so why is it?
2007-07-12 14:02:53 · 14 answers · asked by catwmn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It marks "the end of an era." Once an ex remarries, any possibility of reconciliation is gone. Also, it brings up a lot of emotions from your past together. It's a normal reaction. You'll get through it!
2007-07-12 14:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you still have feelings for your ex. Feelings you didnt want to admit to till now. One you are either feeling jealousy because you are now offically replaced, or two you are felling jealousy because you wish somewhere deep insdie that you could be with that person again. And now its too late. Pretty much all I can say is your going to have to get over it. Your ex has now moved on and it is time for you to do the same. There is bound to be that special person out there for you, its just a matter of finding them. Just ell you ex that you wish them the best of luck and keep those feelings to yourself and move on.
2007-07-12 21:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kandice R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were married to the person and though it didn't work out, it doesn't mean you are devoid of all feelings. Come on, it's always tough to see someone you shared a life with move on. They most likely have the same feelings. You're normal. But it shouldn't change your present life.
2007-07-12 21:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories, and regrets for what "might have been". It's natural. We all do it when an ex moves on, whether some will admit it or not. It is like an old chair you think is no good anymore and you toss it. Then you see someone take it and realize it had value to someone, why not to you?
2007-07-12 21:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if the marriage ended cuz you messed up...ur probably just angry at the fact that you messed up....and let a good one get away..but he messed up..girl dont even trip...you can clean a man up but eventually the man will still go back to his old tricks....you have been there..so just be happy its not you..try to think about the reason you left or it ended in the first place
you are a girl right?
2007-07-12 21:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it looks like he's gone on with his life and he's happy.....and it could be your life isn't the way you want it to be.
He's still the same man that for whatever reason you couldn't stay married to.
Start to find things that give you joy so that you can also move on.
2007-07-12 21:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason you & ex hubby filed for divorce. This is what they call one person trash, maybe another person finds that ex hubby of yours a gem.
Move on, start dating.
2007-07-12 21:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess you still have feelings for him. Without knowing the circumstances of the divorce, I can't guess what they are. Maybe you still consider him a friend and don't think she is right for him. Or, deep down, you still love him.
2007-07-12 21:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dirty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because perhaps your somewhat jealous that he was able to move on....and maybe it's because u weren't the one to get remarried first....he's moved on and beat u to te punch and perhaps thats whats bothering u...not so much that he's with someone else...it's that u wanted to be with someone else first.
2007-07-12 22:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're not really over the relationship, or, possibly, you are "insulted" that he could find happiness with another person (even if you hate him, it's possible to feel this).
2007-07-12 21:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋