Am I the only person unhappy with their marriage?

Question

I commited my life to this marriage, but I am so unhappy. Am I alone? How do I get through this? Any suggestions, insights, etc? I'm so lost.

Answer 1

Many people get married and do not realize that there will be times in the marriage when they will question whether the marriage was right or wrong. Before you make any rash moves, try getting some marriage counseling. I would hate to see you regret leaving later.

Answer 2

You are not alone. You need to get out and talk to your close friends or family. You also need to talk to your husband. Find out what ismaking yourself so unhappy. If nothing at all go to a marriage counselor they will have so many suggestions and insights based on your personal situation.

Answer 3

nooooo, you are very much not alone! I am unhappy also.
I am lost, confused, and so much more. I don't know details of what's going on in your marriage, but mine has to do with infedelity and the loss of love after being with my husband for 15 years. This is quite a blow! All I know is that I have to do what is right for me and my children, and I have to do things the right way because we only get one chance at doing the right thing because we can't go back and change things once we do them! I'm sorry you are feeling this way, I hope you find your way and find the way to happiness!

Answer 4

I committed the last 5 years to a one sided marriage. I don't know your situation but I'm not happy.

Answer 5

hi, i am looking for answers as well and, no you are not alone.i am in a similar situation.We have a newborn together too.I to am unhappy in my marriage and feel trapped just because i dont know where i would go. I am lost as well, but always could use a friendly word or two.

Answer 6

It is difficult to answer your question without more information, however if you are feeling unhappy, perhaps you should take a good look at the things that are causing you to feel this way. If you can not, then perhaps you need to see a therapist so she/he can sort it out with you.

Answer 7

first off you have to ask yourself why your unhappy in your marriage. then once you know why depending on what it is you should go see a councelar who can help paste your marriage back together because it has fallen apart. dont give up on the one you love remember you married him for a reason for love.

Answer 8

First of all, why did you choose him for a husband? So your'e partly to blame. Are you making him be a jerk toward you, by trying to change him? Divorce is such a easy cop-out. Are you from a divorce family? Where's your commitment. Or you want to be a statistict?

Answer 9

i feel your pain cause I'm in a similer situation but i'm leaving girl,,,,, we don't talk or even sleep together or nothing i'm about to graduate from college,, i'm going to make it i know when i walk out that door there is no turning back for me i just have to keep moving forward,,,, i've been with this man for ten yrs the last 5 really sucked we've been through some drama and thats what i'm tired of,,,, i want to be happy,,, i want to know what it feels like to be appreciated i cook big meals for him and clean and work and pursuing my degree,,, but you know what after its all said and done when i'm gone its going to hit him hard and its going to be too late cause i'm moving on i'm too good for this bull **** that he puts me through,,,, good luck and god bless stay strong in spirit laters tmp

Answer 10

Love Must Be Tough (book) helped me in the past.

I'm just dating this time (was married before). Maybe I ought to read it now for this relationship again tho.......