an endless arguement..some say the wife others the other woman.what is your point of view?
2007-07-12 19:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by honey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i pity them both coz they are fooled with a beast man. If the cheated husband could communicate well to her wife and lay down all problems possibly the wife could understand the situation. Women always in the losing end, because they are the one who are suffering most wether you are legal or other women.
2007-07-12 22:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the wife.
The other woman is a type of predator if she knows about the partnership, not that there is anything to be envied in that.
But my personal preference as a wife would be to know so I could leave and have the same freedom that the partner has already taken advantage of.
Historically the wife had support and the 'other woman' had nearly nothing.
Now both the wife and the other woman work, so neither depend so heavily on the income of the male.
I still say the wife.
2007-07-13 02:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A loving and giving wife that has a cheating husband has my sympathy. A wife that is controlling, cold or withholds her affections as "punishment" or is just no longer interested in her husbands needs should leave the marriage before she drives him into someone elses arms.
Being the "other woman" can be a reaalllly stupid decision because he may never leave his wife for you- if that is what you are hoping for. I pity the woman that deludes herself into thinking this will happen.
Being the other woman and knowing he is in it for the s*x only and being okay with him loving his wife or family life and you just being his release can be freedom for both of you.
Yes, controversial but life isn't perfect and neither are people.
2007-07-13 02:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I am biased, but I almost always side with the wife. She is the only innocent party in these situations (unless she too is cheating). There are some cases where the other woman doesn't know that the cad is married (in those cases they are both victims of a horrible person with no morals).
2007-07-13 02:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the wife has got more invested into the relationship than the other woman. But I guess that I would have to know the entire dituation before giving anopinion. Does the other woman know that the guy is married? Is the marriage failing anyway? Theres allot more to think about as each case is different.
2007-07-13 02:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the wife of course. the other women can just walk away the wife has to go through a divorce the kids property child support for tseveral years alimony court vistation for the dad. no contest its the wife.
2007-07-13 02:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife. It is a shame that the other woman was lied too also, but the man had an obligation to his wife and he broke that.
2007-07-13 02:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Biker T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of people they are. If the wife is loving and caring wife than I pity her.
2007-07-13 02:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with pity. I certainly don't pity the other woman, she makes a CHOICE to whore herself. And I do not pity the wife, she simply has to make HER choices based upon HER needs.
2007-07-13 03:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pitty children.
Everyone else I just push to the ground & laugh at.
2007-07-13 08:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋