2007-07-12 17:30:49 · 21 answers · asked by Catherine M. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well it obviously depends on the type of person your husband is. If he is a very open person ask about an open relationship. If he is more conservative than it wont be nearly that easy. You know your husband better than anyone. In the end it is up to you to decide whats best.
2007-07-12 17:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Whitest of Trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first step back.. and think about how you might tell your husband that you are (more than likely) bisexual. and how he would take it.
and also think about the fact that you aren't just stating a fact, like you see it, you are telling him, and his self esteem "sorry,you just aren't good enough for me. I want someone else" even if you don't mean it that way, it's how he will hear it.
and then think about it. do you really want sex with another woman bad enough to cheat on your husband? probably not. make sure you make that clear to him,
but be totally honest, and even if he gets hurt, or angry, don't just let the conversation lie.. make sure you tell him the whole truth, and honestly as you can, and with as much respect for his feelings as you can.
and then give him time. it will have to sink in, he'll have to think about it. give him time.
2007-07-13 00:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good way to tell your husband that you rather cheat on him then sleep with him.
2007-07-13 00:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no good way to tell your husband that you would prefer a woman over him. However should you decide to tell him this, be prepared for anything.
2007-07-13 00:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this will break his heart, there is really no good way to tell him. What if this means that telling him would end in divorce, would you still tell your husband? (I hope you guys do not have kids) ...
2007-07-13 00:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by always51787 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. The truth will set you free and honest communication is the key in any successful relationship.
2007-07-13 00:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume he hasn't given any indication that he's okay with that sort of thing, or it wouldn't be an issue. So how about, "I think I'd like a divorce?"
2007-07-13 00:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ambivalence 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and explain to him (in a loving, caring way) that you think you're bi, and you wanted to let him know, and ask if he's okay with it. (If not, tough.) Moreover, you should ask for his input on what this could mean for your marriage.
2007-07-13 00:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Riven Liether 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good way would have been before you got marry him, marriage is about honestly. if you are inters ted in women then
this is something that you should have discussed before
hand don't you think.
2007-07-13 00:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he's ever imagined you with another woman. Start talking and tell him you've had these urges.
2007-07-13 00:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋