Marriage & Divorce - 12 July 2007

my wife confessed to me that she had sex with seven men before meeting me. I can't get the images out of my head, on the other hand I'm not sure I believe her. I have asked her for their names, I intend to call them to find out if she's telling the truth.

2007-07-12 12:57:03 · 41 answers · asked by Johnny Guano 3

2007-07-12 12:53:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We spoke and decided to work things out due to our kids. The problem is even though we are both trying to move forward, it is extremely hard for me. I get flashbacks and her treason feels like it just happened yesterday. I wonder if these feelings will ever go away? Any suggestions from anyone in a similar situation?

2007-07-12 12:43:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for a year and a half. We got married quickly in Vegas. Soon, things started going downhill. Since I had a savings, I had to use a lot of it for furniture and apt. deposits. I also bought my own ring and his as well. He made all these promises to me that we would go on a honeymoon and we would have a party. After about 7 months of being married I had to quit my job so I could do my internship for school. He was aware of this, and then quit his job because he thought he could make more money doing real estate. He made nothing and we ran out of money. Now that i've graduated, he got a job that is just enough to pay our bills. We haven't been able to go anywhere or do anything due to his poor choices. He hasn't been really supportive. I got a job that pays more than his and I feel a lot of resentment because now we can do more from my salary. I feel like I have had to be the responsible one. I feel like he hasn't reciprocated much effort. I have no feelings for him.

2007-07-12 12:38:16 · 20 answers · asked by Strawberry shortcake 1

2007-07-12 12:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by U1S2K3O4 2

We go to the fair in October, and I was running around with him and my 10 yr old, and his wife was there too, but she was running around with their 12 yr old daughter, he mad eyes at me, and even gave me a hug when I left, his wife did not see that hug, or him making eyes at me. I bet he does not tell here when he does those things with me.

2007-07-12 12:26:45 · 15 answers · asked by mldavr29 1

2007-07-12 12:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by baby boo 1

2 yrs ago my husband and I, we had it good he layed brick for a living. I didnt have to work.Paid our bills. Now since he says he has vertigo all the time he can't drive. He drives everywhere else just too sick to drive to a job.We saw many doctors- couldnt explain it. So I worked while he thought and thought and thought. Then he opened a automotive business and still doesnt make enough to pay bills. Now I have a judgement against me- he ran up credit cards too. I sought a bankruptcy attorney and he said we could file. I just don't even have the money for that much less bills, groceries, things kids need, etc................, I dont understand why he wont do something more. anything to make money. I am going to have to get 2 jobs. The last one i had was killing me. I feel very angry with my husband. I feel he should help me more. I dont think most of the bills should fall in my lap. I am afraid i will become bitter and angry. He used to be a workaholic- Any advice?

2007-07-12 12:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by springreed 2

Anyone had any experience ? If so what was the outcome ?

2007-07-12 12:10:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married on June 23rd of 2007. I love my wife with all my heart. She works as an independent jewler for a jewlrey company that is known world wide. She told me before we got married on the 23rd that she wanted to go to a nationals training show in Texas from July 11th to the 15th. It's not manditory, but it helps people like her who have a tough time with this business kind of break out of their shell and get their business off the ground. I told her I really didn't want her to go because of how close it was to our wedding date. She kept saying that this would be good for her so she could start making some money with the business. I told her that if it was in September or something I wouldn't feel this way about it because it wouldn't be so close to our wedding date. Dispite how much I told her I didn't want her to go she went anyway. Should this bother me or am I just being an idiot?

2007-07-12 12:07:44 · 41 answers · asked by gamelover 5

I'm going out tonight w/o my husband. I'm not telling him, I'm not asking him and I'm not answering my cell phone when he calls me. I'm also gonna come home at 3 am so damn drunk, I wont be able to walk up my stairs to bed.

This is one of several scenarios that he does to me, and just once, I want him to know how it feels. In a way he already knows I am going to do this, I told him that someday I would return the favor; well, tonight I am doing it.

I know its childish, but I say, "whatever" to that. He obviously don't care when he does it to me, so why should I care? Maybe a taste of his own medicine will wise his a s s up a bit.

2007-07-12 11:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 11:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by baby boo 1

Someone on here just asked if you picked your ring out or did he, but it made me sad because I didnt get a ring, is that a bad thing, we dont have a lot of money but we have enough to where I could have gotten a ring. How many people got a ring, and how many didnt?

2007-07-12 11:25:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend wife keep sleeping around with her friend then coming back to him,she is also a christian that go to church ever sunday.he cannot understand why and what make her do this, can you.

2007-07-12 10:28:15 · 32 answers · asked by ragsdee 2

My husband left me for another female 8 months ago. We have a 14 month old daughter. I filed for divorce and he sometimes acts like he wants to work it out but a few days later he changes his mind. He's not happy with her, his family hates her, etc. But enough is enough, I can't wait anymore hoping that he'll come to his senses. I don't HAVE to be with him, I just can't imagine raising my daughter without her daddy. He says he loves her and misses her but he out right refuses to come see her, there's always something more important. He has not come one single time in 8 months to see her, not even her first Christmas, New Years, Valentines, Easter, Birthday... no calls, no gifts, no money. After all that I still love him and wish we could work it out even though he's living with this B**** who assaulted me while I was holding my daughter while my husband stood and watched and did nothing. My question is, what can I tell myself to let go? I can't imagine being a single mom.

2007-07-12 10:22:05 · 18 answers · asked by newmom06 2

ok my husband doesn't want a child but I do,and now I'm pregnant.I don't know how to tell him.Any suggestions on how to tell him?

2007-07-12 09:43:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 09:40:42 · 18 answers · asked by franj 2

my husband is leaving me. i dont why he says im a lier and tht i go out behind hs back. which isnt true. im always home lock up like ifi as in jail. i hae 2 kids and im always with hem.

2007-07-12 09:38:54 · 23 answers · asked by mbuden07 1

(i do not mean to offend anyone) but seriously when it gets freezing cold...i as a man slide my hand down to my warm sack and cup it...to keep my hands warm of course!! (imagine al bundy)...she thinks i should stop...what do you guys think?...do you guys do it too? am i alone on this?...

2007-07-12 09:33:52 · 27 answers · asked by Beep Beep!! 1

is this some kind of appreciating trouble? i have 7 girlfriends and they all pregnant, one is my neighbour's duaghter she is just 16yrs and i am 20 years , i don't know what to do with these pregnant cocubines i think i'm gone take off to africa , yes that the only solution i have now do you have any ideal of how to go about it ?

2007-07-12 09:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bro in law & i have always had a love and hate relaionship. After his marriage .. we dint fight for awhile but things came back to normal soon. we live in joint family . few days back his wife was unwell and i fetched the med's he had needed for her and he was rather rough with me . he indirectly threw me oout of the room. followed by mild insults following day .

yeah ..he was a great friend and maybe he is important but im just not sure i can take this any more. its my birthday in 2 days . so he is trying to patronize. im little sick so he cooked eggs for me and woke me and wanted to feed me.( hubby was with our kids..he knew about the eggs) but i denied and said i'l have them .
i feel extremly used .. is it fair to treat someone always acc to your whims ??

Do you think i did right ..not eat from his hands???

im so unsure?

2007-07-12 09:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by barley 2

is that to much to ask .

2007-07-12 09:28:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I got married 4 months ago and was pregnant. We had been trying for over a year to have a baby though so it was everything I wanted. Well I had a miscarriage and long story short I was so depressed I cheated on my husband with my ex boyfriend. Well we both decided it was a mistake and to keep it quiet but today I get a message on myspace from his mother! Telling me that she is going to find a way to contact my husband and tell him everything and if I text, call, message or anything to my ex that I will be "finished" That's what she said. I am worried sick. It's been like 2 months since the affair. I love my husband and don't want him to leave me. I'm not sure if there is a way she could find to contact him. Should I wait it out or come clean with everything first. The reason I didn't tell him in the first place was because I swore to myself never to do it again and realized it was the past why hurt my husband who loves me so much with pain........now I wonder if I should tell him??

2007-07-12 09:18:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 09:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by Cali Mom 2

If you knew your husband had a fetish for pantyhose and heels, would you wear them to please him? My wife never wears them, and I would love to ask my wife to wear pantyhose in bed, but don't know how.

2007-07-12 08:44:05 · 17 answers · asked by jo123 1

My boyfriend asked me this question and I honestly didnt know what to say. So what does marriage mean to you?

2007-07-12 08:42:58 · 35 answers · asked by Illy 1

2007-07-12 08:17:29 · 90 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you do not like how your child's father treated you, would you want him around your kid? If you feel he would be a bad influence is it wrong to keep him away? No abuse involved. Lets say the child's father has cheated on you and is a liar....you don't want him to teach your child his morals and ethics do you (esp your son)? Is it wrong to keep the father away from a child when the mother has been wronged by the father?

2007-07-12 08:04:08 · 26 answers · asked by knk724 3

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and we have a decent sex life making love 2 to 3 times a week..Of course he doesnt have a problem discussing our sex life but he seems uncomfortable talking about masturbation,fantasies and if we are watching tv together and see a good looking woman i will say to him "what do you think of her"..These things i have mentioned he wont talk about and its not a problem just wondering if other men are like this..I thought all men liked talking about this stuff..I know what your gonna say masturbation and fantasies are a part of talking about your sex life but these few things he isnt comfortable talking about..So like i said are other men like this?

2007-07-12 08:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do when you have the person you love most, constantly accuse you of being a cheater and a liar? How do you deal when your fiancé constantly calls you a whore just because he's insecure? I don't know what to do. He harrases me at work, he's manipulative. He'll manipulate a situation just to get what he wants. He treats me like he's my parent and not an equal. I love him so much, but I don't know how much I can take of the insults and the name calling.

If I ask him or even mention the word therapist, he thinks that I think he's crazy and that he doesn't need to see one.

Should I leave the person I love most or stick it out some more?

2007-07-12 08:01:17 · 88 answers · asked by Catherine J 2