my husband is leaving me. i dont why he says im a lier and tht i go out behind hs back. which isnt true. im always home lock up like ifi as in jail. i hae 2 kids and im always with hem.
2007-07-12 09:38:54 · 23 answers · asked by mbuden07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then as sad as it is let him go......You don't need someone in your life and in your children's life like him....He is probably just using this as an excuse because he has nothing else to accuse of you....I know this must be hard but, in the long run you will realize that you don't deserve someone who is going to just walk out like that on you and the kids....Your main focus needs to be on yourself first....He's not worthy of having you and the children as his family....Don't let him break you, our only weaknesses should only come from our children....I wish you all the BEST***
2007-07-12 10:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This marriage is begging to be ended. It is definitely a very unhealthy relationship. It's good that he wants the divorce, it will make it easier on you that if you did and he objected and fought you on it.
Sweetie, you are going to be so much happier in the future, even tho you cannot see that now. This guy was a very big mistake for you to marry and has to come to an end!! Whatever you do, don't fight the divorce, get on with it as soon as possible. There are groups and agencies that can help you. You sound like you've been isolated. Your husband sounds like he might have a mental illness called paranoia in which people are very suspicious. Either that or as everyone thinks, he is having an affair and that is why he wants out. Who knows! Just get out of this sick marriage. Good luck and God Bless You. Better times are ahead. have faith.
2007-07-12 09:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lean on Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are your questions all over the map? from "Married in love with someone else" "Love 2 great guy's" "Loose my appartment" " cute girl with big breast dating guy's only like me for my looks" "Im a player"... Now your telling us you're a stay at home Mom 2 kids and never go out.
I'm leaning towards your husbands side... someone isn't telling the facts as they are.
If all these questions are hypothetical, then let us know so we can make up some hypothetical answers.
2007-07-12 09:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spell check, please.
What do you mean what should you do? If he doesn't want to be with you, why are you trying to change his mind? Seems like he's making up excuses to justify his leaving, when really, he may just not want to be married to you anymore. I hope you have a job and can support yourself. The kids will be taken care of with child support and your part too. Since you're always at home, I doubt you have a job. I'm guessing you're one of those women who are completely dependent on her husband for everything. Good luck with that.
2007-07-12 09:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully u have a seperate account! but im srry to hear that. but u both know where u are but hes probably out ******* some other femal and doesnt want to be the blame in front of his friends and family let him divorce u but talk everything he has in return and find u a really good man that trusts u and that u can trust and make sure u have a seperate account so that u have something to fall on just in case!!!
2007-07-12 09:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by ajoi2baround 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then, perhaps you should send his @ss to hell!! Get on with your life and find someone who will appreciate you. You do not need to be a prisoner in your own home! You deserve to be happy. Don't ever make a man the center of your universe. You and your children are NUMBER 1!!!
2007-07-12 10:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have a better life after he is gone. Know your rights and stick to them. You need trust in a marriage, and you can't trust him to trust you. Sounds like a bad roller coaster. If you want to save it i suggest seeing a marriage counselor.
2007-07-12 09:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry your husband is leaving you - what a terrible thing to go through. It sounds as though you've had issues for a while though. See if he'll go to marriage counseling, if not you should go to counseling for yourself.
2007-07-12 09:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by alyanna99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he is the one that most likely found another and blaming you. Or he just wants out and makeing excuses
2007-07-12 09:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by bi_babe28f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and give him the divorce. Then go and live free.
2007-07-12 09:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋