What's a good way to tell your husband that you'd rather sleep with women half the time?

Question

Should I just come out and say it? Any suggestions?

Answer 1

There'll be no easy way to say it, so just say it ASAP.

Prepare for all the wisecracks about 'good for your husband' that you'll get now.

He will care, and I highly doubt his biggest feeling will be excitement.

Commence further inane male stereotypes. Husbands: tell your wife that you'd like to sleep with men half the time. I'm sure she'll be CONSUMED with excitement! [/sarcasm]

Answer 2

From the phrasing of your question, you seem to want a girlfriend on the side. Not many guys would be comfortable with something like that. But the best way I can suggest is to just be open and honest about your desires and sexual orientation. And don't get into details about who you have in mind, the first time should be a discussion of general ideas. If he feels you are not hiding anything from him, it will be easier to come to an agreement.

Also, if you're interested, hinting that you might be willing to share would certainly appeal to most guys. But don't use that unless you would actually be willing to do it. If you really want this to be a separate situation, make that clear from the start.

Answer 3

No good way to tell your husband you want to cheat on him and share your body with someone else besides him. Doesn't matter if it's a woman or a man- at least not in my opinion.
Probably would have been a good idea to tell him before you got married!

Answer 4

Yeah the best thing to do is come out and say it. If I told my husband that he would love it. He would want a threesome too. I don't think there really is any other way to tell your husband that. Heck maybe your husband would be ok with it and want a threesome too. Best of Luck to you!!

Answer 5

Sleeping with women, sleeping with men. What the hell difference does it make? You want to sleep with someone other than your husband. Doesn't the gay/lesbian community tells us the relationship is just like a hetero relationship, only with someone of the same sex?

You want to sleep around! Divorce your husband. He deserves better.

Answer 6

Ummm..your hair is green. He is not going to be shocked. You will, however, have to be explicit about the fact that he is not invited to your business with other women (unless he is) AND you cannot hold a double standard. Having sex with women is having sex with other people, so he should be free to do the same thing. If you don't want that, then don't bother to live out this particular desire...or get a divorce.

Answer 7

Come out and say it, and don't expect him to just want to jump in, unless he has said otherwise before. Not all men want to share their wives with women.
You need to do it at home and not a public place. Don't plead with him either or dance around the subject and let him guess. Let him absorb the info and give YOU feedback. :)

Answer 8

Well, I did just this and it didn't go over very well at all. I thought he would be more receptive, instead he freaked and accuses me of wanting to cheat on him. HMmm, maybe just throw some joking hints out there and try to judge a reaction from that. Good luck!

Answer 9

Just sit him down and tell him, you know i love you but i want to "Experiment" with other women...don't keep any thing from him because if he finds out from someone else he might be more pissed because its something you went and dd behind his back...maybe even he can join in

Answer 10

Hey, being a man, I know I would be hurt if my wife blurted it out to me after some odd years of being together. First step I WOULD take i s maybe have yourself a little threesome.