married since march and im not happy what should i do
2007-07-12 14:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have kids stay with him ,,, hold his hand and make sure you help get him to work,,! Be his mommy,, sad sad,,
If no kids , leave him,, if he can't hold a job then what can he do?
2007-07-12 14:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So before you married him you didn't ask or notice that he was not capable of taking care of a married family? The questions you should have asked you didn't. What were your combined thoughts on careers, having children, future goals, religion? Did you spend any time on this? Hormones don't make a marriage. Now you are probably headed toward divorce. He was lazy prior to your marriage...he will be lazy forever. Step out now or keep asking this question forever.
2007-07-12 14:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DON'T support his lazy @ss. If it starts this early in the relationship, it sets a trend.
Tell your husband that you're not happy and you expect him to contribute financially to this marriage or you'll leave. Then follow through. If you don't call his bluff, you're going to be stuck with this lazy bum for the rest of your life. Doesn't sound like much fun, does it?
2007-07-12 14:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that grows. Tell him that there are no free meals in this world. If he does lose the job, give him 3 weeks to get a new one or you split.
If you can tell he is lazy, then his boss must see it even more.
Good luck to you
2007-07-12 14:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say looser! it's simple he doesn't care enough about you to take good care of you it looks like he wants you to take care of him,you need a husband a provider not a free loader. tell him strait get a job and be a man or move out, you don't want to start a marriage like that,it's already a bad sign.
2007-07-12 14:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Eli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious that he's lazy and if it were i ,, i would be looking into getting outta that relatioinship ... think about if u had kidds and he just got tired .. you will have to pull the wieght money wise and support wise esh esh esh ..
2007-07-12 14:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by trouble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a job at whitecastles. you cant be too lazy to make itty bitty burgers
2007-07-12 14:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your destiny with this man. The odds of him changing aren't good. bail before you have kids.
2007-07-12 14:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tim M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
git in yer pick up and leeve
2007-07-12 15:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to my club. Better divorce him now before he start depending on you, and start getting his share with your 401K, etc. etc.
2007-07-12 14:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋