2007-07-12 19:00:45 · 28 answers · asked by crazyc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nah, i know what that is...hes a little bit gay. i knew a guy who was always tryna pass his chick around and HE was a little bit gay.
2007-07-12 19:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, it is normal, though most guys won't admit it, and it's for good reason.
It's normal, because there are many guys who fantasize about their girlfriend/fiancee/wife sleeping with another guy as they watch. Though it's not normal to act upon it. If he actually says this to you, the obvious answer would be "No".
Whether its a fantasy or if he really wants it is what you make of it. It may only be a fantasy to him, he doesn't REALLY want it, it's just some kind of "fetish" that he and other males have.
It doesn't always mean he's cheating on you, or he's gay or anything in that nature. It's simply a fantasy that shouldn't be acted upon. If it were to really happen, I'm sure he'd be the one that was mad, because he didn't really want it to happen.
It's just one of those weird psychological things that many guys have. I actually saw this question answered on Talk Sex with Sue Johanson when she had guest psychologist speakers.
2007-07-12 19:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what?????? normal? Not in the united states. sorry i read the question wrong previously. I thought you meant your husband wants to sleep with another man. Well, it is quite offensive. Does he think your body is his to give away? What is his reasoning for wanting you to sleep with another man? That's really what i would like to know. Either way, it doesn't look good
2007-07-12 19:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by uz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... My bet is that your husband is cheating on you and he wants you to sleep with another guy so that you guys will be square. No, seriously. If this isn't the case, then you should leave your husband. HE IS INSANE! No, husband will ever tell their wife that unless they did something STUPID....
2007-07-12 19:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by loverain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask your husband why he want this and what is the reason for this. Is he is doing this for money or he is not able to satisfy u physically. This is a very shameful thing from his side and u must immediately leave ur husband
2007-07-12 19:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
won't say it's normal but it don't mean he don't love you. I like to watch, so I have asked my wife to do this as well. You can love someone and share them. But if you do this, make sure you are completely comfortable first. If you say yes then back out in the middle he may get mad. Also find out if he is wanting to watch, join, and is he wanting to be bi or just do you while the other guy is there.
2007-07-12 19:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy friend once told me that if the person you are with is trying to get you to experience new things with a different person willingly it is because they are cheating. So, if he knows you are sleeping or doing whatever with someone else.......... he will probably soon be telling you what he is doing with someone else too!
I hope this is not the case, but I thought I would share this......
2007-07-12 19:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by BrenBren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
About as normal as you wanting him to sleep with another woman
2007-07-12 19:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but no. If a man really loves you he won't want to share you with anyone. Honestly because he's a man he might think about it but go no further.
2007-07-12 19:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by othentik1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound normal to me but he's got some weird fantacy and it's up to you if you're going to do it or draw the line.
2007-07-12 20:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your in the right place, Marriage & Divorce. I bet you can tell witch road you headed down.
2007-07-12 19:10:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋