2007-07-12 17:29:18 · 23 answers · asked by suzanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure one can do it. I completed my Law studies (Final year )after my marriage & then only joined this legal profession. I'm married for the last 25 years & in this legal profession for last 24 years.
2007-07-12 17:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Of course one can study after marriage if you wish to... there is no problem in it.
Your husband and your in-laws should be supportive and you should be able to manage your time well. You should be able to look after your home and your studies as well. There is no problem in studying... many women do that. Its just like working and managing home at the same time.
Like the saying goes.......... Where there is a will, there is a way.
All the best!!!
2007-07-12 18:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course one is able to study after marriage if one wants. But there must be serious intent to do so. Lots of people, both men and women complete the course of study after marriage which they had started while they were not married. Many take up new courses which might lead to enhancement of academic qualifications, while others take up courses for professional advancement. Lots of people complete those courses. But it definitely helps if one has a supportive spouse and in-laws.
2007-07-13 05:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asalam-0-Alaikum:- Well,i believe in all that whatever you have write.It really shows your truthness.I don't know whatever im going to say it will be right or not from your point of view.First of all thanks that just because of that muslim you are not considering all as bad people.And its my request to you that don't leave reading islam just b/c of him. Now,coming to you marriage.I don't know why he is doing this to you.Because any real muslim will never behave with his wife like this. Prophet Muhammad(saw) says:- "keep the promise or promises he made to the wife at the time he married her." The Prophet (s) said: "Of permitted matters the most loathesome before Allah is divorce". In another hadith he said that divorce is so grave that because of it Allah's throne is made to shake. He said: "The best intercession [i.e. intervention of a third party] is that which brings back together the husband and the wife. Allah said: "Turn not away (from your wife) altogether, so as to leave her hanging. If you come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Merciful" (4:129). There are alots of hadith and Quranic verses which clearly talk about rights of wife.Now surely you can understand that your husband is not a real practicing Muslim.If he would be,he would not be like this.ANYHOW.If you realy think that you cannot cope with him anymore than leave him.This is right given to you by Allah.But still if threre is chance that you both can come again close to each other.Then you should give last chance to your marriage.Please.May Allah give him Hidaya.And may Allah give you patience.I will definitely pray for you to Allah.InshAllah
2016-03-15 03:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 100%, if after your marriage your in laws are well mannered and give all their love to you like their own daughter things would be very beautiful.
The only blink of divertion of mind is erroded as you would also be getting the natural need of your body satisfactorily.
This works out to be good, gen when all are of same mindset at your new home.
2007-07-12 20:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you have a supportive spouse and firm determination. My sister finished her graduation after her marriage and having a notorious baby boy and even topped in the university.
Would not had been possible except for the support of my brother in law.
2007-07-14 00:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course anyone can study after marriage. But the husband should be supportive & she should've enough courage to continue both the things together.
2007-07-12 17:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-07-12 23:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! absolutely you can ....... a LOT of people do!
Infact a lot of people I know have studied even after they got kids!!
The key to it is ........ a supportive husband and the strong will to get it done!
2007-07-13 16:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Slite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear suzane
there are lots of people who hav completed their graduation, post gradution, even double post graduation,after marraige.
there are woman who hav completed their enggneering and Medical course after their marriage. just your hus and his family must support you so that you can do this with peaceful mind.
all the best
take care
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2007-07-12 17:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by dracu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋