ok my husband doesn't want a child but I do,and now I'm pregnant.I don't know how to tell him.Any suggestions on how to tell him?
2007-07-12 09:43:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you should have figured all this out before you go married. Just come out and tell him that you are indeed pregnant. Just dont expect him to be happy about it if he said he didnt want any
2007-07-12 09:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your avatar a male? Hmmm.....this is either a fake question or your a gay couple but hmm how could you be pregnant?
Anyways maybe your the husband who doesn't want a child and suspects his wife is pregnant? Hmm...
Anyways maybe this is true and you are a pregnant girl then obviously ya'll weren't using protection so I would just tell him and he may not like it but he'll get used to it especially when he looks into the babies eyes........no father/mother can turn their back on their baby........ right?
2007-07-12 09:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Hey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me knew before you married this man? Come on...you knew...if you did...and if he honestly felt that way. Someone should have taken steps to prevent kids for coming into the picture. Its too late now.
If he feels strongly about this...then you might as well start packing because he is not going to be happy camper. I hope you have a job to support yourself and the baby. He may be very hesitated in assisting you in that nature.
Good luck
2007-07-12 10:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like I told my guy....You knocked me up. I'm keeping it, I know its a shock so I'll give you some time to decide, Either you are all in or you are all out, either way is ok with me. So long as the child has a happy and healthy home, its all that matters to me.
2007-07-12 09:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u could never go wrong with cake so go buy a cake and have them write on it
congradulations ur a daddy ... and have them put the baby booties on it ..
go with the cake it worked with my husband and hes the best father i have seen we now have a 5 year old daugther and a 2 year old son and im pregnant with number 3
2007-07-12 10:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough.. If he was not ready or did not want kids why did you allow yourself to get pregnant? You need to tell right away. I am sure he will fill mixed emotions.. It could be a deal breaker.. Did you two not talk about having or not having a family prior to your marriage? Be honest..... best of luck....
2007-07-12 09:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee maybe this could have been discussed BEFORE the marriage. Just ask for the divorce now and get it over with. How sad.
2007-07-12 09:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him who knows he might be happy i had a friend whos husband didnt want any kids but when she got pregnant she made him a nice dinner and told him over desert he was shocked at first but accepted it and now he is inseperable from his son
2007-07-12 09:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by bi_babe28f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man doesn't want to have children he should have a vasectomy. If he doesn't want to do that, he may just not want to have kids with you. Good luck on passing that baby Jake.
2007-07-12 09:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Cat onahottinroof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok "jake" are you a girl??? weird cause your avatare is male but anyways ,didnt you guys talk about this before you got married ?and if you are pregnant go ahead and tell him he either accepts it or not .
2007-07-12 09:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pregnant with baby # 2 :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋