Marriage & Divorce - 12 July 2007

I love you for a few weeks and then I don't want to be married, split up for a month, then it is sorry , I love you forgive me I want back forever and he's back for 3 weeks, and then they separate again and another cycle of this until finally divorce. After the divorce will this cycle still continue?

2007-07-12 18:27:31 · 5 answers · asked by JustWondering 1

I've been married for six years. I was wondering if you think going to strip clubs would be considered cheating. Or If you went to the girls house to see her strip. And is it ok to tuch as long is there is no sex involved.

2007-07-12 18:23:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yah...you guys really don't have a sense of humor...getting all bent out of shape and deleting my question.

here it is:

Question Details:

Yah...the cops need to add a new branch. To qualify you must be female 200lbs plus.

The uniform:

Large pink billy clubs
Nurses outfit
Pink feathered handcuffs
And they drive around in a marked SUV pink and white two tone like the cops

Cheat once: you get a verbal warning

Twice: you get written up and gotta go to monogamy school so your insurance wont go up.

3 times: They take those rods and *** them!

This sight of this will SCARE you so much that you'll be glad to remain in the marriage curse until you die.

2007-07-12 18:22:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-07-12 18:21:27 · 17 answers · asked by Mungbeans 1

this world is getting more and more weird people and i hate weird people who are mean and crazy .....and like to bothered about pp pl`s business and make people`s life miserable and couldn't reflect themselves!

2007-07-12 18:16:15 · 7 answers · asked by truth set free 1

2007-07-12 18:15:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been six months since ive seen my girl physically...i need some input for some romantic ideas ....input please

2007-07-12 18:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by robert s 1

I get married next year, The man I am with is a great man,he is sweet and kind and was a virgin when we met. I grew up in the christian faith and finding a man like that was awesome.But now is sorta sucks becuase he is very unromantic and does not know how to please me romantically. He thinks he knows what he is doing but our first time lasted less then 30 seconds.It is driving me crazy that he can't please me..How do I get him to please me without bursting his ego?
Help Please....

2007-07-12 17:57:46 · 24 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4

He refuses to go with me and then tells me that it looks bad if I go without him....

2007-07-12 17:48:11 · 29 answers · asked by SLIM 1

Marriage is a lose lose scenario for men nowadays, why then some guys still see marriage as an option.?? Are these men do not know what marriage is like or they do not read the news ?? I would like to know that ...

2007-07-12 17:37:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Aight here we go.

5 months ago my ex wife was blah'ze'n with me over the phone and "for real when I was with her I never knew this about her" She told me her fantasy was to be involved in a gangbang with a few dudes though she's never had the chance to do it. About 3months ago I made remark to her like (I should just lock u in a room with 5 guys and see what happens) Her response (while giggling) was "Damn I don't know what I'd do" alright....

Recently she started trying to get back with me (ya know feedin them good lines like) "I could never love anyone like I loved you" and that usual BS you know. Anyways I told her hell no I could never be with a B!TC# that wants multiple cats up in her. Her response was (NO NO I ONLY WANTED THAT WHEN I WAS YOUNGER)

1. Wasn't that a contridiction since she basically stated she'd get down with a gangbang only a few months ago.

2. Could you be with a chick that always wanted to do a gangbang but never go the chance or EVEN IF SHE DID.

2007-07-12 17:36:47 · 8 answers · asked by nightpanther_79 2

my husband cheated on me, again, and now I feel like I need to leave him. Is it wrong for me to save money behind his back, and begin looking for a place to live without him knowing? or should I just tell him and let whatever happens happen? I think we both know this marriage is not going to work out, we are just staying together right now for our kids and because of money.

2007-07-12 17:32:59 · 55 answers · asked by swtme810 2

2007-07-12 17:30:49 · 21 answers · asked by Catherine M. 2

2007-07-12 17:29:18 · 23 answers · asked by suzanne 1

How do u leave someone u been with for almost 20 years that u still deeply inlove with but drugs is causing alot of mental problems for me. My husband be using for a year or more now and i thought it would just go away but i guess it don't work like that. I am working to make ends meet and he is not working because i guess he is in a depression mode. Somehow is is keeping supply for drugs cause i dont give him now money. Doing the day he is fine at night he is so freak out. He accuse me of all kind of things and say anything at night . I need help.

2007-07-12 17:29:08 · 6 answers · asked by sazzybmt 2

My 60+ year old cousin, against all advice, brought a 20 year old mail order bride back from Phillipines. Married 7 yrs (+-) They have a 5yo. boy. He helped her become citizen. She now wants divorce (duh!). His heart is broken. Divorce atty? Sure. But is there anything else he can do? INS fraud, etc?

2007-07-12 17:23:44 · 10 answers · asked by Salty Dog 2

2007-07-12 17:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by just julie 6

I have been with my boyfriend for 18 years and we have one daughter; 16 years old. He wanted to get married and I didn't because he is very jealous and would feel as if he owned me. I have been through hell and back several times with him; cheating, partying, drinking, and never home. I forgave him every time. And now the last two years he has been good. The problem is I'm no longer 'in love' with him. I haven't been for the last three years. I think I have been staying for our daughter. I have never cheated on him. I work nights and I'm always being accused of cheating on him. I'm worn down. I don't want to hurt anyone. Every time I get up the nerve he makes me feel bad and guilty; because of my daughter. I need personal advice, not professional.

2007-07-12 17:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Angie 2

Should I just come out and say it? Any suggestions?

2007-07-12 17:16:09 · 20 answers · asked by Catherine 4

My friends got married with no license. They had a "ceremony" in the house by a "real" preacher who says he has the authority to marry "under God". Are they really married? Our state no longer recognizes common law.

They say they didn't want a license because they will get more retirement money this way. They are active in our local church and professing Christians.

2007-07-12 17:05:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 16:55:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What did you say back...or did you say anything at all?

2007-07-12 16:49:10 · 25 answers · asked by kishoti 5

2007-07-12 16:47:40 · 5 answers · asked by el ruso 1

I am 42, in good physical condition, take good care of her and the children financially. She does not speak badly to me or treat me badly, other than I am only spoken to when there is a money need. P.S., she will not allow me to touch her in any way for 7 or 8 years....she just pulls away even in bed???? I just need her to recognize my existence I am near exasperated and ready to search for someone, anyone....not so much for physical activity but just to say "hi, how was your day" But I cannot leave my children, they need daddy.

2007-07-12 16:45:31 · 25 answers · asked by kiny 2

Dose any body know ?. My sons girlfriend of 12 yrs, of which he has lived with,for 12 years, and has 2 kids with, says she is leaveing state and takeing the kids. She is unstable, and has 2 drunk driveing, and is toatly "wacked out". He is byfar the better one for the kids, a great job and together as a man and a great dad.
Can she just up and leave Wisconsin ?. She dont have a valid d.l.. Is there ANYTHING we can do to stop her from takeing the kids ??.
Please help !!. He dont have thousands of $$$$$, right at this point.

2007-07-12 16:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by kmantgab 2

We just gained custody of my husband child this year. This is the first year that she has had to go visit with her mother. The judge ordered a permanent injuction preventing her from taking off with her and coming between communication.

She had to go with her mother for vacation this year and we had gotten a cellphone for her. Her Mother took it and we have no way of reaching her for 2 weeks so far. We have tried calling directly to the house but they have caller ID and I always seem to get voicemail. His daughter called from the grandmothers today while her mom wasnt there asking if we had been trying to call because she hasnt heard anything from us in awhile and to tell us her mom took her phone.

I am not sure what we can do but any help would be GREATLY APPRECIATED!

2007-07-12 16:28:22 · 15 answers · asked by the blue bonnet 1

We have gone from newlyweds to fighting often in 9 months. Despite the fact that I have not changed, he has started drinking heavily, turned meaner, acts moody, and says awful things to me often.
Tonite he was warm and happy to see me. Said I was so sexy. I said....after an hour of charming me...if I am so sexy why do you say mean things to me like I am old and fat two days ago. He says shut up and then says ....so maybe you are never sexy and walks away. He doesn't explain himself, acts unpredictable, and basically vacillates between loving me and later saying he hates that he married me....what the hell is wrong. WHY....what is the deal? Does he want to split and doesn't have the guts? Please let me know your thoughts and experiences.

2007-07-12 16:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by kishoti 5

2007-07-12 15:43:43 · 18 answers · asked by brady m 2

I was in a relationship with "the love of my life" and I basically couldn't get my stuff together back then. I couldn't hold a job, I dropped out of school, etc. After years her waiting for me to show anything, she found another. She got married, and I finally stopped hoping we'd get back together when I found out she had kids (twins). Losing her lit a fire in my behind to get my stuff together. In the meantime, I met my wife and we have two kids. I never got over her. I'm supposed to be happily married, (my wife and I don't argue), yet I still have feelings for her. She's been divorced for two years and we've recently gotten in contact, and the feelings came back with a rush. I fear (know) I married the wrong woman (we both settled). My question is this, should I try to meet the "love of my life" to verify my feelings when I know verifying my feelings will end my marriage, or do nothing because I have love for my wife and I don't want to hurt her and it will affect my kids lives?

2007-07-12 15:29:27 · 28 answers · asked by lovestruck 1

i separated from my husband, because our life at the time was unbearable! i thought it was over but, we have started trying to work things out! he told me that he had been sleeping with this girl while we were separated! it makes me sick! i can't seem to get it out of my head! i blame myself for the action, but he chose the nasty chick! how do i get past this?past her?

2007-07-12 15:22:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous