Marriage & Divorce - 12 July 2007

or friendship or love.

2007-07-12 15:20:31 · 35 answers · asked by coco 1

I am 33 years old and my husband & I will be married 10 years this nov. I have lost all sex drive/interest in sex & I really want to want to have an interest, I just don't. I love my husband very much and I know he truely loves me but I can feel this is putting a strain on our marriage and I just don't know what to do. I have talked with my dr, who put me on Lexapro (for depression) but I have been on it for 2 months and don't notice any change. any suggestions?? Please help.

2007-07-12 15:19:42 · 15 answers · asked by flashmnp 1

They have been together for three years and have two children. They have gone down this road numerous times and just keep stearing back down the same road. He constantly keeps quitting his job. He has not had a job for three weeks. The last time he went without a job is was six months. They do not qualify for unemployment. My friend does.. But only if she leaves him. He has another kid that he never paid an once of child support until he was forced to by the government. His mother has been covering his butt. Paying for everything absolutely necessary. They have burned all bridges. They have been evicted. He has no licensed for refusing to pay tickets. All he does is sit at home and play video games. They have undergone interventions, marraige counselling, separations. etc... He always promises to change but returns back to former behaviors. Every time he manages to get worse. The last time he actually put his arms on her and shook her for touching his PS3. Please what should she do?

2007-07-12 15:14:53 · 16 answers · asked by teah47 2

I have been in a relationship for 10 years. We stopped living together for 1 year because of he says his mom needs need him (bedridden but drinks). All we do is talk on the phone everyday and no intimacy but probably once a month.He don't want to marry and we don't have any kids together. But I still care for him. My love is fading. I have been seeing someone else secretly because of respect for him. What should I do?

2007-07-12 15:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by carol d 1

Just hooked up with arecently DIVORCED guy.?
He is a bit older.37 and Im 23. He had like ed, and said to my friend it probably should not have happend. The hook up that is. I dont get it . He said he was attracted to me. I wonder why he said that. He's already asking other girls out. Im kind of mad..

2007-07-12 15:01:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 14:51:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jake P 1

2007-07-12 14:40:30 · 10 answers · asked by inquisitor 1

married since march and im not happy what should i do

2007-07-12 14:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda O 1

i got married a year and a half ago in vegas. I was working and my wife as well. She later had to quit her job to finish her masters program. After getting married in vegas spontaneously, i knew i wanted to give her more than what i gave her in vegas. She wanted to get rings and have a wedding down the road. I agreed and promised i would try and make it happen. Well it hasnt...and its a year later. I got into real estate, she had to quit her job and i said i would take care of her. Since then money has been hard and i had to get a job to cover bills. She hasnt worked but she just got hired. I wanted to get her a ring, but she had a savings and was able to financially get it before i could do it on my own. I knew it was wrong, but i knew she needed to have a ring...at least. Through this struggle these last 6 months, she has built resentment due to my lack of action and following through with my promises. I love her so much, but she wants to divorce me, i want to fix it!

2007-07-12 14:29:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been having problems lately with my husband. We've been married almost a year come september 23rd and the past week he had to stop smoking pot cuz he got a DUI awhile back and has to take classes for it. But since he has quit it seems like im getting b****ed at every 5 min. sure some of it is my fault but he tells me to have common sense and get my head outta my ***. sorry we think to compleatly different ways when your not smoking. But my problem is ive been thinking bout getting a divorce but we have a 4 month old daughter and I dont wanna lose her and I know he will make me leave her here with him if i do leave. Any suggestions?

2007-07-12 14:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by Traci 1

First to get a Background of my story go to my other qustions!!.
... Now How do i move on ( Single and lonely).. I have a really BIG trust issue right now i cant see my self ever trusting another person again....... To be honest i just want to take care of my son.. and when i am not doing that i just want to smoke weed every day to numb the pain.. let go of the hurt .. and just sit there. lmao ... i know it sounds bad , but dont judge.. i am out of ideas and right now i am out of feelings .. Advice needed.. comments required ... good and Bad... right about now theres nuthing you could say that could make me feel any worst!

Your friend and Mine -- Skip =P

2007-07-12 14:13:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a 14 month old baby and I'm in school full time, staying home with baby. He is a high school teacher. He comes home and sleeps on the couch. I am ready to stab him with a rusty pitchfork; I am so exhausted. How do I make him realize how hard I work and get him to help out? Please help!

2007-07-12 14:10:39 · 14 answers · asked by Corozal 4

2007-07-12 14:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

so why is it?

2007-07-12 14:02:53 · 14 answers · asked by catwmn 1

my boyfriend and i are getting married next summer. we are both 22 and while our friends still live with their parents and have no bills, we have an apartment and everybill you can imagine. here comes the problem. every time our friends invite us out, we kindly say thanks, but no thanks because we would rather save our money for a house, as we are doing, instead of dropping 50/60 bucks on a night of cocktails. so our friends started treating us to drinks when we go out because they want us to go out with them. i dont like this because i feel like i am a charity case. cant they understand that they have a larger disposbale income than we do at the moment? why are they paying for us all the time? its not just drinks, its now dinner and movie/show tickets and everytime they say, you'll pay next time, but they never let us. whats the right course of action here?

2007-07-12 13:52:40 · 5 answers · asked by bar22bie 2

Ug! I understand that he's probably just curious about what they look like or what they're up to now or whatever, but the fact that he tried to delete history, and said it was "none of my business" when I asked if he had contacted them.
I feel like looking up my ex's...and adding them to my friends list, just to be an brat!

2007-07-12 13:48:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an ex I was with for six years. We broke up and are roommates (kinda awkward). I want to do something nice. Any suggestions?

2007-07-12 13:48:17 · 7 answers · asked by David Jayson 3

im a army wife stuck in california ive been here sence january and im in hell. im soooo home sick i dont know what to do i have no freinds no job and nuthing to do my husband always goes to his freinds house and he has a life here. i feel more and more every day that i would be happyer at home i could work i would be around family i wouldent feel so left out all the time im very depressed about this life i really need someone other than my husband or family members for advice im thousands of miles away from home im sick of being left at home alone wiith just me and my daughter my husband has no idea how i feel this is his job not mine he has freinds i dont what should i do should i suck it up and hang in here or should i find a oneway ticket home??? i love him but im lonely depressed and miss where im from and my family oh and im 12 weeks pregnant what should i do????

2007-07-12 13:39:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's your opinion?

2007-07-12 13:36:37 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 13:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by stan ford 3

My b/f & I were engaged after 2 months of dating, 6 months later, he postponed the wedding b/c of cold feet (claimed he wasn't ready).8 months after that I found text messages after he returned from an out of town interview to a girl I never knew existed until right before the trip when he mentioned meeting up with an old friend. The messages were flirty/he invited her to his hotel room with lingerie.He lied about the details of the messages while conforting me.She said nothing ever happened, but they were flirting our whole relationship. He was sorry & said he'll never do it again, a week later I found out he sent her pics of his __!But when I asked if he'd corresponded with her since his trip he denied it.I broke up with him after talking to her and confirming.He begged for me back and was so sorry. We're dating right now and he wants to get married next year. What do I do b/c I'm still not over it, as I can't help but think will it happen again and why did he lie to me so many ti

2007-07-12 13:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by lauralmiller13 1

My spouse is a great lover, but a bad kisser. Is this a bad sign...this is no joke...I am freaked out, I have always felt the most sensual part of lovemaking was the kiss. I actually enjoy a passionate kiss. Please help...

2007-07-12 13:27:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and a have different answers. I say dark grey he says green. I know we are both right to some extent but which one would you choose?

2007-07-12 13:22:33 · 17 answers · asked by stephanie k 2

My child is now 13 years old, my ex never asked for child support, now that I am coming in on some money for an inhertance, my ex now has open a case (California), right now I am currently unemployed and I am on AFDC, so he can not get any money from me. The child support did tell me that my ex can collect past due child support. I just don't understand what klnd of person would do this, it is just so sick, it makes me sick. I would have pay child support if I had been working, and had a case open. No problem. But he didn't even give me a chance.

2007-07-12 13:17:17 · 13 answers · asked by secrets 1

2007-07-12 13:11:44 · 15 answers · asked by Page 4

I had relationship with this guy for about 2 yrs. we both married and having family. my hubby travels a lot..this guy always tell me Im much better than his wife, and Im nice than his wife..
I know its not worth it. but sometimes I just felt so lonely.. I dont know if I should continuou with this relationship or stop....?????

2007-07-12 13:09:43 · 21 answers · asked by back2future 5

He's always had a troubled relationship with his Mum&Dad & thinks that my parents feel the same way about him (they don't, but becoz he doesn't hang around them much, they don't know him very well).
It was my Dad's 60th on the w/end. We had a BBQ with friends/family & hubby stayed for a while, then went home by himself. Since then, he's slept in the spare bed & hasn't talked to me. I've tried to ask him what's wrong & he keeps telling me "leave him alone, I'm over it".
Last nite, I finally got him to tell me what was bothering him: "He doesn't fit into anyone's family: his family don't like him, my family don't like him (not true), he doesn't even feel like he fits in with me and our 3yo son. He thinks it's better for everyone if we separate. He still loves me, but not in the same way anymore. He wants to stay at our place for our son's sake, but "live separately".
I don't want him to give up so easily. I want to try & fix this but he doesn't want to talk about it.
Help!

2007-07-12 13:09:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where to begin, so much to write and get of my chest so please bare with me..... I have been In a relationship for 10 years and we have had 3 children, our first born died 6 years ago, last year I suddenly realised/thought I know longer loved him and pushed him away...he was so devastated and he tried for 8 long months to win back my love but to no avail... The honest truth Is That I did love him and I have no idea why I pushed him away.. I hurt him very badly and It It something that hurts me to think about.. well anyway, he moved on and met a new girlfriend which I excepted..It was hard at first. He has been with her a month. The thing Is me and my ex have been sleeping together for the last 2 weeks, he says he wants to come home, and I want him to..I know what I have lost and ill never make that mistake again.. But he does not want to hurt ths other girl as she was there for him?? What do I do, shall I give up? .......Obviously I cant write everything exactly right, just the basics

2007-07-12 13:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

she told me to leave and i left her now she wants money (i pay the bills but she wanted me to leave now i have to buy my own place as i have NOWHERE to stay) in order to see them and we are not married and no child support is in place is there anything i can do legally to see my kids right now? this all happened like 3 days ago. please help

2007-07-12 13:05:55 · 9 answers · asked by tjvetrone1 2

i believe im asparagus dependant as CRAZY as it sounds.

it makes my sex drive go off the wall and w/o i don't really one...

do you think im dependant on it? sounds crazy but just what ive noticed...

2007-07-12 13:05:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous