24 · 14 answers · asked by bebe 3