How do u leave someone u been with for almost 20 years that u still deeply inlove with but drugs is causing alot of mental problems for me. My husband be using for a year or more now and i thought it would just go away but i guess it don't work like that. I am working to make ends meet and he is not working because i guess he is in a depression mode. Somehow is is keeping supply for drugs cause i dont give him now money. Doing the day he is fine at night he is so freak out. He accuse me of all kind of things and say anything at night . I need help.
2007-07-12 17:29:08 · 6 answers · asked by sazzybmt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know that it hard to leave someone that you love but you have
to do what is right for you. maybe this will be the wake up call
for him that he need help. actions speak louder then words.
2007-07-12 17:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is using something like crystal meth, which is one of the hardest drugs to quit. I'm so sorry that happened. It's time to move out and get a place of your own. Don't tell him where you live and file for divorce. He will keep doing drugs as long as you keep a roof over his head and pay the bills. You need to get some counseling. There are places you can get free counseling but you need to search for it. There are support groups for spouses and family of drug users. Call some local drug rehab centers and see if they can find some support groups for you. I can't imagine how this must feel but you have to leave and get out of that situation. He is probably stealing to support his drug habit and he is constantly putting you in danger. His drug use could cause him to become violent and that could really put you in harm's way.
2007-07-12 17:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by amyaz_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the very same thing.. very same..I had to just get my stuff and leave..He will try His hardest to convince you to stay, but sometimes you have to stand your ground and let Him know you can't keep living like you have been..Not easy and you have to live each day as if it is the only one you have..Make sure this is what you feel is best before leaving..
2007-07-12 18:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this will only get worse till he see.s he has a problem on using drugs and wants help on it no matter what. in my opion?
2007-07-12 17:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your stuff and run like hell. It will only get worse if he doesn't want or plan to change. Save yourself!
2007-07-12 19:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by mikellalvarado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You jus need to pack ur bags and leave be strong!
2007-07-12 17:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋