Many times I have mentioned my divorce problem. I have took divorce from my husband. He never cares me and loved me.His family also torcher me.
I was always polite with everyone with my in-laws and my husband. Till six years of my marriage I try to solve all problems.But no result. Now everything have finished. I have took divorce.Buth some person advise me that because you was polite thats why your husband and your in-laws torcher you. I you took bold step against them then every thing could be O.k. But I tried my level best for settle everything but I was failed.I have no kid so some people suggest if you have a kid then all will be fine. Is all that true. Please advise.
Poonam
2007-07-12 23:28:47 · 6 answers · asked by poonam s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
having a kid in a bad relationship is the worst thing you can do... if the foundation is corrupted, then a baby will only make it worse because it adds extra pressure.
2007-07-12 23:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poonam,
i got the same crappy advice. See if a child could save a marriage then there would not be so many broken homes. Imagine, if you had kids then divorce would have happened anyway, except now you would be stuck dealing with your inlaws for the rest of you life.
Also, finding a new person is harder if you have kids. You will be fine :)
2007-07-13 11:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Centered 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby will not solve anything!
In fact it may make it worse since you will have less time for each other, and the adjustments and sacrifices you have to make in your life for a child are hard enough on strong marriages.
Please don't have a baby, you don't want to have to raise him in a split family.
If you have tried to fix it and have not yet done so, rather let go and give yourself a chance to find happiness and then in that relationship raise a family
2007-07-13 06:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by *Lee*D* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Children are never the answer to solving bad marriages. Please don't bring a helpless child into an already doomed relationship.
2007-07-13 06:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi poonam
i just read ur truly very pain full story if u dont mind mujhse shadi karogi
2007-07-13 06:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bring a defenseless child into this environment?
2007-07-17 06:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋