I had relationship with this guy for about 2 yrs. we both married and having family. my hubby travels a lot..this guy always tell me Im much better than his wife, and Im nice than his wife..
I know its not worth it. but sometimes I just felt so lonely.. I dont know if I should continuou with this relationship or stop....?????
2007-07-12 13:09:43 · 21 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do you feel about yourself esteem? It sounds like you've no self esteem left. Who you do think is going to get hurt? You? It's a selfish act, end your marriage or end him.
2007-07-12 13:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably know the answer...you are both married, try to find out what happened to your marriage and why you are not happy at home. Find out if you want to continue in your marriage and, if not, better to end it..but I will tell you, not any guarantee you will not be lonely after divorce---is it a sure thing your lover will marry you if you leave your husband? Bet not.
Go home and send your lover home--try to fix your marriage and get rid of the guilt you have now.
2007-07-12 20:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're both married and having an affair and neither one of you wants to leave your spouses ... that's just wrong ... and the problem is that is you do leave your spouses to be together, then what's to stop either one of you from doing it again ... sounds like a no win situation to me. I feel sorry to the spouses that don't know this is going on.
2007-07-12 20:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by frankiejane1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been involved with a married man for 51/2 years and still trying to end it...If your hearts in it, it's hard to walk away. My advise is to run as quickly as you can, before you end up in a situation like mine. Best of luck
2007-07-12 20:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by missing_something 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating won't solve your problems. You should be talking to your husband about being lonely, not someone who will end up staying with his wife (especially if they have kids together).
2007-07-12 20:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have disgraced the vows of marriage. Some people would call you a whore for that. I think you should leave your husband so he can find a real wife who is faithful and maybe you two cheaters belong together.
2007-07-12 21:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating on your husband is wrong. If you feel like you don't love him anymore, sit down and talk to him about it. But the more you do it behind his back, the guiltier you will feel, and if he finds out, the worse it will be. You either need to talk to your husband or this other guy.
2007-07-12 20:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by peace ♥ music 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But strangely enough this wonderful person is still married to his wife. Does that tell you anything?
2007-07-12 20:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not fair to do this is to yourself let alone your husband and your friend's wife nice or not.
Do you love this man or are you just lonely?
2007-07-12 20:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooo...how nice. So he says your much 'lovely' as his wife and nice(er) (then) his wife?
Been two years. He sure is in a rush to leave her huh?
Madam..oh...nevermind. Its not worth the effort.
2007-07-12 20:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋