Is it time for a Divorce?

Question

Ok, so here is the story. My husband and I met 13 years ago. We got off to a rocky start. About a year after we started dating, I got pregnant. We thought the best course of action would be termination. He was leaving for school before it would happen. I thought he would take time out to come back for it but he didn't and I think it kinda effected me. About another year later a male coworker started showing alot of interest in me. To make a long story short we had sex togther 3 times over 8 month. We physically ended it but seeing as we worked together the emotional aspect never ended. This went on for about 9 years. We never once kissed again but there was some hugging and grabbing my waist and other flirty things that went on. But most of all it was the comments. During the past 10 years I have put on considerable weight but he never treated me any differently. I saw him about a year ago and you couldv'e cut the tension with a knife. I will cntinue this in anther post.

Answer 1

You did a good job of keeping the dialog.