my friend wife keep sleeping around with her friend then coming back to him,she is also a christian that go to church ever sunday.he cannot understand why and what make her do this, can you.
2007-07-12 10:28:15 · 32 answers · asked by ragsdee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she doesnt love him or want to be with him.
or
she's a ho.
2007-07-12 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi and Good morning....Unfortunately, this woman doesn't have any respect for herself or her husband. Just because she goes to church doesn't necessarily mean she's a Christian. Sorry to say. What she doesn't realize is that she's committing a "mortal sin" which is not a good thing in the eyes of God. This is referred to "adultery" and God doesn't approve of such acts from His children. Now if I was her husband per say, I wouldn't be letting this type of behavior to continue. He needs to inform his wife that it's either him that she wants or this friend of hers. She can't have both. They might want to look into marriage counseling. This might help the issue but it may or may not help the problem. How long have they been married? Maybe her marriage is missing something that you don't know about. Whatever the reason, in Gods eyes she committing a "mortal sin" to where she will need to confess her sins. If she's Catholic she'll need a priest. One can't determine on why an individual commits a behavior such as this, and no one has the right to judge another for their faults except for God. I hope this has helped in some small way. Have a blessed day!
2007-07-20 02:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may claim to be a Christian, but she isn't being Christlike!! Going to church doesn't make you a Christian, serving and obeying God makes you a Christian. The bible talks very clearly about adultery. If this was a 1 time thing, I'd say get some counseling. If this is on-going he needs to get out of the marriage. Biblically he is not obligated to continue being married to someone that is an adulterer.
2007-07-19 16:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Angie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you also need to ask why a man would stoop so low the sleep with his wife's friend. There are two people there, and they share just as much of the responsiblitiy.
2016-05-21 00:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend seem like he's a good man and his wife has some issues that she need to deal with mean while if she's not willing to get help and deal with her issues then he need to leave her b/c he deserves so much better.
2007-07-19 01:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Christian has nothing to do with this. She is just selfish and probably goes to church for show. That is what makes her do this. She CHOOSES to.
2007-07-19 13:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a sick twisted freak. Christianity has nothing to do with it. You're friend needs to confront his wife, deal with his marital problems and remedy this matter once and for all (time).
2007-07-20 10:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a ho, using the church as a back up. I wouldn't want my wife around her if I were you.
2007-07-20 04:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is a women that have lust in her spirit. She doesn't honor her marriage, and is not a real christian. I hope on Sunday the pastor preach on women thou are lose.
2007-07-20 02:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend needs to wise up and realize that she is playing him. She is not being true to him, I think it is time to move on and fine someone with better morals.
2007-07-18 11:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she goes to church does not make her Christian...it makes her a hypocrite.
I don't know how she does it, or why your friend is willing to put up with it.
2007-07-12 10:34:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋