2007-07-12 14:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't convince them. You have to work at a relationship to keep it "like it was at the start". They probably love you the same now as then, but life has a way of tieing us down with all the stuff to do, you both need to communicate and show each other how much your love means.
Realtionships are not 50/50, they are 100/100, give 100 percent of yourself to get back 100 percent.
2007-07-12 14:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by flashdman11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not convince - You can hold out, and not try so hard. Also change your look a little.
If you want the passion you had at the start try thinking about what you liked about yourself then, and make some changes to feel better.
Hang in there.
2007-07-12 21:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by David Jayson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one gets the passion back they had when they met....it changes and moves in different directions. That doesn't mean it goes away but it takes more work to bring it around. Life gets in the way, children get in the way, bills and everything gets in the way. You have to plan for it and make it happen. Have date nights, go out of your way to be the sexy partner, whatever it takes. You create a different passion together. Talk about it and find a way that works when everything else has made it different. That is what a marriage is about.
2007-07-12 21:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't convince them...start fresh, by dating them again to bring back the old feelings. call in the middle of the day just to say i love you and then hang up. be ready to answer with a sincere answer why you're doing this, too, I'm sure that will be asked. send love notes to their work, or a single red rose, how about showing up at their work to surprise them with a lunch YOU've prepared. slow music and lots of cuddling. it's a mutual feeling not just trying to convince one partner. life comes at you fast, take time to smell the roses. good luck.
2007-07-12 21:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually sit down and TALK with your spouse, if you have to wander the net and ask those kinds of questions then you're not communicating with your spouse and nothing is going to fix your problems.
2007-07-12 21:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot convience anyone to do anything...case closed! What you can do is show them that you are an untapped resourse. Act the way that you acted when you first met....sit down beside your person on the couch and lean into them...start kissing up their neck...like you did when you first met...romance them ...actions speak louder than any words. Good luck...takes work.....
2007-07-12 21:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by texaslovelyladysmiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. I doubt you still love your spouse with the initial passionate love you had for them. It's just human nature.
2007-07-12 21:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Show them by example the kind of passion you want.
2007-07-12 21:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Act like you did back then. Let go of all the rage and resentment and passionately kiss and light candles with music, get drunk and screw all night....
2007-07-12 21:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's hard to have the spark that was there when you guys first started dating...i think for all married couples the passion isn't as strong as in the beginning so don't worry...maybe you guys can do something romantic
2007-07-12 21:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by nisee♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋